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    Default Just need some reassurance that not every internet forum is a bitchfest?

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    Default Re: Just need some reassurance that not every internet forum is a bitchfest?

    Quote Originally Posted by MissKatie View Post
    I am sitting here with a red face and my heart pounding because i am so worked up over the bitchiness posted on another forum (not related to camming) that i use. Some girls on there are such total BITCHES and don't care what they say or how their words affect others. I know it's stupid to give even a second of my time to worrying over it, but i can't help it. I'm upset, angry, and questioning myself... please tell me there ARE some internet forums that DON'T turn out like that? Gah, if only
    I know it's hard to say don't let these things get to you, but it affects everyone whether its in a good way or bad way. All i can say is don't get too worked up over other people. I'm new to this forum but so far the girls have been nice to me & pretty funny. I'm pretty nice and rather chill most the time, so you can count on me not to be a total bitch. haha Hope this helps somewhat.

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    Default Re: Just need some reassurance that not every internet forum is a bitchfest?

    Um. Nope. Pretty much every forum of any topic across the Internet.

    Id give you hope, but I dont wanna lead you on

    Seriously though, dont get worked up...just use the ignore button.

    Like, when I first first first started in on boards like 14 years ago...everything offended me!

    I was like "Oh my word!", "The gall!", "Why I never!"

    ...and then one day I was like..."oh fuck it who cares"

    Cause there are going to be some honest to goodness amazing and wonderful people to come across...

    But even leches to society are allowed internet access. Just dont mind them.
    Too many good cool, engaging and intelligent people out there to waste time on the folks that arent.
    Don't blink. Don't even blink. Blink and you're dead. Don't turn your back. Don't look away. And don't blink!

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    Default Re: Just need some reassurance that not every internet forum is a bitchfest?

    Well It deals.. From what I have seen this and two other forums I visit are the least bitchy and attacking forums I been to. I been to forums where if someone says hi.. it blows up to ten pages of they are a troll/whore/bitch/fake/etc... And that was their first post..

    So I believe this is one of the nicer forums, it still has fights and stuff but its not a whole dagger to the throat type of place.

    I know a few good ones my friend is on, I only lurk never post.

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    Default Re: Just need some reassurance that not every internet forum is a bitchfest?

    I belong to different forums. Not all are even adult related, and there is always at least a few trolls. That's just how it is. There will always be bitchy people, and assholes. They will always be on forums lol.
    Taking a break from all unproductive shit will prove to be the best choice you can make.

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    Default Re: Just need some reassurance that not every internet forum is a bitchfest?

    Thanks girls. I hate posting personal/ unrelated to camming stuff here, but i had to get that out as the other half isn't here to whine at LOL! Unfortunately that forum doesn't have an ignore or block option, and the mods don't feel it necessary to IP ban anybody incase they get aorund it by using their phones instead. I'd leave but it's been a very useful place for me. Anyhoo, thanks for letting me get that out of my system xx

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    I solemnly swear never to bitch you out

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    Default Re: Just need some reassurance that not every internet forum is a bitchfest?

    Oh...and when youre already worked up over something...its hard to calm down again. I mean, Im not *always* super chill. Just that when I am actually angry, all hell breaks the fuck loose! That whole "its the nice ones youve gotta be careful of" thing is very true in my case.

    You all would probably think my acct got hijacked if you saw me mad hah! Aye!

    Anyway, what Ive learned to do is step away...far away...like get away from whatever medium the issue is coming from. If its online, a board, email, IM, text, calls whatever...I will leave the house, and leave my phone at home...and go do anything...go for a walk, go have coffee, head to the beach...anything to step away from it. I might fume and run things around in my head and get all anxious wanting to go back and see if anything else has been said, but I MAKE myself stay away.

    Even just an hour or two helps *a lot* When I go back to it..Im usually not hearly as upset, the situation is already being diffused because *I* am. Once Im not so upset anymore, and thinking more clearly and rationally, my perception of the whole situation starts to change too. Even better, if I knock out and get some sleep...I always wake up feeling way better and not caring about whatever the issue was about.

    And bonus..in the meantime, usually the other person has wrecked themselves into some crazy decline, wondering why Im not replying...of course out of morbid curiosity, Ill read it all, or listen to my vm, or what have you....and usually Im like..wow, glad I wasnt around for *that* tirade! And then life goes on.
    Don't blink. Don't even blink. Blink and you're dead. Don't turn your back. Don't look away. And don't blink!

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    Default Re: Just need some reassurance that not every internet forum is a bitchfest?

    Some people just have bad attitudes and too much time on their hands so unfortunately you'll find negative people everywhere whether on the internet or in person. Luckily most people are not like that and I feel bad for the ones that are because they must not be very happy with themselves. Don't let it bother you

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    Default Re: Just need some reassurance that not every internet forum is a bitchfest?

    Quote Originally Posted by ScarlettJanuary View Post
    I solemnly swear never to bitch you out
    hahaha thanks. Somehow i get the feeling that most ladies on here are capable of conducting themselves for the most part well, even when shit does blow up

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    Default Re: Just need some reassurance that not every internet forum is a bitchfest?

    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    And bonus..in the meantime, usually the other person has wrecked themselves into some crazy decline, wondering why Im not replying...of course out of morbid curiosity, Ill read it all, or listen to my vm, or what have you....and usually Im like..wow, glad I wasnt around for *that* tirade! And then life goes on.
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    You're a Doll, MsK.


    MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP

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    Default Re: Just need some reassurance that not every internet forum is a bitchfest?

    I've found this forum to be pretty chill. There is some cattiness, but it seems to only come from a few specific girls. I haven't found the ignore button on this forum yet. But so far I haven't really needed it because I just stay out of whatever drama there is. In fact, there are a few ladies whose threads I won't even read because the purpose of them seems to be to get other people (and themselves) worked up. I see no need to get involved in that. If someone were to attack me for something I said, I would probably be really upset, but I think I'd just not respond. I think it's pretty cool that most people on here are reasonable enough to apologize when someone else points out bitchiness in a post.

    So far, I like being on this forum and for the most part people have been very nice to me. So... I think maybe you found an answer to your question in this forum.

    Added later in the day... Just found and used the "ignore" function for the first time. Haha, funny since I had just posted this before I needed to use it. But it's all good. Mostly it's pretty good on here and haven't encountered much animosity directed at me anyway.
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