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    customers: have you ever gotten free dances?

    strippers; have you ever given free dances for any reason?

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    Default Re: free dances

    Yeah, I admit, I've done deals before.

    Deals like, buy 3 get one free.

    Or if it was a good regular's birthday...I'd give 'em a dance.

    I'm a terrrrrible person..lol

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    No I never have.

    My guy friends and my boyfriend go to clubs sometimes, and they've encountered girls that gave them free dances or seriously under changed them for a string of dances. They don't ask for this, it just happens (well not to my boyfriend as much, but a couple of his friends). I attribute it to the girl being fucked up, and/or being a bad hustler and thinking this will either pay off for them in the long run or being afraid to ask for full price after doing a long string of dances.

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    Default Re: free dances

    Simple answer: no.

    I don't care how long I've known you, if its your birthday, or your mother just died. There will be no free dances from me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    Yeah, I admit, I've done deals before.

    Deals like, buy 3 get one free.

    Or if it was a good regular's birthday...I'd give 'em a dance.

    I'm a terrrrrible person..lol
    Oh you terrible stupid stripper you!!!

    Very rarely do I give free dances but I have.. I think I may start doing the buy 5 get the 6th free thing though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ray2119 View Post
    customers: have you ever gotten free dances?
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    No, I never have. I've done buy one, get $5 off the second one. So, 2 dances for $35 instead of $40. But then the guys I did that with would start to think that all my dances were only $15 and hand me only $30 for 2 dances.... So I put an end to it. It never seemed like it would be in my benefit - it's just a "give a customer an inch and he'll try to take a mile" scenario to me. So, I would never do it.

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    I do free dances for $40 tips.
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    The most I've ever done is discount a dance $15 (which is the club's cut), and then just not tell the club about the dance. I'll do this for the third dance, after the customer has already paid for 2 full price dances. I still get paid the same, but the customer gets a little price break. The only one losing out is the club, which I have no problem with AT ALL. This isn't something I do often, but if the customer is on the fence about buying that third $50 dance, I'll sometimes hustle this way.

    This obviously won't work in every kind of club set-up, but in one of my clubs I've never had trouble getting away with it.
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    The only time I will ever even consider it is if they have at least bought 10 dances and only if they ask a few times or make a big deal of it. It has happened like twice in seven years . Once I did a bet with a guy and the terms were if I won he paid double and if he won I gave a free dance. I lost and gave the free dance but he bought a bunch already anyways, I looked at that as a 20 dollar bet on my end basically.

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    Default Re: free dances

    Here in Ottawa it's really rare for women to go to clubs as patrons. Most aren't allowed unless they have a guy with them. So I've gotten a few free dances from dancers who wanted to experience dancing for a woman. Sometimes, I was offered deals because a dancer wanted to try different moves on me and wanted my feedback.

    The most recent free dance I got was after three dances (we had agreed to only three because that's all the cash I had left). And then, a slow song came on after our last dance. But then she told me she loved my touch and she loved slow songs so she wanted to dance a forth song for me for free. It was beautiful and I'm hoping to see her again (and tip her well) the next time I go to that club!

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    Default Re: free dances

    One time a guy really wanted a dance but only had $12 so I danced for half a song.
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    Yes i have, a few times actually.
    The club I was at the "danceroom" was basically a few couches in the corner. I loved that set up. The other girls would whine about guys getting a free perve but i figured if my dance was sensual enough the pervers would be wishing they were getting attention and not just looking. I used to suck at selling so the guys getting a sneak preview really worked for me. Once I started, my night would just keep going.
    Free dances only worked at that particular club because of the set up and the way I danced.

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    yes, just once, got about 15 min of free dances. Oddly enough, she was celebrating and event, and i was the recipient of the happy occasion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ray2119 View Post
    customers: have you ever gotten free dances?

    strippers; have you ever given free dances for any reason?
    No. Dancing for free means I'm working for free. Do you work for free occassionally? Didn't think so.
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    Yep, about once a night. My club gives a free house dance, about half the length of a normal dance. I hate doing it-they run this special Maybe two or three times a night. I don't even ask customers anymore unless I've been dancing for a guy and I know he will continue to buy dances.
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    Quote Originally Posted by papillonluvr View Post
    Yep, about once a night. My club gives a free house dance, about half the length of a normal dance. I hate doing it-they run this special Maybe two or three times a night. I don't even ask customers anymore unless I've been dancing for a guy and I know he will continue to buy dances.
    This reminds me of the last club I worked at. It was a slow club and most of the customers were trashy with no money. So the club came up with this (to them)great idea that once during the night someone would win a free on stage dance and ALL the dancers would dance. So this one obnoxious guy wins the dance and we were all required to go on stage, including stopping dances. We all get on stage and the manager tells us we need to go topless for this guy. Me and several dancers do not go topless but dance anyway and the guy gives us a look like he's repulsed by us. Many of the dancers were doing things like sitting on him, touching him, etc. Finally the dance is over and we get off stage. Me and the other dancers who refused to go topless were screamed at, like how dare we not go topless for a man who didn't pay us. I should have quit there but went a few days then quit when I got yelled at again. They did try the free dances once a night too where the guys got to choose the dancer he wanted for a freebie but I hid then. I knew these guys would not pay so I would not dance knowing they wouldn't buy more.

    However, at other clubs I sometimes did discounts if the guy was spending a lot of money. I had a few regulars who would give me hundreds of dollars just to chat with them so yes if they asked for a dance I would have given them. I figured since they were paying hundreds an hour and decided they wanted a dance instead of talking for how long then it's the same thing.

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    I don't have the freedom to decide. If the choice was mine, no, never. In Paris though, they do this parade in the middle of the night, where the dancers leave the floor, file onto the stage and dance around together, throw confetti around, then descend these little steps back onto the floor and give one free table dance to a customer of choice. It can be good for business, but I hated it. Too many girls pushing stools put the way, trying to dance all at once in a space that's already packed.

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    May have mentioned this b4, not sure if on this forum or another. Was with a dancer doing a large number of dances. Told her towards the end that I had enough for another two dances or a tip. She decided to do another two dances which sorta confused me at the time as the money was hers either way but who am I to argue?? So, after the two dances she checks with the floor man and discovers she only need one more song to max out. While she would still have to pay the per dance fee, maxing out would mean she wouldn't have to pay out the $60 shift fee. It is five minutes before closing and pushes me for another dance. I have no money left. Rather than give me a free dance after spending hundreds and hundreds on her and getting marked for a dance , she decides to get dressed and go home. One dance she knew I didn't have money for but in theory she would have 'been paying herself' by maxing out and not paying shift fee. Even after explaining it to her; she still paid her $60 shift fee and her dance fee ....gave me a hug and went to the dressing room. ????? Ummmm....ok !!!

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    Default Re: free dances

    As a dancer: nopety nope!

    As an escort: I have given extra time to long time clients. If a gent has booked me for all day and took me shopping, am I really going to stress another couple of hours?

    However, some do appreciate "freebies" more than others.
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    One dance that was free, in a way. I had taken my son and his friend to my favorite club on his 21st birthday. We were there all night, and I tipped a couple hundred dollars at the stage, bought them both lap dances, and bought my son a special birthday dance on stage with four dancers.

    At the end of the night, just before closing, my favorite dancer, who had received a lot of those tips, came to me and said I deserved a free dance. This was my first lap dance, BTW. Up to this point, I had tipped at the stage and got a short, fun trick in return, but never a full lap dance.

    But it was not the last one, and I have paid for every one since then. And, considering how much I spent, maybe I paid for that one, too.

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    Default Re: free dances

    Only my regulars get some extra dances thrown in depending on the situation. But they spend hundreds to thousands of dollars on a regular basis.

    If I'm over charging sure I'll cut some deals if asked but it never works out to being free ever or under the base price.




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    Yeah, when the bastard couldn't pay me. Fucker.



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    Default Re: free dances

    the stripp clubs in san antonio are raunchy. well 60% of them are

    and girls are desperate for money so they will offer you crazy dances for 5 to 10 dollars.

    I kinda enjoyed it till i saw a prego trying to dance for some guy doing all kinds of flips and twirls.

    poor kid.

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    Yep.

    Club does a buy 1 get 1 free.

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