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    Hi guys,

    I have tried to search this subject but couldn't find much on it so here goes...

    I'm a little odd lol, I love the sex industry, it intrigues me, it excites me and I kinda feel like it is the industry im made for. I love camming, I also do Sensual Massage ( AKA massage with a happy ending :p) and I love that too butttt I have no sex drive. I've never really had one, I hate it but hey theres not much I can do about it.

    I was just wondering if there are any fellows cammers who dont have much of a sex drive either? Im a newbie to camming but I find I get quite bored easily as I dont find masturbating that great. I know this all sounds a bit strange but I do still love camming, and I would really appreciate not getting comments telling me I shouldnt be doing this kind of work. I just generally want to know how many of you girls are actually turned on whilst working? Do you fake the orgasms and the pleasure?

    Any advice would be much appreciated!!

    Sophia xx

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    Been camming for years, never have been turned on ever, sry! OK well wait I take that back, when I look at my total and it's a bunch of money, yeah that does it, rofl!

    I know some hosts actually masturbate and cum for real but seriously, show after show, how in the world could someone cum hundreds of times a week? I don't get why they do it. If I were to cum on cam my viewers would fall asleep from boredom because I don't usually make a bunch of noise, and I'm not a squirter.

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    I actually thought you were going to the other way and say you had a very high sex drive *TEHE* I actually wonder which is more common in the industry among women those who have no sex drive, average, or high..hmmmmm.lol

    I actually have a very high sex drive...like I play with myself multiple times a day and not for work reasons..LMAO

    But I don't think just because you do not have the "sex drive" means you should not be in the field. I think that it is just a bonus if you do or extra perk but not a necessity. There are more important variables to have for this field but I think sex drive is just a plus if you have it naturally but not a big factor.


    I think alot of girls fake orgasms and the pleasure sometimes. So to me what is the difference between sometimes and most of the time..lol Though I actually do orgasm for real in some of my shows and actually can get turned on if even a little bit most of the time, I do fake it sometimes too to be honest...I mean with all the minute men and guys that have no clue at all how to please a woman or anyone, sometimes I just do not have enough time to get excited before the show is over..lol


    Also I do not know if this may help but maybe you can get yourself excited before you even begin to work. They say it takes a woman 28 (30minutes) to get warmed up for sex. Well, I was told that by my Psych Prof. years ago. But it is said that when you do foreplay with a woman for atleast 30minutes, that will get your juices going and make you more wet and turned on.

    So before you do any sex related job, maybe take 30minutes to just play with yourself and pleasure yourself to get yourself warmed up with foreplay. lol You know just tease and caress yourself and then you can start your shift and see how you feel then, will it be more sexually pleasurable for you.


    Or if you have something specific for yourself that really gets you going...really focus on that before and lightly while you are working too.... =)
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    I used to have a nymphomaniac level sex drive..now I have the sexual energy of a dish rag..It could be related to a lot of things I won't get into, but I do partially blame camming. Especially these last couple months, i'm just so over sexed!

    I do cum for real on cam *occasionally* (who can really hold off when they're using a hitachi??? lol) but for the most part I'm just playing it up... A lot of it also is that when I'm masturbating for real, it's not nearly as attractive as the act I put on when on cam..lol
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    i masturbate for my own pleasure before i start working. im more of the romantic/passion type than the xxx type like our job mostly throws at us. it helps to already be in a endorphin induced mood before work.

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    I have plenty of sex drive and ive been doing this for a long time....
    to me it has nothing to do with camming..
    better yet... if anything,, when im done im horny!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brilynne View Post
    I used to have a nymphomaniac level sex drive..now I have the sexual energy of a dish rag...
    This made me laugh so hard. I love it.

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    wait ... OP...
    "U love camming ... but.. u dont find masturbating that great and you get bored easily?"
    where is that thread I created about....how camming really is...

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    Hmm I am extremely highly sexed in real life, so to be honest, I get thoroughly turned on during privates. I mean every single one.
    My body has a (nympho) mind of its own; most of the time I'll be super horned up in pvts even before i've got my panties off -to the point that I can barely speak haha. I get totally carried away with the moment, what i'm saying and how I'm moving my body ... having a guy watch is also a turn-on for me.

    Every time I finish a private I need at least 5-10 mins to compose myself before freechat cos I'm all flushed and breathless. lol.
    The other day I was doing some slave/mistress pretty straightforward roleplay and got so horned up that my voice started coming out croaky and far from firm and authoritative, so I had to hold myself in check... lol ... not that the guy noticed, he was loving the sesh.

    Not sure what to suggest, maybe like HustletteDiva says, warm yourself up beforehand? maybe watch some porn? Perhaps u need more of a sexy crescendo during the show (think like foreplay) before u get to toy stage?

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    All you nymphos are making me so jealous! LOL. I wonder why people have different levels of sex drive. Like whats in your system that I dont have enough of in mine?? Ive just started taking Horny Goat Weed pills, so fingers crossed they have some effect after a couple months of taking them.

    But thanks heaps guys for your help. Its awesome to hear other peoples opinions on this

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    My drive is so-so. It works when I am not in the mood for sex and doesntbwork when I am. SOB! If given a good 15 min, I can usually cum for real. In 2 mins though, who are they kidding? Unless they catch me immediately after a real orgasm with the previous customer. I definitely used to cum more for real when I started camming because like a relationship, it had the new euphoria.


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    There are lots of reasons behind my non existant sex drive, it has been up and down over the years, very low before I started camming, then I would say the first year it sky rocketed and my dear bf obviously got all the fall out, but for the last two years I just don't want sex. Poor bf is so patient and understanding but I really feel for him. To me as far as camming goes, it is acting nothing more, nothing less but I do wonder if it is affecting my libido.

    This just about sums it up for me too.

    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
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    The only thing that turns me on while camming, is money. Other than that, it is just simply no fun to me. My fun shows are when I get to just sit there and talk to someone, and not get naked. I get bored easily, and rarely am horny on cam. If I am ever horny on those rare occasions, I am usually quickly turned off by the customer and his ridiculously non sexy requests. Sometimes I even try to just close my eyes and imagine someone sexy, but it does not work. they always ruin the mood with their lameness.
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    I go between all engines go nympho crazy..and...touch me and die.

    On the contrary to your fear that youd get backlash saying you shouldnt do this kind of work, I think its a great thing and important even that your own desires are completely seperate from the work that you do....because then one cannot affect the other. What matters is that *you enjoy what you are doing*

    I have a hard time with that...like when my personal sex life is in the toilet, I get *very* hard on myself...and this whole personal whiny "I cant even get guys to fuck me for free, how can I make them pay just to look at me? waaaaaa!" And then I dont work for like..3 months, then I get laid and Im like..whooo! and back on my cam roll. Yeah, I have issues, dont judge me!

    It would be so much better and easier if my own drive and sex life had no reflection or affect on my work and vice versa, but it does. So to that I say, youre lucky! lol
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    I'm rarely turned on when on cam although I can still usually have good, playful fun with the guys and I enjoy that. My sex drive went down the crapper at about the 6 mth mark of camming. I just dont have much interest in sex at this point because after banging away at my body all day I just want my body to be left alone after lol I think I've gotten off about 5 times in total on cam and thats because I had men that werent rushing me and I had my hitachi working its magic...mmmmm hitachi...where would I be without you

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    i make my best money - besides specific fetishes - on cumshows (where i cum a lot). i don't projectile squirt (lol) so it's not as noticeable on cam, but i gush well enough that guys seem to enjoy it. and i can usually keep it up on cam with good breaks and switching up with other kinds of shows, although sometimes i have to be careful of not making my clit too sensitive, and if i'm just having a really dead libido day, i have to load up on coconut oil even more than usual, hehe.

    so...i can cum on cam. for real. and i don't fake orgasms that often on cam. BUT - for me it's not really linked to - how my sex drive is when i'm not working, if that makes any sense. it's still work, more or less, it's just more realistic for them. when my sex drive DOES get all confused with work is when i get a guy who wants to do something that gets me off (like certain kinds of roleplay) and then the show ends and i'm still sexually frustrated, lol. or when i'm drinking or taking something that makes me really horny before work or during camming and i get super horny and then i have two hours of shows where the guy doesn't want to see me cum. i'm not sure if that makes any sense. but just cumming on cam is sort of...business as usual for me, i don't get uber horny doing it and the orgasms aren't all that great (i cum really easily anyway).

    my sex drive is kind of weird in general - sometimes i'm a total nympho, sometimes i really want nothing to do with sex.

    and camming/sex work in general has sort of changed how i have non-work sex...like, i find myself wanting vanilla sex or emotional/mental d/s more than the super kinky freaky shit (which i'm good at...but sometimes feels more like i'm doing it just because the other person wants it and not because i'm really into it, which leads to emotional weirdness and disconnection during sex). part of that has to do with trauma. but i'm trying to work on that

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    Sex Drive - ZERO
    Kitana and getting penis - ZERO
    Kitana giving it to customers - ALL THE EFFIN TIME.

    My sex drive hardly exists - much because of my health issues BUT when the opportunity has risen to do the deed, I am just numb and not interested.

    As much as I love getting fucked, it just doesn't happen while I a working the cam.

    However, on MGF - my sex drive improves because I only sell content and hardly cam at all.
    So that's a plus for me. I will also say when I pop my Estroven (menopause pill) I am hornier than a weasel. But hey, everyone is different.

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    I cum on cam every once in a while. My sex drive has getting higher when I cam because I touch myself more. I used to feel bad about touching myself but cam "forces" me to do it and I like it.

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    It sounds like the Hitachi would be good. I'm kind of a toy newbie lol. I do not really like toys. But I will try the Hitachi.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BustyAmeera View Post
    It sounds like the Hitachi would be good. I'm kind of a toy newbie lol. I do not really like toys. But I will try the Hitachi.
    Busty, check out Fairy Wands also ... www.edenfantasys.com has them and they are great! The size of the mini is a little smaller and easier to hold than the Hitachi, but kicks out as much power..and there are rechargeable cordless options too!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Cam_Model_Jess
    I have to work harder than ever to make my money. I only had about 20 guys in my room the whole time, and most of them were perfectly content to sit there for over an hour and watch me fail to get my goal time and again but they didn't chip in. So... no, that's not a turn on.
    I can see that definitely not being a turn on for any woman. it would piss me right off in fact! I don't do shows but privates - and mine are fairly long drawn out affairs with a lot of give and take, on both sides and appreciative feedback from him-- I don't often get the 'cum in 2 secs and leave', so I expect that makes a big difference.

    Having read through the replies, I think I'm definitely in a minority here. But since I started camming, my sex drive has actually increased. It was high before, now it's almost ridiculous. ha.
    Must be all that grinding around and talking filth. .. It doesnt help, I guess, that as far as I'm concerned I don't get laid anywhere near as often as I would like, in real life. *sigh*

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    I have no sex drive lately. I'm getting off my birth control though, and hopefully that will help like last time. I just got some coconut oil, and I'm so excited to use it!!!

    I hope my customers aren't attached to my huge boobs though...one of my fav things about the pill is my boobs getting bigger!

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    Birth control pills do kill the sex drive.
    They kept me from cumming and I usually have lots of orgasms with great sex.

    I do masterbate and cum once before logging on to get me started for the day.

    Found that alot of female porn stars fake orgasms because they feel like it is cheating or sharing to much. Fuck it. We dont get health care or 401k plans with this job. Orgasms is one of the best perks of the job. hehe

    Orgasms, the more you have the easier it is to have more. Use it or lose it thing.

    Rarely do I fake orgasms during scenes I film or even camming. But if I can't then why fake it. So when guys say "Go faster, harder or deeper". I stop and say that will not make me cum but chase my orgasm away. So either you want to see me cum or not?

    Sad to read that some girls don't cum during shows. What a bummer.

    But have to say xxSophiaxx sounds like a man. Trying to bate us. Trying to get girls to admit that all orgasms are faked.... Just being honest.

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    Yeah I really sound like a man. Thanks.

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