Hiya everyone. New here to posting, but been lurking and reading the forums for a bit. I'm also new to dancing and I'm in need of some advice.
I've been working for about three weeks, and just now settling into a good routine with school and work that has me dancing Tuesdays & Thursdays (and Saturdays when I really need the money). At my club, the patrons and completely different on weeknights from weekends. The fellows that come to visit on weeknights seem to know where they are and what they're expected to be buying and tipping, which requires a little less teeth-pulling from my part. However, these weeknight patrons seem to also not understand that a strip club isn't actually for finding dates or a girlfriend. Every night, I get at least three or four guys that persists for my number, talks about dates that we could have, and vacations we could take, friends he wants me to meet, family bbqs he wants me to attend this weekend, etc... It's flattering and coming from men that are usually completely respectful and normal (and even sober!), but I'm not interested, across the board. I'm abstinent and don't entangle myself in dating or any illusion of romantic relationships (and my life is MUCH more simple and happy because of it!), but I'm not sure how to turn down their requests without also losing a customer. I've tried the excuse about "management not allowing customers and dancers to date," but that just seems like such a lie since everyone knows dancers are independent contractors and we do what we want. I've thought about designing a fake boyfriend, but I'm a dreadful liar and I've heard customers are turned off by dancers with real intimacy waiting at home, knowing that her act in the club is 100% fake.
Any other ideas?? My dancer persona is racking up "club boyfriends" for now and it's going to get messy when three of them show up on one night intending to take her to VIP for the whole night. LOL LOL I'll have to start giving out her boyfriend's schedules!



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) and that right now i am only interested in friendships and focusing on school. 


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