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    I was talking to an old friend today and in general conversation my job came up (we've known each other for nearly 2 years, and I've been a cam girl for nearly 3). She asked where I was working, and I said "same job." Her reply was "Woman, you need a mommy job." Wtf is a mommy job? It got me thinking and wondering how camming is going to affect my child in the future (if it affects them at all). Do any of you moms who cam worry about stuff like that? I never really thought about it too much until now.

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    I dunno that's always tough...

    I have been camming for 9 years. I have 4 boys ranging from 3 years old to 16 years old.
    It hasn't affected my kids any. But I try to remain fairly private. If I have to post a city somewhere I normally don't put down the correct one. The town I live in is very small and religious for that matter.

    I don't think any of us want it to affect our children but there's always that chance. I love my job tho and can't imagine changing.

    It's given me the chance to be home with them while thier young and needy. And for the older ones given me extra money for football gear and money to attend all thier games n such.
    I like to think it does more good than harm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sinistress View Post
    I dunno that's always tough...

    I have been camming for 9 years. I have 4 boys ranging from 3 years old to 16 years old.
    It hasn't affected my kids any. But I try to remain fairly private. If I have to post a city somewhere I normally don't put down the correct one. The town I live in is very small and religious for that matter.

    I don't think any of us want it to affect our children but there's always that chance. I love my job tho and can't imagine changing.

    It's given me the chance to be home with them while thier young and needy. And for the older ones given me extra money for football gear and money to attend all thier games n such.
    I like to think it does more good than harm.

    I feel the same way...My son isn't even a year yet, so I love that my job has given me the freedom to be home with him and not having to work double the hours that I work now. Right now, I don't see how my job is affecting my son, and besides society's opinion on my job, I'm happy with it.

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    To me..this *is* a mommy job.

    Even as a single parent, I get what I feel is the luxury of being a stay at home mom and here for my daughter when she needs me. Whether shes sick and needs me to pick her up from school, or she forgot her report on the dining table and Ive gotta race out there to get it to her, or when she gets home...she knows Im here and can tell me every single detail of every single class, the kids, who said what did what blah blah and Im not tired, annoyed, just want to be left along cause Ive been dealing with my own drama at work and not in the mood to hear it...when she has time off of school, we can go off and do things on the fly....the list goes on.

    Since the day she started pre-school I have been here for her...shes now in high school, and its no different. For 3 months I worked at a restaurant, and though the pay really sucked, what sucked even more was coming home and she was already in bed...and I missed any 411 on how her day went. Or even on my days off, I was SO exhausted that I was either sleeping or just wanted some time to myself....we talked A LOT less, I saw her A LOT less, and at one point she told me its so wierd how we live int he same house, but we never see or talk to each other and that she misses me....

    That job had to go. So yeah....this is the best mommie job I could have. Especially as a single mom, cause it allows me to actually be here for my daughter. which I think is a huge part of her success in school, and also why shes as independent as she is....she never felt like she had to cling onto me every moment cause I was always there anyway...
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    I totally agree with this! Screw the haters! This is the best mommy job. You are actually getting paid! It's not like one of those work at home business or whatever that so many other moms try to get out and do, and have a hard time trying to sell like Scentsy, or Tupperware, or whatever. I think all moms WANT to be home for their kids. If you are working a 9-5, you are rushing to get through rush hour traffic to go pick up the kids from school if they are in aftercare, then you have to help with homework, cook, clean, and put them to bed. It's a non-stop, and you have to deal with the stresses from a boss at work. Now don't get me wrong I had a 9-5 for many years, and the only thing I liked about it was the benefits. That's about it. I was getting paid decent, but then I stopped working at that company, and since trying to find another 9-5 job what you get now, is a low paying $10 an hour job, (thank you economy) and overworked, micromanaged, gossip in the office....I can go on and on.

    OR....you can stay at home...make GOOD money. Be there for your kids. Put them in a dance class, or whatever. Do fun things with them!! When you are living paycheck to paycheck and you have kids. THAT'S HARD. When you are a single mom, and the father doesn't pay his child support. THAT'S HARD.

    Just another reason why I am going back to the camming world. When I told my friends I was going to webcam, (in the beginning days) they were very supportive. They said you do what you need to do. As long as it's legal. ect.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    To me..this *is* a mommy job.

    Even as a single parent, I get what I feel is the luxury of being a stay at home mom and here for my daughter when she needs me. Whether shes sick and needs me to pick her up from school, or she forgot her report on the dining table and Ive gotta race out there to get it to her, or when she gets home...she knows Im here and can tell me every single detail of every single class, the kids, who said what did what blah blah and Im not tired, annoyed, just want to be left along cause Ive been dealing with my own drama at work and not in the mood to hear it...when she has time off of school, we can go off and do things on the fly....the list goes on.

    Since the day she started pre-school I have been here for her...shes now in high school, and its no different. For 3 months I worked at a restaurant, and though the pay really sucked, what sucked even more was coming home and she was already in bed...and I missed any 411 on how her day went. Or even on my days off, I was SO exhausted that I was either sleeping or just wanted some time to myself....we talked A LOT less, I saw her A LOT less, and at one point she told me its so wierd how we live int he same house, but we never see or talk to each other and that she misses me....

    That job had to go. So yeah....this is the best mommie job I could have. Especially as a single mom, cause it allows me to actually be here for my daughter. which I think is a huge part of her success in school, and also why shes as independent as she is....she never felt like she had to cling onto me every moment cause I was always there anyway...




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    I'm trying to break into camming for the sake of my sanity and my children. I largely agree with Sharpies POV. As a single mom I can NOT continue trying to work up to 84 hour a week to keep our needs met. Yeah that pays the bills but I don't see them till 8pm home, eat, sleep and back up and at it by 5am to do it all again? That's not living and it leaves my children to be raised by daycare's and my parents. So no I dont worry about camming negatively affecting my kids. Im more worried I'll have have to go back into nursing or another mainstream job that will suck all my time and energy and kill my spirit ugh! just my 2 cent.

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    I stopped camming last November but it was the best job to have with atoddler. It gigves you the freedom you dont have when you work a reall job or come home at 4am after being at a club all night.

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    Yeah, I feel like camming IS a "mommy job." You can work whenever the hell you want, and don't have to worry about some unreasonable boss telling you when you can/cannot have off. Also, if your child is school-age, it allows you to be there to put him/her on the bus in the morning, and get him/her off the bus in the afternoon. Also, you can attend your child's in-school events (like if their class is performing The Nutcracker for parents...lol).
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    I think its one of the best jobs being a mom.
    I get to stay home and put and take my son off the bus. I'm here if he is sick or ever gets hurt.
    & it never affects him.
    I do it when he's gone or asleep.
    I also block my state so there is no way people here can know.

    If they do know, heh. Its a job and a damn good source of money.

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    I have done the independent home contractor " vanilla jobs" taking phone calls for infomercials etc.... Not easy work, those are the worst calls and so pushy with all the upsells. Camming is so much easier and more fun! It's a great mommy job...for the right woman .


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    Quote Originally Posted by kittykrane View Post
    I have done the independent home contractor " vanilla jobs" taking phone calls for infomercials etc....
    Oooo, that sounds like a great cover job!

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    Quote Originally Posted by HighHeelHottie View Post
    Oooo, that sounds like a great cover job!
    Just be careful...*everyone* is looking for some kind of work, and being able to work from home would be a dream. So if you tell people you do something like this, thier first question is...how did you get the job? Who do I call? Can you talk to someone for me? Otherwise, people are just curious and ask a lot of questions.

    The best cover job is one no one wants, and no one wants to hear about
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    I am a mom and camming gives me so much independence. I wish I started camming so much sooner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    Just be careful...*everyone* is looking for some kind of work, and being able to work from home would be a dream. So if you tell people you do something like this, thier first question is...how did you get the job? Who do I call? Can you talk to someone for me? Otherwise, people are just curious and ask a lot of questions.

    The best cover job is one no one wants, and no one wants to hear about
    Lol, true...I've already had awkward convos about my "online customer service job," and 2 incidents where people asked my mom to ask me for help getting hired lol.

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    I agree with what everyone has said. This is the best "mommy" job. Whenever I had a job outside the house it was always a hassle when the kids had the flu or something. Especially if you found out at 5am and you have to be at work at 7am. Most jobs don't take too kindly to you calling off at 5am. And although my mom doesn't work and she has no problem watching my sick kids, I can't call her at 5am to come watch my kids, so I was still at least a few hrs late.

    I love being able to tell my kids they can stay home when they obviously look sick. Instead of telling them to "try to make it thru today and if you're still sick when you come home I'll figure something out for tomorrow." (Which I've actually had to do) Broke my heart every single time but not many jobs are "family friendly" so if you want to keep your job, you show up.

    Not to mention actually being able to enjoy spring break, and Christmas vacation and that. And (nothing against escorts cuz I'm sure no one works this way) it's not like I have strange men coming to my house everyday.

    Anyways, that's how I feel.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    Just be careful...*everyone* is looking for some kind of work, and being able to work from home would be a dream. So if you tell people you do something like this, thier first question is...how did you get the job? Who do I call? Can you talk to someone for me? Otherwise, people are just curious and ask a lot of questions.

    The best cover job is one no one wants, and no one wants to hear about
    You know it! Once, I told one person and they were asking all those questions. Fortunately, with those companies, there is seldom a specific contact to call to hook someone up. Since I only work 10 hours or less a week, I generally don't feel the need to say more than I do ' freelance' stuff if I say anything at all!


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    I even decided I didn't want to block my state. I want ALL the traffic I can get. I figured.. if any1 I know finds out.. well their just buying what I happen to be selling lol. So why should I feel ashamed? I felt MORE ashamed when i had to leave my 5 month old baby 5-7 days a week to work 7a-7p job.

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