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    I've been dancing for about a month now, and there's this guy who comes in the club often, who half of the dancers love and half of them stay away from him. He never buys dances and never tips the stage, and always tries to talk to new girls (including me when I first started), and the dancers who don't like him say that he's a pimp. However, he calls himself a "trick". What's the difference? Google is being especially unhelpful.

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    A trick is like a john, meaning he frequents prostitutes. A pimp is like, for lack of better words, an agent to strippers and takes a cut of their earnings.

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    Trick = euphemism for pimp
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nicolioli View Post
    I've been dancing for about a month now, and there's this guy who comes in the club often, who half of the dancers love and half of them stay away from him. He never buys dances and never tips the stage, and always tries to talk to new girls (including me when I first started), and the dancers who don't like him say that he's a pimp. However, he calls himself a "trick". What's the difference? Google is being especially unhelpful.
    Whether he's a pimp or trick, or both, if it were me I'd stay away.

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    the girls that hang out with him work for him... hes getting a share of their money for probably doing nothing to help them anyway! Too many guys like this... every club has 1!

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    it would explain why he's always trying to talk to the new ones.

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    Yeah, there was a new girl who started there just yesterday, and he had already started talking to her. He says the same things to every girl too: trying to give advice on how to ask for dances, what to do in dances, condoning extras to get VIPs. He also immediately addresses the 'pimp' situation, saying, "I am not a pimp. I don't care what you hear from other girls, but I am not a pimp. I work for the county/courts/whatever." And then he pulls out his little ID card to show you. Because, you know, unlike undercover cops, if you ask a pimp if he IS in fact, a pimp, he must say yes.

    ETA: I should also probably mention that I don't associate with him at all. He can go give his 'advice' to girls who will listen to his bullshit.

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    he is a pimp.

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    if a pimp was dumb enough to pull out his ID card and show it to me, i would remember that shit and report his ass.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
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    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I've never heard a pimp refer to himself as a trick? Maybe it's a regional thing? He may be a pimp and just doesn't want to own up to it.

    Everywhere I've been, a trick is a john or a guy who spends money on women, whether or not sex is involved.
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    A trick is a john



    But that fella right there is a pimp

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    Kind of related. I am being schooled about how this pimp stuff works. I was at work last night and I came across two different individuals.
    One was a guy who had been in the club before, and said he wanted a room, we went in and he started bullshitting so I left (it was closing time anyways). He came back in last night, I saw him before he saw me, went to the bathroom when I came out I walked past him and when he saw me he said to whatever girl he was talking to "thats the girl!" He came around and talked to me for a while, I was hoping for a few dances or a room... but he was bullshitting again so as I tried to walk away he tells me that I really need to take his number, I smiled and told him I wasn't taking it. Later I was sitting with another dancer who asked me if he asked me to go home with him. She started explaining to me that he is one of the biggest pimps in Miami and told me which of our dancers worked for him. Later he was with a nicely dressed woman and I saw that he was pointing me out to her and she was looking me over. The dancer noticed and told me it was probably his 'bottom bitch.' Anyways I avoided him the rest of the time which wasn't long because I went home about half an hour later.

    So this other douche bag comes over and asks me to go with him, I thought we were going to get a dance but we walk over to the bar... so whatever I start talking to him and he is refreshingly enough an arrogant prick telling me about his condos and fast cars, and was being rude. He told me I should 'join him' in his company. I said no thanks, then he says I should 'join him in his wealth' and before I can say no thanks he starts going, 'ahhhhhhh I say work and you roll your eyes I say free money and you smile........' which is not what I did. I just told him he had obviously made up his mind about what type of a person I am and we had nothing further to discuss. When he insisted I stay I told him I was wasting my time, he was wasting his, and quite frankly the line between confident and douchebag isn't that thin and he was on the douche side. Then I walked away. As I was leaving the club I saw him getting talked to by security, I think he thought he could get free lapdances. lol

    Anyways, this all happened during my last hour or so. It was a bit overwhelming and I felt very nervous knowing I was being watched and I guess 'considered' for something I didn't want to do. What bothers me the most is how confident these people are that I will work for them.

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    Sorry, can you explain "bottom bitch"? I'm not familiar with the term.


    That's crazy- I don't understand why girls would have a pimp. Let's see, I dance at a club, you take a cut of my money, and I get ... nothing? Cause any money you "give me" is either mine or from some other girl.

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    I've always known "trick" to be a guy who frequents prostitutes.

    Odd that's what he's referring to himself as.
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    Bottom bitch is a pimp's 'main' girl. Like, she is the house mom of the house that the pimp and girls and bottom bitch lives in.......... hold on let me get this link.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IE9EG...feature=relmfu

    So yeah, like the only woman the pimp really trusts. The girl who was eye-balling me when the pimp was trying to recruit me was probably his bottom bitch. he was consulting with her and I guess she is also a tool for him to recruit girls since she might come off as more trust-worthy than a male.

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    ^ A bottom bitch is exactly what you described and they are the pimps first girl. She and him then recruit other girls to work for them
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    I don't get it either. There is a girl who is 19 at my club, she drives a Bentley and wears very expensive designer clothes, she has a pimp. I know those things seem cool and important at that age.... but at 23 I think about things differently. I have a kid. Is that car really hers? Does she share all those fancy bags and clothes with 9 other girls? How much control does she have over her own life?

    I talked to one girl who had a pimp but left him. I could see where she was coming from, this is a girl who had nothing at all, and was recruited. She got on her feet this way but as soon as she did she hit the road. She is doing well for herself now. I think that stripping can be a dangerous job for someone who doesn't have a good head on their shoulders because you end up having these pimps take over your body and your life. I really think it is a matter of not wanting to build your own empire (because you can), but joining one already made but only getting a small slice of it. Its the idea that yeah, I drive a Bentley, but never acknowledging or denying that it's not really yours. It is easy to tell yourself this: I make 1000 dollars tonight, I can keep that for me, OR, I make 1000 dollars tonight, and split it between 9 other people, so I might get 100 out of that ultimately, but have fancy shit at the moment. Its like using credit cards.

    There are some things that I think should only come with age. I don't think it is okay for a 19 year old to drive a Bentley. Even if I won the lottery tomorrow, my daughter's first car would still be the VW I drive today. People live out of pure impulse nowadays and its fucking everything up.

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    Some of these women come from nothing. Driving around Miami in a Bentley, even if it is not owned by them, it is probably the high point of their life. Also, they are brainwashed by these scum to feel that they can't get it on their own. What pimp will encourage a woman to do anything that doesn't benefit him?
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    Whatever he is...if he's not tipping and not buying dances then I'm not wasting my time with him.

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    ^^ Exactly. I'm in the club to make money, and if I want to hire myself an actual business manager, it certainly wouldn't be some schmo I met at the titty bar.

    These dudes prey on women who don't know any better. It's like all the most insidious shit of having an emotionally abusive boyfriend. He offers "advice" as bait, to see which girls are insecure enough to take advice from a random stranger, and then continues making them feel insecure about their ability to take care of themselves without him.

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    ugh.

    as far as i can tell, regular customers don't use the word trick. johns don't seem to use it either. usually the only people who'd use a word like that are pimps and hos. so either he's a pimp or an extremely self-aware john. either way, he was looking to see if you'd start trying to hustle him. normal dancers don't use the word trick.

    i've seen guys like that before. there was one at my old club who was called "candy man". i don't know or care wtf he was doing there. i just know that my clean dancer ass wasn't gonna make anything from him beside the occasional dollar he'd tip me onstage. he'd sit near the stage with a bag worth of candy, usually skittles, on the table in front of him. so it wasn't even that much candy, and he didn't give it out for girls to take, they'd get a piece while they sat with him and let him grope them. and occasionally he'd get a dance from one of those girls. he had such an ugly look on his face, really hateful. i've got no doubt at all that he turned off a lot of normal customers. not cos of his look, just the fact that he was there, sending out cheapass douchebag vibes.
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    So the girls were letting "candy man" grope them for free skittles? WTF.....
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    Is there a skittles shortage in the area? I mean, usually a single dance buys a Halloween bag full of them so not sure why people would go for that....

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    funny enough, "candy man" didn't show up at that club until after the club did some remodelling involving the removal of the vending machine and tanning bed so they could turn half the dressing room into a webcam studio.

    this is also a club in which many of the girls have pimps. a girl with a pimp can let a couple bucks disappear so she can buy candy from a vending machine, but once she gets picked up, he's not gonna part with any of "his" money to give her candy.
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