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    My hubby & I just returned from an awesome trip to Vegas. We enjoyed a PHENOMONAL private dance at the Spearmint Rhino Monday night as well as an outstanding private dance at Sapphire on Tuesday. I noticed that the ladies, as a rule, don't stop by to sit with the female customers.

    I try to let the girls know through my body language (not sitting there with arms/legs crossed looking pissed to be there...which I most definitely am NOT) make eye contact or smile as they walk by to let them know that I am intersted. Most of the girls never even glanced my way. I had won quite a bit of money earlier in the day and was hoping to spend it all on lap dances for myself. A couple of girls did appriach my hubby and he directed them my way. However, I would have LOVED to have a girl come and sit on MY lap! I would have probably bought a dance from any/all of the beautiful girls working those nights. (Especially at the Rhino!) Is there a secret code or signal I need to give to let the girls know it's OK to approach me?

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    Also wanted to add that I am attractive, well dressed, slim and smell nice...I don't thik I was being "avoided" for being gross...just "overlooked"

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    You need to approach the dancer you are interested in. Many dancers avoid couples because many have dealt with jealous women who were only there to please the husband. If you approach a dancer tell her you would like a dance from her. Most dancers would be honored to give you a dance if you are polite and non grabby. I am straight but was not against dancing for women.

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    You have to go for what you want as a female customer, that's just the way it is.

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    We hear this so much. Honestly, I'm sorry about it. The few bitches have ruined it for the rest of you. Unfortunately, it means you're going to have to go after the dancer you want. I will say though that many of us are more than happy to dance and spend time with you once you make it known you're looking to have fun. I for one, would've been quite content to sit on your lap.
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    So good to know. I kind of suspected jealous women might be the reason. Now that I know, I will approach the girls I am interested in without feeling like a perv!

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    I often approach couples (I love dancing for couples - both m-f and f-f), and I often direct my sales tactics towards the ladies in these cases. Usually, she will let me know pretty early on if she's into it, or if she's uncomfortable to be there.
    Even so, I would probably never just sit in a female customer's lap unless she was obviously excited about the whole thing and buying dances. Like others have said, there are too many women in the strip club who don't want to be there who can range anywhere from conspicuosly uncomfortable to openly hostile toward the dancers, and these women have kind of ruined for the rest of you.

    I realize that part of the fun is being able to sit there while pretty women approach you all night, but if you're not getting the attention you want, it's totally okay to approach, or even just signal to, the dancer you like. Chances are, she hasn't approached you because she doesn't realize you're there to actually buy dances. It's always nice to have the guesswork taken out of the job for us. You may have been trying to communicate all this with your body language, but strip clubs are not the time to be subtle. If you see someone you like, tip her at the stage and ask her to come over when she's done, or wave to her when she's on the floor.
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    I enjoy married couples over just a couple. Married couples have less issues (but I have run into them too) so I can VIP with a married couple much better.

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    Thanks for letting me know it's OK to approach or signal the dancers! I cannot wait till our next visit to the SC and the dances!! My hubby & I are both excited by seeing the other enjoying a good dance. Neither of us have jealousy issues, which the dancer at the Rhino told us was rare, so I guess we are really lucky!

    Love you girls!!

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    I wish there were more women like you. I couldn't get my ex-wife to go with me

    for anything in the world. She preferred swingers clubs over strip clubs. Which i hated

    usually the swinger clubs in S.A. are filled with drug infested couples.

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    lol you asshole.

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    Default Re: Ladies Like Attention, Too

    Feel free to perve! Approach your favorite and get that lap dance.

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    I have went to strip clubs with boyfriends in the past and the dancers were all over me. Once one pulled me up on stage and tried to get me to take my clothes off. It was a really small club that was a bit seedy so I'm thinking that would have not flown in a nicer club.

    Still, never had any problems with women talking to me and I've never been jealous. I can't imagine how women just go to please their men. I mean, seems like that would be a really uncomfortable night. Also, they were a lot more sexual and flirty with me. And they were more touchy feely. I'm assuming it's because I'm not a man, I'm a very petite feminine woman and I treat them with respect. I talk to them like I talk to any other woman. I don't call them baby or sweetie nor do I act all dirty. I'm just cool with them and have fun.

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    Default Re: Ladies Like Attention, Too

    A lot of dancers, especially new ones seem to be uncomfortable dancing for couples and/or women or they'll have one bad experience and never approach them again which I think is just silly. I've lost count of the amount of times I've approached a couple and they've told me "we've been here x amount of time and you're the first girl to approach us" I also thought it was common knowledge to always approach the woman first to make sure she's comfortable.

    Just take solace in the fact that the dancers who do approach couple tend to be more experienced and completely comfortable dancing for women so you know you're going to get a damn good dance from them

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