Drama free. No endless bickering and bs.




Drama free. No endless bickering and bs.




Gosh that's a lot of groups. The one Hottie started is more than enough for me![]()
Im a drama queen...
I guess I cant join lol![]()





I'll stay with h0ttie's. I think creating a second group was unnecessary.




If there are no Restrictions whats the point of the group....??? that's called posting normally
I feel like im in the French Revolution!!!!!! "Sooooo Many heads sooooo little time!!"

I joined itI don't have enough posts to get into h0tties..
Verification Status: Verified by h0ttie <3




Not interested. I don't need either group to be one of the cool kids.
But - I'm with Fridays. I'm a drama queen by default. Counts me out.
But - whatever floats your boat, more power to you.




Ill lock it down eventually but for now you just have to be a camgirl or or former one to get in. Eventually it will be private and we can be like high schoolers again with our secrets.
good luck (sincerely) with your group, but count me out...I found the high school social scene stultifying enough the first time around![]()




I was actually kidding about that but I will at some point make it so you have to join as most of the girls want privacy but nobody should have to send in their personal info and then be accepted by 1 person. Ill accept everyone- if they become a liability then we will remove them.
If you have ideas let me know- I want to build something incredible and we have the funding to do it.
Thank you.




I do think different groups are a good idea actually, i just took offense to your tone as the verified group is not like that at all. Sure make another group, it gives people more choice, but unless it is private it really does defeat the object. Girls want to be able to post whatever the hell they like without customers/ haters/ people looking to get a free ride, reading every word. If that's your intention then good luck![]()




I can protect the privacy of the discussions without having to ask for personal information...




That makes no sense. Unless you have a way of knowing who the people in your group are, then you cannot possibly eliminate the possibility of one or many of them being users who joined for negative or self-serving reasons. Your group will be separate from the rest of SW but it won't be "protected". That's fine, but there is a difference.




I think alienation has happened already.. the girls who for whatever reasons they choose not to send hottie personal info are suddenly outcast as 2nd class camgirls or whatever...
The discussions are good but nobody should have to come out personally.
Its very divisive. And being a former camgirl but mostly a club dancer I didnt see the dancers ask for all of this privacy and verification in the ;ast 6 years or so that Ive been on and off this site.

What sense does it make to put down the spirit of this post? She is offering something and wants to let everyone know about it, then you girls just gotta put in your (-$0.02) lol
Verification Status: Verified by h0ttie <3




Not putting it down at all, just clarifying that a private group isn't entirely "private" unless you know who is posting in it. And also addressing the incorrect assumption that a verified group = bickering, since there is none of that.




whatz personal about proving your a cam girl lmao!!!!!
its proving identity ...not your government name....
I find it funny how people show their naked body to 100 guys a day .....but dont want to be seen for who they are on a forum....
all it does is raise eyebrows......
I feel like im in the French Revolution!!!!!! "Sooooo Many heads sooooo little time!!"




Why would I verify as a camgirl? Im not one anymore.. so no need to be in that group...




alienation has already happened. With people saying things like....
- oh you need to be verified to prove this or that...
- oh you need to be verified or you will be treated differently...
- oh this is my group so we don't have drama.
Why don't we all just take a picture with wearing a name take that says cool kid or recognized drama starter by default....
I understand everyone's point but everyone else that is a natural born leader looks like a piece of shit whereas everyone gets to follow a person around like a herd of sheep.
Natural born leaders follow the beats of their own drum and doesn't have to worry about proving themselves to anyone.
The girls that aren't verified and won't be - are alienated by being treated differently. The girls that are verified - act like the rest of have something to hide or something to prove.
All the unnecessary group making caused the alienation - making the tension that was present worse and much more intense than it has been.
I'll say it before - I'll say it again. We all run our OWN cam businesses being self-employed. You don't need to be a member of the cool kids to be able to access the wealth of information here. Seeing that you work for yourself and you determine how much money you make with the help of this information here that's public - I still feel you don't have a damn thing to prove to anyone but yourself.
If you want to start a group, more power to you and I support that. I just feel by putting a label on it like no drama and no bs just points the finger at everyone else for being a bad person. It makes it seem like only the people in groups matter and the rest of us suck.
Alienation has happened because everyone wants to play the high school game of "who is good enough to sit at the cool kids table" and everyone else can sit by themselves and get stared at and talked about because they aren't welcome.
It's my opinion....so, I cannot apologize for anyone getting pissed at me but I wish that some people would understand the bigger problem this creates for girls here.
We are already social outcasts because of our jobs - there's not one good reason that anyone can give me as to why we should be outcasts to each other. Like everyone has said, if you don't like it, you don't have to read it or respond. You can weigh in adult like though.
Many claim this is where they feel at home and like a family....but to me - it makes me feel like the black sheep of the family and completely unaccepted as part of this family. It doesn't feel like a family with those types of groups. It feels like not being able to play kickball because you look weird or the kids think you are just ugly. Those are the only high-school type examples I can use to sum it up.
The drama and BS excuses placed as the label for creating a "private" group are just cop-outs. There's just no reason for it at all...
But feel free to do what you feel is right - again, it's my opinion and no one has to accept it or like it...I'm just saying what I have heard from other girls that aren't in groups and what the majority is of the people that I am friends with.








Well its kinda sad actually and Ive been a member of this site 4 different times and when I was here the last time there werent but a token number of camgirls and they just fit in.. when I came back last December all of the camgirls were demanding privacy and verification and all that... yet never once did I ever see including recently that the dancers ever asked for all of this... and were the ones who take the real risks because we can be followed home by customers etc.. there is no risk to being a camgirl! And Ive been one for 18 months.
And yes Im starting my own site.. but I will never recrut here.. if someone wants to join my site they can PM me and Ill set them up but I would rather use this to dicsuss issues as a former dancer and camgirl than fight and bicker and Ill freely admit Im a drama queen.. ask some of the people like FBR and Djoser and theyll agree. I wants nicknamed trainwreck at one time for nothng!




I couldn't agree more with the part of there is no risk to being a cam girl. I think that most go overboard and while I am supportive of being safe - I am defensive by nature with my privacy so that's why I don't have the majority of the problems they do. Not to mention, I do come off as a bitch and I think guys think twice before they cross me that way. LOL @ Trainwreck...that's epic.
I think it's just all how one chooses to go about it. I am completely for them doing their own and how I do mine is just different.
I don't understand though - this was just about a post of a group - not starting a site. What do you mean never recruit here? I mean - we weren't even talking about that.
Last edited by KitanaBlades; 08-29-2011 at 09:55 PM.




yeah that was my nickname in the entire DFW area when I lived in Dallas. It's funny now but I was 86'd from like half the clubs there at one time. I had to grow up a lot when I had my baby.




As many women do grow up when that happens....good for you!![]()
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