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    Dizzy How to HUSTLE without Feeling Bad? How to be MORE Aggressive?

    Lately I realize..I need to polish my HUSTLING skills. As I do mostly private dancing for Bachelor parties, businessmen etc.. The offers I get for Sugar Daddy or Escorting are lucrative and I am considering escorting now. Anyways...please teach me..give me tips..how to be more assertive..when hustling? How to enter this state of mind? How to not worry about making a customer bankrupt? As long as he keep offering to buy..then just take it. Sometimes I worry that I am too greedy, even when customers offer more money..I keep thinking I already get a lot so to give good impression, I better accept it on next meeting----> wrong thinking. I really need to fix my thinking. Please help me!

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    Men know what they're getting themselves into when they walk into a club or order a private dancer/show. They want you to take their $!

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    Ask as if you mean it, if you get a bad reaction, laugh it off and drop a lower number. But aim high to begin with. And believe you're worth it.

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    Thanks MissTyler & Kitinboots

    Wow, this forum really open my eyes. This knowledge, all of this is gold! Really!
    I mean, I used to be clueless about hustling. I used to feel guilty, bad, shy and inferior..especially in front of big shot custies. But now, not anymore. I can glide with more ease..I can persuade..and thanks to SW Hustle Hut for teaching that "No doesn't always mean No".

    When one angle is stuck, we have to think fast for another angle. When I fail at one hustle, I study my mistake and try to do better next time. It really is a challenge.

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    feeling badly about taking someone's money? girl, get a massage and take a multivitamin. that will get you right with jesus.

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    Feeling bad about doing your job won't put food on your table.

    You just to have to realize that everyone who comes into the club is an adult, hopefully they have looked over their finances before they came in and set aside an amount they can afford to spend.

    Unfortunately our society feeds on other's weaknesses, including spending money recklessly. You just have to remember that your job is to earn yourself money, and their job is to know what they are getting themselves into.
    If you are willing to do for one year what other's won't, you can spend a lifetime doing what other's cant.


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    It's a strip club, they're there to see YOU.

    And men have a weird guilty-conscious with money. They want to spend it, and they want you to convince them to spend it so they feel their spending is justified. Hustling is part of your job description and the customers WANT you to hustle them. How many men approach the dancers in a strip club? Maybe 10%? That's because they're pussies, and they like being told to spend their money on you.

    Remember that you're worth every penny in their pockets and thousands more besides. Allowing men to see you naked for $40/song is practically a donation!



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    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    remember that you're worth every penny in their pockets and thousands more besides. Allowing men to see you naked for $40/song is practically a donation!
    this times 69,085,690,564,908,459,080,984,904,590!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    "Strippers are like pet tigers. They are nice to look at but they are not for everyone."

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    Sometimes I worry that I am too greedy, even when customers offer more money..
    Why is it that only men are allowed to be greedy and make money but when a woman does it there is something wrong with her?

    There are some guys that deserve to be taken advantage of.

    Isn't that what a majority of guys are doing to dancers?

    It's win-win. Just take their money.




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    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    feeling badly about taking someone's money? girl, get a massage and take a multivitamin. that will get you right with jesus.
    Hahahahaha! WIN!!!
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    ^What Sophia said.
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    GIRL TAKE THEIR MONEY! DON'T FEEL BAD !
    FEELING BAD IS NOT GOING TO PAY BILLS
    FEELING BAD IS NOT GOING TO GET YOU THE THING YOU WANT & NEED
    YOUR IN THE BUSSINESS TO MAKE MONEY
    AS STATED THESE MEN NOW WHAT THEY'RE GETTING THEMSELF INTO :-)
    it is our job to take thier money :-D

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    You are there to MAKE MONEY! Always remember that! Don't feel bad at all...they came for a reason: to see you and spend money on you. You're worth every single penny and thousands more. Seeing you naked on their lap for $X is a bargain!! Feeling guilty won't feed you and yours...won't help you pay rent, car payment etcetc! Don't feel bad! They know what they're getting into!

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    These guys are business men and even when they act otherwise they understand that you are a business woman too. They know you are there to make as much money as you can. Don't ever feel bad about it, for most of them it makes them feel like a real success to be able to shower a pretty young thing with cash and have her ooh and aah over how generous he is. The girls in Vegas make so much money in part because of this. When men win a bunch of money gambling the first thing they do is take their friends out for a nice steak. The second thing they do is go to a strip club and grab the first girl they think is hot and ask her what's the most she's ever made because they are damn well going to try to top it. For some reason if they can spoil the hell out of a stripper it means they have the biggest, well, you know. Now you don't want to tell these poor guys that their, you know, isn't big enough for you, do you? Take their money and let them go home to their wives feeling like the king of the world. Perhaps you'll be doing their wives a favor too.

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    Scared don't make money!!!
    Time is money,money is time!

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    Hate to break your bubble girls but people do not want to have their money taken. If a person is drunk and does something stupid, its the same as being horney and doing something stupid. If you try to manipulate people and destroy their lives by taking too much. Maybe you should take a look at yourselves.

    This is why people hide their dtripping profession and why people think strippers are sluts. Simply cuz they act like it and try to self justify it.

    If you are decent, you will try to take what is acceptable and not what is probably excessive. Don't get me wrong though, the truth of the matter is people are ugly inside so they will always be like this.

    So in the end, you can never get respect for doing a job like this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dograbid View Post
    Hate to break your bubble girls but people do not want to have their money taken. If a person is drunk and does something stupid, its the same as being horney and doing something stupid. If you try to manipulate people and destroy their lives by taking too much. Maybe you should take a look at yourselves.

    This is why people hide their dtripping profession and why people think strippers are sluts. Simply cuz they act like it and try to self justify it.

    If you are decent, you will try to take what is acceptable and not what is probably excessive. Don't get me wrong though, the truth of the matter is people are ugly inside so they will always be like this.

    So in the end, you can never get respect for doing a job like this.
    lololol TROLL...

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    Quote Originally Posted by dograbid View Post
    Hate to break your bubble girls but people do not want to have their money taken. If a person is drunk and does something stupid, its the same as being horney and doing something stupid. If you try to manipulate people and destroy their lives by taking too much. Maybe you should take a look at yourselves.

    This is why people hide their dtripping profession and why people think strippers are sluts. Simply cuz they act like it and try to self justify it.

    If you are decent, you will try to take what is acceptable and not what is probably excessive. Don't get me wrong though, the truth of the matter is people are ugly inside so they will always be like this.

    So in the end, you can never get respect for doing a job like this.
    Sorry to burst your bubble but who the hell are you to judge what ANYBODY does to get money? If you had enough to HATE on what anyone does obviously you're one of those who are scared or maybe the one who doesn't have balls to do it. My question is and why are you this STRIPPER website again? Oh you're of the people who gets talked about alot and don't have the balls to take up for yourself so you come on here where you can talk shit from a keyboard,do yourself a favor...go play in 5 o'clock traffic. Have a great one! :-)
    Time is money,money is time!

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    Just know you're worth every cent and more. Look at yourself in the mirror before you start and just think "Damn! I am a fucking Goddess! Any guy in here would be privileged to get a dance with me" once you realise that you'll realise your doing them a favour giving them your time and undivided attention for a bit of cash.

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