My good friend is dating a musician, and she's upset that he's obsessed with all things music.
I just got bithced out for telling her if she's not willing to accept that music is his passion- he has played various instruments since age 7, is currently in several different bands at once, his getting his phd in it, takes vacations based around where he can see/ and possibly learn different styles/subgenres of it, and he hangs out with a ton of other like minded musicians- that she should GTFO.
I undertsand it can be frusterating. My own dad is a 63 year old musician who never gave up his dream of being a rock star. But, it's his passion. It's not on the table for negotiation. Am I a bitch for telling her this? WTF? Why the fuck is she so mad at ME now?
How would you feel if all your SO did was bitch and moan and give ultimatums for you to give up your passion?



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