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    Default Waitresses doing lapdances?

    I'm curious if this is a norm in most clubs? This is the only club I have ever worked at, and the waitresses do lapdances. One in particular is a top seller, always making more than the dancers. I'm not necessarily "hating" on it, as I consider myself a top earner too, but it's slow season and I know it takes lots of money from the other dancers... but the club is making money off her, so it makes sense to have her do this.

    Is this typical in most SCs?

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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    Not really, but I've seen about two clubs doing this.





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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    I've seen a few clubs do this, and there's always a way to buy a waitresses time to get her off the floor--

    the only problem I have is when the waitresses are too busy hustling dances that they leave their area uncovered and guys are waiting around for someone to come by and take their drink order.

    plus, I've seen some really fugly waitresses put the pressure on guys to buy dances from them. Like huge heifer guts and everything. I think that scares some clientele away as well.

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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    They use to do this at a certain club in Vegas and it would bug me because I don't think they paid house fees, still got an hourly, didn't have to go on stage and STILL got money from not only the shots, but lap dances...not. fair.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    They use to do this at a certain club in Vegas and it would bug me because I don't think they paid house fees, still got an hourly, didn't have to go on stage and STILL got money from not only the shots, but lap dances...not. fair.
    Yes! They dont pay house fees... pretty unfair!

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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    I've seen it at one club.

    Management told the girls to charge double for dances--my friend was a shot girl and she did a $50 dance! I wasn't mad because she was my friend. It isn't really common place. Most of the waitresses didn't want to dance for men which is why they are waitresses, and they don't typically sit with customers and hustle them for dances. I know some waitresses are asked for dances, I see no harm in them occasionally doing a lap dance. Now, if they are making over $100+/night on dances then they should pay a house fee and become dancers with the rest of us. That would be one of the most clever hustles ever--undercover stripper posing as waitress LOL.

    At my current club the waitresses can do nude photographs with a regular who has been coming to our club for 12 years. He has never put any photos on the internet and is very well regarded in our club. He typically spends $200+ on 3-4 girls per night and he does not play favorites. He cycles through all of the old dancers and then has the new girls and waitresses photographed with him by our staff and pays very well. I'd say 90% of the girls at my club presently have posed for him, myself included. He also buys a drink for just about any dancer/staff member that walks up without being asked, and he will take 1-2 girls per night shopping in our Love Boutique for new clothes, shoes, make up, fragrances, etc.

    He is a genuinely nice guy, doesn't sit at tables. He stands at the bar and it's basically first come first serve unless he has his eye on someone. He makes conversation, doesn't grab up on you, isn't perverted. I'm sure he jerks off to the pictures at home but he is also a photographer outside of work as a general hobby. He is an older man, at least 65. Very nice man.
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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    I think management just doesnt give a fuck bc times are tough in this economy..and if they can make a percentage off of the LD that a waitress does....they will.

    I bartend at one club, and I get asked to show my tits, do dances etc...and I refuse. I think its so fucking disrespectful to the dancers. If a dancer comes up to a guy I am talking to, to collect her tip...I walk the fuck away. I think some girls are just attention whores and thats why they dont comprehend respect

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    At one club in n my area they actually put the waitresses up on the runway with the dancers. Supposedly the customers "request" the waitresses when they come up but it alwaysss takes money away from the dancers. It always fucks up the dancers' money and usually there are lots of complaints. And the some of the waitresses claim "they could never be a dancer" but yeahhhh they can get up and dance on a runway like a dancer but yeah somehow some of those waitresses think they r "better" than the dancers. What a crock of shit and unfortunately this is allowed by management. Really no one gives a shit about the dancers anymore.

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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    My club does this! There are two types of waitresses - regular, and dancing waitresses. Dancing waitresses have to pay more than the strippers though. We pay 10% of what we make, plus house fee. The dancing waitresses have to pay 20% The normal waitresses pay 15%.

    Sometimes I feel like the patrons like to get dances with the waitresses because they feel less threatened by them. Like "Oh they're just waitresses they can' t possibly try to hustle me like the strippers." And then there is the whole waitress fantasy thing. :/


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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    I forgot to add there are NO lapdances at this club. At 90% of the clubs in my area there are no lapdances so when waitresses r put on the runway it really fucks with the dancer's money.

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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    the only issue that i have with this is that the waitresses are employees who are paid an hourly wage and dancers are not. and if they are both doing the same thing, then compensation should be the same. i don't think it fucks with my money because most of the idiots i see getting dances with waitresses talk to the waitresses excessively and i don't believe in talking to customers unless it's absolutely necessary.

    and re: the fairness issue of strip clubs, mgmt doesn't give a shit because mgmt stopped making money a long time ago.

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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    Ive heard of it but only in clubs where they used dancers for waitresses a few nights a week. Or shotgirls!

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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    How does the club make money off the waitresses dancing? Does she pay house or a cut from the dance?




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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    I've heard of this being done in some clubs and I think it's BS. Now, at my old club, there were girls were waitresses some nights and danced other nights. That was fine with me, because they were basically being hired to do different jobs on different nights, and they were usually only dancing 1 night a week. But I think it's ridiculous to allow waitresses who are waitressing that night to also be able to give dances. It's not fair that they can make money off drinks and dances - dances that they get from customers that are now being taken away from the girls who only dance and aren't allowed to make extra money off also serving drinks. I think it's a stupid system and I wouldn't want to work anywhere that did it

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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    They make money the same way. Sometimes the waitress is available but not active. In some cases its a dancer who is waitressing like one club in Denver used to do. They couldnt get real waitresses since it was non alcoholic so they just paid dancers a flat fee plus tips to sell non alcoholic shots and drinks. Ironically a lot of stupid guys bought shots thinking there was alcohol in them.

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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    Im glad we don't have this rubbish setup in the UK!, I wouldnt want to work where the waitresses dance!.
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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    Quote Originally Posted by Stripper Hacks View Post
    How does the club make money off the waitresses dancing? Does she pay house or a cut from the dance?
    Yes, the club gets cuts from all of our dances. We only do private dances, and the club gets about 40% roughly... The dances are overpriced, so it works out... but yeah the club makes money off them. I'm starting to get a bit upset about this. I LOVE my club and have really gotten in good with mgmt, but I'm starting to consider other places. As dancers, we already have enough competition. It bothers me that I'm walking around half naked hustling guys, while these "waitresses" are getting lots of benefits with little cost.

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    Default Re: Waitresses doing lapdances?

    I hate waitress dances, and think they're stupid. No matter what way they're explained to me, I can't get behind them. I also think over pricing dances waitresses do devalues the dancers. Like for example, it's $100 for a waitress dance but only $40 for a dancer? Why is the waitress more "special" to see naked?

    Even if the club makes money off of it, I don't think it's right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chanzep View Post
    Im glad we don't have this rubbish setup in the UK!, I wouldnt want to work where the waitresses dance!.
    I can see some stupid club cottoning on to this though...

    Guys like the waitress thing because it appeals more to their whole "girl next door" fantasy. They feeel they're getting something unusual. But in no way is it fair to allow this. Honestly, what the fuck has this industry come to?!

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    That is not fucking cool.
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