Me and my SO live together, I relocated to be closer to him and he's a great Guy. He doesn't talk down to me and he says sweet things every day. But more and more I find myself getting, idk bored? Its like as soon as we got all settled in our apartment the chemistry just died. Don't get me wrong I'm attracted to him and sex is great but its just like we have nothing in common all the sudden. Honestly I'm debating moving out to see if anything gets sparked up again. I feel like an old married couple and were not even married. Its just incredibly depressing for me, just the other day I completely lost my patience and said "were really different and I'm worried it may hurt our relationship later on." His response was "so what? We agree on the important things like marriage,religion and children." I was just basically floored and as soon as I said those don't apply to us right now so there are more important things right now, he completely shut down and didn't speak to me for about an hour and the rest of the night was awkward. I'm just so confused what to do its getting really lonely for me but I want to make this work because our relationship has no other major problems.



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but now I think were on the right track. I also think it doesn't help the fact that I'm having trouble finding friends. The people I have met are nice but they don't seem very interested in hanging out often, and our mutual friends would be kind of inappropriate to hang with alone. I think me not adjusting well really helped to put me in a slump. Thanks for your input guys I appreciate it.

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