I've only been dancing for 11 shifts total (2-3 times a week) and it seems that only 1 in 5 guys are decent and respectful about my boundaries, and enjoy a good strip-tease and dance, and they tip well too. The club regulars is the problem - these barflies have been coming to the club for years (according to the club staff and other dancers) and they try to get away with all kinds of stuff - groping, kissing and expecting way more than they should, and it seems they get it too from certain girls!
Then there's management turning a blind eye ...
Despite "token" rules being posted in the DR about no grinding customers or customers touching us on the floor (nothing about this is mentioned about the VIP areas btw) it seems like dancers are getting away with way more even doing table dances for a measly 10 bucks than they should be because the managers are turning a blind eye. The VIP rooms are never checked (don't know if there are cameras but I haven't seen any that is noticeable). The most "monitoring" that happens in the VIP's is that the waitress will pop her head in quickly to say "last song" to signify the end of the VIP session.
Just venting ......



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Just tiresome to have to keep fending off unwanted touching even after making my boundaries clear - but maybe I'm not being clear enough so I'm taking all advice to heart!


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