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    Default "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    This guy kept giving me instructions and never stopped typing during the entire show. There was none of the normal pauses in text scolling, none of the usual "ooh thats sexy" or "Omg you make me want to cum". It was, "look directly into the cam while you stick ___ into ___ and say ___".

    I felt creeped out and just knew he was recording for after use. I stopped the show and asked him if he was recording. I told him he does not have my permission to record. He claimed he was just specific in his fantasy but I couldn't shake the feeling there was more to it. So I gave him the benefit of the doubt and continued but stopped again and told him I was starting to feel uncomfortable and again told him I do not give him permission to record the show. Knowing I was not trusting him, that I was feeling uncomfortable, he continued with this same set of instructions, then he said, "Remember, I am not a webmaster, I'm just a voyeur".

    I said, "bull shit" and banned him directly out of exclusive chat, and am left wondering where the video is.

    Paranoia or legitimate concern?

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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    As a general rule you should always follow your gut. As it happens, I am pretty sure I have had this guy 5 or 6 times and have also done c2c with him. Never found a recording of this particular show (and there are quite a few of me doing the rounds at the mo). Hope you didn't get recorded x
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    Somebody call the WAHHHHmbulance.

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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    How about legitimate paranoia?

    When I did fetish in person, I had a few guys with very specific scripts. I needed to say a specific line, I needed to do things a very specific way. They're pretty common in fetish, guys who script their fantasies. (They're also impossible to please and they're never worth the trouble.) So there's a chance this guy was one of them. Maybe he had some intense memory that keeps looping in his mind that he wants to recreate. Maybe he's OCD about his masturbation material.

    That said, I would have done the same thing. It never hurts to play it safe. Plus, being heavily directed is annoying as hell.

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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    ah.
    some guys just love to be in control.
    he;s paying so who cares...

    Yes it feels uncomfortable to take orders (pretty much what happened) but this is one of the negatives of this job... u gotta toughen up and do it with a smile...
    except the few submissive ,so nice and sweet guys, most of them will expect u do to what they say...


    Now- on the webmaster/recorded shows note...
    U should have nothing to worry about IF u did your homework.. aka... try to disguise your looks a bit... people will record u if they really want and all u can say in the end is " it was not me!"...
    Plus + The sites are allowed to use our shows for webmaster content... NOTHING u can do about that one......
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    This job has serious risks.......

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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    Personally it's not being caught that pisses me off about recordings (the whole diguise your look thing). It's the fact that they feel so fucking INTITLED as to RIP ME OFF in a way that includes my BODY.

    I know it's a regular expected part of the game. But that doesn't make it right. And it doesn't make me hate it any less.

    I say good for you for just shutting it down if you feel that bad. I would rather lose a few dollars than feel icky all day for letting some guy cross my boundaries and make me feel out of control and like shit.

    Protect your mind. You can't do this job if you don't always remember that you have to protect your mind. Protect your mind, set your boundaries. And fuck you to ANY man that tries to push you where you don't want to go.


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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    Call me a simple sally but the thought of being recorded never crossed my mind until a someone said they wouldn't be a webcam model for the fear of having their webcam sessions being on tube sites unknown to them. After hearing that my own paranoia set in. I feel my shows are less easy fun with newbies now especially when they don't return I think they have film of me.

    Its scary!!!

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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    I've had custies who are really into scripting me. Although I rather enjoy it (helps me play specifically into their fantasies enough to up-sell), I can totally see where there would be concern. Especially if the guy is so impartial and not participating in the fantasy. My guys are almost always full of "oooo"s and "ahhhh"s, despite being as specific as they can in guiding me through their own scripts.

    Honestly, the whole "I am not a webmaster" thing would be my biggest red flag. No matter how into camming my custy may be, he's not going to try to reassure me by offering some kind of title. That's almost like a cop saying, "I am not a law enforcement official..." just before a bust.

    Usually if something like that really bothers me or a custy has off behavior, I'll just shut the show off/hang up the phone and pop into my profile and raise my rates, significantly. Like, go from $2.99/min to $7/min and let him call back at that rate. If he's going to try to rip off material or act weird to me, I'm at least make going to him pay for it.
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    ^niiiiiiice. Lol raise those rates!

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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    someone recently had the balls to ask me if it would be okay for him to record out private for future use. FUCK NO BANNED FOREVER.
    cheap ass losers

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    ^ *hi5* fuck. That.

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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    they should create software that willprevent recording shows.

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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    If by chance they are recording (with sound) mention their username during the show like.. "how do you say your username? user123?" or "want me to call you user123 or something else?" or just slip it in somewhere in the middle of the session. It might help if you ever come across one and want to know who it is.

    I just made this one up but hey it might work and some might already do it lol if you want to go further with this so they won't notice or if they didn't record with sound on.. you can learn sign language and spell out their username during the session (inconspicuously) lol or make up your own sign language.

    I hope you weren't recorded though!

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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    Quote Originally Posted by AmyLynne View Post
    they should create software that willprevent recording shows.
    That will never happen because the recording programs record almost how like the "print screen" button takes an instant snapshop. There's no way to disable "print screen" so there will never be a way to disable the video recording version of that. I just record my own shows now, edit them, then make them into watermarked clips for profit ;-)

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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    The guys who type like that without any pauses or breaks AREN'T wanking their cock...its not possible to type demands that fast without a break. There are guys who'll record sessions to post or sell afterwards...so good you followed your gut. I don't care how much a guy is paying, he doesn't get to talk to me like that or tell me what to do...I hate that shit, goes against my dominating personality. This is why I'm selective on who I allow to take me private lol.

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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    ^ or they could be using

    -sunglasses- B)

    Dicktation software


    YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH


    Also writing your name on part of yourself is superuseful

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    I hate the wanabe directors and refuse to deal with them. I also agree with the trust your instincts advice, and simply go with what you feel is right for YOU. We have enough to deal with here without letting guys make us feel bad, even if it is just "paranoia". Do what you have to do to keep your stress down.


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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    I read another post on here that suggested using the customer's username in every session. I have had guys log off RIGHT after I say the name. Maybe a coincidence, but maybe not. I think it's a good idea if you're feeling uncomfortable.

    I agree that it's common for "fetish guys" to try to script the whole show, and I really don't understand how they can get off while typing that much. I am annoyed when guys want to tell me everything to say. I can see how some ladies would find this helpful. But I feel like some kind of blow-up doll/ pull-string doll when it happens. I will say some of the things that they want me to say or I'll rephrase and skip some stuff.

    But I digress...
    good for you, lady. If you don't like what they're doing, you tell them they're making you uncomfortable and they continue to do it, that's a reason to end the show anyway... on top of the fact that you suspected he was recording your show. I'm sure he can find someone else to do/say exactly what he wants, and I'm sure that there are plenty of other customers out there for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cam_Model_Jess View Post
    I read another post on here that suggested using the customer's username in every session. I have had guys log off RIGHT after I say the name. Maybe a coincidence, but maybe not. I think it's a good idea if you're feeling uncomfortable.

    I agree that it's common for "fetish guys" to try to script the whole show, and I really don't understand how they can get off while typing that much. I am annoyed when guys want to tell me everything to say. I can see how some ladies would find this helpful. But I feel like some kind of blow-up doll/ pull-string doll when it happens. I will say some of the things that they want me to say or I'll rephrase and skip some stuff.

    But I digress...
    good for you, lady. If you don't like what they're doing, you tell them they're making you uncomfortable and they continue to do it, that's a reason to end the show anyway... on top of the fact that you suspected he was recording your show. I'm sure he can find someone else to do/say exactly what he wants, and I'm sure that there are plenty of other customers out there for you.
    I ALWAYS say the username and their real name for that matter (if I know it). You don't want the site giving your vids to affiliates. And you don't want it being recorded.

    NEVER follow a script!!! There's a HUGE difference between following a script and letting the customer kind of direct the roleplay here and there. If he's a real roleplayer, he will LIKE that you don't follow his script exactly and direct it yourself using his own concept.

    It's good you follow your instinct, OP

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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    OMG I would have freaked out. I haven't even started yet but I am when I afford the cam (starting out kind of broke.) I think the bad news is that we would basically have to assume that they are ALL recorded in one way or another, let's face it.

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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    One of my favorite regs has a semi script for almost everything. Do I think he is recording me or has ever, nope, he just likes what he likes. I've learned to expect the unexpected from him and we have the best time together even though I know what gets him off is my face directly in the cam at the end saying some G*d awful madness. When he comes to see me at the club it's the same thing, he's just a freak like that

    Sorry this happened to you OP, but its pretty commonplace, nowadays especially.

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    Default Re: "Show me your face, look into the cam and say"..

    This isn't really the first time it's bothered me but this is the first one that hit my spine. The other one is the racial "I like big fat N--- cock". It makes me feel very uncomfortable and I usually pass the buck, "that's all I need is for the site admin to overhear me and ban me for racism" as my out. Funny how I don't want to offend the offensive huh?

    Best advice here: Protect your mind. You hit it right there.

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    Yeah is is definatly recording you. if he needed a script he would have told you before hand. these men record us for there personal collection, and sometimes others. Thats why it only makes sense to make TOP dollar in this industry. Fuck that shit.

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    I hate guys with a script. It always makes me paranoid. I generally stop a bunch and improvise and ask them what's up with the specific script just to screw with them.


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