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    i went to a strip club yesterday n got a lap dance from this stripper in a dead strip club with no one there..just me n my friend...well i got a lap dance from her n i told her i wanted one song at the very start of it but she ended up giving me 5 dances for 5 songs n at the end she tryed to charge me $100...i only paid her $20 n got kicked out of the strip club....i only told her one song...most strippers stop at the end each song n ask u if u want another one...but she did't

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    you should stop her then after 1. if you dont stop her shell assume you changed your mind and yes its a game but its all legal becaue she did dance for you for 5 songs and you didnt stop her. the club must always back the girl up.

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    Default Re: was it my fault or the stripper fault

    It's both.

    Yours becasue most customers say they want one song in the beginning, and end up buying several more afterwards. If I stop after every song to ask if I should keep going or count, it ruins the mood. I've had customers tell me to stop counting before (I usually remind them every 2-3 songs what the count it) becasue it takes the fun out of it for them.

    At 5 songs it wasn't like you didn't realize she had gone over. If you wanted one and stopped her after two, things would be different, but taking 5 songs to realize one had passed....That's on you buddy.

    Her fault because she shouldn't have stacked dances without getting money up front, or at least after the first 2 or 3 dances she should have reminded you. She also should have recognized you as a cheap asshole who was looking to get what he could for free, so she has bad stripper instincts.

    Oh well.

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    hahaha. I love it when men think that because they said only 1 that means that they don't have to pay for the other ones that they get atf.

    I had a guy do this to me once. It made me angry that he thought he could play stupid and rip me off. He played stupid, looked retarded and still had to pay me.
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    I never try to do another song without getting the guy's approval for this very reason. (Not hating on ladies that do, I just am always afraid of being ripped off)


    But if you knew she was doing more songs and knew you had no intention of paying her for them and let her continue then that's kind of a dick move in my opinion.

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    You knew damn well it was more than one song. So you ripped off a stripper. Congrats. Feel good about not paying someone for services rendered?
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    right on.

    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    how can you just sit there for 4 songs? thats abotu 15 minutes.

    You just sat there for 15 minutes. Are you slow? Paralyzed? Because that's what slow or paralyzed people do.

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    No but she should of stopped n asked If i wanted another song...i lost count also

    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    how can you just sit there for 4 songs? thats abotu 15 minutes.

    You just sat there for 15 minutes. Are you slow? Paralyzed? Because that's what slow or paralyzed people do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thegame View Post
    No but she should of stopped n asked If i wanted another song...i lost count also
    Apparently you can't count to 1 then? Ffs, is it a full moon?
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    Its your job to count. Next time youll know better!

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    No but she should of stopped n asked If i wanted another song...i lost count also

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    Quote Originally Posted by thegame View Post
    No but she should of stopped n asked If i wanted another song...i lost count also
    You wouldn't have lost count if you had simply stopped after the first song instead playing (?) dumb and letting her keep going. You can stamp your feet and cry foul all you want but you went to a strip club, not Sunday school class. It's always on you to control your wallet.
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    Like I said, if it was 2 songs, I could see the issue. But 5 songs is a long ass time and you knew she was going over.

    Reminds me of the customers who agree when you say "Want a dance babe?", but then refuse to pay you for it because "You asked me if I wanted a dance, you didn't say it would cost money, har, har har." with a shit-eating grin on their face like they're clever or something.

    Common sense gentlemen. You're not fucking fooling us into believe you don't have an iota of it.



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    You sir, are a piece of shit and I wish a painful scrotal infection upon you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thegame View Post
    No but she should of stopped n asked If i wanted another song...i lost count also
    If you managed to lose count, you clearly knew there was more than one happening. It isn't difficult to count to ONE.

    It is good business sense for a dancer to ask between songs or get the money upfront, exactly so they don't get scammed like this. But you knew damn well that it was more than 1 song. Just because you said "1 more" doesn't mean you didn't get or have to pay for the 5 you actually got. It was bad sense on her part to stack dances, but you can hear the music just as well as she can. 5 instead of 1? Unless this was the world's most mesmerizing dancer that can make 15 minutes feel like only 3, you knew you were getting more than you asked for. You should have said thank you and stood up to hand her the money at the end of your one dance. You didn't - you let her keep going. You knew it was happening and you didn't stop it. Why would you think you didn't have to pay if you willingly kept sitting there for 4 songs more than you said you wanted? It's not like you were chained down. You're just trying to use the fact that you said "one more" to justify not feeling bad that you didn't pay for the 4 extra, even though you knew damn well it was more than one. You may have said one, but you willingly sat there for 5 - your actions trump anything that you may have intended.

    ETA: Btw, "losing count" is not a vaild excuse anyway. If you realize you don't know what song you're on, you ask. If you keep your mouth shut, thinking "I'll just pay for the ones I wanted since she didn't ask about these extra ones," you're planning to fuck over your dancer. Your ability to listen to music, count, or ask a simple question is not on me. Just because you lose count, that doesn't mean the dances didn't happen or that you don't have to pay for them. I don't get why customers continue to think that "losing count" is, in any way, a valid excuse for not paying for something they got... If you asked the bartender for one more shot and he gave you 5, would you drink your one shot and then pay for it and leave, or would you down all 5 and then claim that you "lost count" and shouldn't have to pay for the other 4 because it's the bartender's fault for giving you 5 when you only asked for one?
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    she did not even kno what song we where on n how many she gave me....I asked for one song but when she stopped she asked me was that 5 songs??? and i said yeah...idk how many dances she gave me when i only asked for one song n one dance..i only asked for one...most strippers just stop n ask you if you want another but she did't

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    ewe what a shitty customer. I hate guys like this. Next time make sure you get your ass up after the first song

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    if your a good stripper then you would at least stop at the end of each song and ask the Customer if they want another so they can keep track how much you owe!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by thegame View Post
    I asked for one song but when she stopped she asked me was that 5 songs??? and i said yeah...most strippers just stop n ask you if you want another but she did't
    Sooo... she asked, "was that 5 songs" and you said "yeah".... so how exactly did you "lose count" if you were able to confirm "yes, that was 5 songs" ???

    Yes, most strippers do stop to ask if you want another, but it's not like it's law. If they don't, it's still on you to count yourself, or ask, or stop. And pay for the ones you got, regardless of whether or not she asked if you wanted them. Just because she didn't confirm verbally "do you want 4 more dances" doesn't mean you didn't sit there for 4 more dances. You continuing to sit there for 4 songs longer is the confirmation, and you need to pay for them. If I can count, so can you. We're both listening to the same music... It's my job to dance. It's your job to keep track of how much you spend.

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    Oh how i wish i was that stripper dancing for you. You know why? Because such an occurrence (you PRETENDING to lose count and INTENTIONALLY ripping off your dancer) is legally called "theft of services" and results in the club not throwing you out, oh no not at all, but calling the cops on you for using services that you KNEW you didn't plan on paying for
    Just like shoplifting. And guess what? You wouldve been going to jail.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thegame View Post
    if your a good stripper then you would at least stop at the end of each song and ask the Customer if they want another so they can keep track how much you owe!!!
    Lmfao. once again, YOU KNEW IT WAS MORE THAN ONE SONG. YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR SPENDING, YOU HAD BUSINESS TO TIP HER AND SEND HER ON HER WAY AFTER ONE SONG, NOT SIT THERE FOR 15MIN ROBBING THIS WOMAN. She knew exactly how much you owed. You ROBBED her. Go to a store, and try and leave without paying for something. Then claim ignorance. Make sure the cops know it's the stores fault. Let me know how far you get.
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    OMG, seriously, LMFAO @ this: Luv these respones, seriously spitting out diet coke & nuts during my cam SHOW..too

    Eta; Had it been this one club I worked at, you'd have been given the choice, pay up or get the cops called on you. Then you'd have been thrown out & banned.
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    Default Re: was it my fault or the stripper fault

    While dancing I always kept a note of each dance. That way I knew. If a guy told me upfront they wanted a certain amount of dances I kept a mental note without saying anything. If he didn't, I would tell him at the beginning what number we were going on. If he said "I'm done"that was it.

    Personally, this guy sounds like he knew (maybe he agreed to a set amount upfront). If he was worried about the amount he should have asked what number was it (or she should have). I call bullshit that he didn't know. I suspect he's another of those guys who refuse to pay.

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