At what point do you take off your outfit during a lapdance? And on stage?

At what point do you take off your outfit during a lapdance? And on stage?




Your stage set may depend on your club. They might just tell you, or you can watch and see what the other girls do.
In a topless club with a 3-song set, you usually don't take anything off for the first song and are down to your thong by the last song, with some kind of varying state of undress going on during the second song.
As far as lap-dances, clothes tend to come off fairly quickly. Again, it may depend on your club, and also on the type of dance they bought. For example, if your club has both table dances and private lap dances, some girls won't even take their tops off for the (cheaper) table dance. Others will, but will have little to no contact. In the private room, it's pretty much expected that you will undress to whatever the standard is for that club/type of dance (topless, nude). You can undress as quickly or slowly as you want. If they bought a string of dances, you may want to take your time.
Some girls prefer the slow, seductive striptease, and some prefer to just get naked immediately and dance. Customer preferences also vary. There are discussions and debates all over this forum about which method is better, but there doesn't seem to be any clear consensus on which way is best. Just do what you're more comfortable with.
"I didn't discover curves; I only uncovered them"
- Mae West
On stage I would say do what you feel comfortable, just please don't get naked five seconds into the song when nobody is even offering you a dollar it looks sad and pathetic and I have seen new girls do itwell I have seen alot of desperate dancers do it too (desperate is just a fact.)
In lap dances It would depend on the guy for me, for drunk college dudes top comes off as soon as he sits down and i start dancing.
If the guys were actual patrons that come to actually enjoy a strip tease I would give them just that, most of the time they would be so taken back by that I didnt even have to touch them lmao
I'd say a good rule of thumb is to have at least a minute or so left of your last song on stage or first song during a lap dance where you're in the total state of undress (be that nude or topless, depending on your club).


So I mostly work/ed nude clubs. On stage it was all depending on how many songs I was on for. If I did single stage 3 song set then it was clothed first song. topless second since and then fully nude third song. I don't pole stage much anymore as I VIP/champagne room mostly now.
So... champagne/vip I wear only a little outfit and heels/pumps of course. I serve drinks until I get asked to sit then the table has to buy a champagne. Once I sit I can undress or show off as I try to get someone to take me to private VIP and then I am nude. But VIP/champagne is different than stage. I like VIP much more!![]()
My club told me my top had to be off at the beginning of the lapdance :/
Two songs on stage, had to be topless by the beginning of the second. Some girls just went topless the whole time.




Depends on the length of the dance, but onstage we have to be nude fir the last 10secs of the dance. No more. Sometimes less.




I take all my clothes off before a lap dance begins, right at the end of the song before the next one starts.
On stage I either come out topless or take my top off within the first 30 seconds (club rule). On the second song I take my underwear off within the first 30 seconds (club rule).
Girls that dance around on stage fully clothed for 2/3 of their set look dumb to me. I don't understand the logic.
If you are willing to do for one year what other's won't, you can spend a lifetime doing what other's cant.




^^ Some girls won't undress until people start tipping them. I think it's more of a "if you wanna see, you gotta pay" type thing.
I'm usually out of my clothes early into the 2nd song of a 3 song set, but if there are little to no tippers within a minute into the thrid song, I'll start getting dressed again.
"I didn't discover curves; I only uncovered them"
- Mae West




Depends on the club.
We don't undress onstage unless it's a show but for lap dances I generally sit on their lap, play with my boobs and take my top off in the first 30 seconds. Between a song and a song and a half in I'll take my bottoms off. (Most dances we sell at my club are 3 songs - if it's a one song dance, it's just a quicker version of this and my g-string will be off after about 45secs-1min)
Some mistakes are too much fun to only make once.




I mean, I get that--but I just think girls who dance around refusing to get naked until they make $3 look stuck up and it makes them look like even more of a tease.
Girls who act petty over dollar bills don't look like they are having much fun, IMO. From the customer's perspective I would think they want to see a dancer who is excited to be on stage and who is having fun, and has energy and moves with the beat. That doesn't mean you have to do a full spread or titty fuck the pole, just a good attitude.
Standing on stage fully clothed for 3 minutes demanding that someone gives you a dollar looks childish. I think most of us make enough during dances to make up for the lack of stage tips we sometimes encounter.
GET NAKED!![]()
If you are willing to do for one year what other's won't, you can spend a lifetime doing what other's cant.




Whatever you do don't pull your thong halfway down and keep wandering around the pole. It looks like you've run out of toilet paper and are looking for more...




lol we have a dancer who does this. She kinda pulls it halfway down her butt to start, but doesn't pull it off and keeps wandering about and it eventually works its way down on its own. It's weird because she's normally a really good dancer, but at this point in the set it's like "wtf are you doing?"
Ok...let me just say NEVER take all your bottom half off, leaving just your bra on, it looks RIDICULOUS on stage
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I get $100, $200, and $300 in private VIP/Champagne but it varies club to club.
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