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    Question Going nude.

    Some of you know me around the internet, some of you only know me here (and some of you are like wtf who is this chick and why the hell do I care?).

    Anyways, I'm a non-nude camgirl. I've been a camgirl for over a year now. When I started, I did random goofy things in my shows - I played hangman, emptied the dishwasher, baked my dog a birthday cake. All completely dressed, ie jeans and a hoodie. No dirty talk, no NOTHING. And I did that for months.

    Then I started camming with a friend, and for a little while we continued being goofy, and then for a few months we did bra/panties shows and massages and stuff like that. She was adamantly straight, so we didn't make out or anything like that.

    Then it was expected of me to keep up that sexuality in my solo shows. So I did. I started doing body painting and icing shows and YES, even a couple masturbation shows (I've done 3 in my entire "career", and yes I kept my panties on). I still do alright with income (hell, it's better than mcdonalds, and I can sit here with my wet hair in a towel and my sweatpants on) but lately it just seems like everyone is saying "oh, well, let me know when you go nude" and trying to pressure me into it. In the past I've been like "well, I'm not comfortable with it, I'm going to be a teacher and don't want my bits all over the internet for forty years, so NO." but now I'm like ... they're just boobs, who cares; it's just pussy, whatever. I love my body and think it's absolutely gorgeous, but I just can't decide what to do.

    The last time I had a little meltdown like this, a few of you SWers snapped me out of it and convinced me not to do it. But honestly, I just can't deal with the constant demands. (Plus, I'm hella depressed - my post in the diary entry is just a handful of the shit that's going on). I know a few of you will probably suggest taking time off, but I CAN'T. I took almost all of August off and half of July. I can't do it. I've powered through burnout before and it's worked out fine. I just need a vote of confidence or something. Or for someone to say "look, we're all naked, be naked with us! It's not that big of a deal."


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    Default Re: Going nude.

    Unless you are a fetish cam girl or you have spy cams in your house then it makes sense that customers would want to see you nude.

    I would say if you are comfortable being nude and if you think that it would increase your revenue then go for it. You will likely be recorded and pictures of you will surface, but you can wear a wig and fake glasses plus dark make up to make yourself less identifiable in the future. Sex work is not the place for guaranteed anonymity so it is a risk all of us take. Even escorts and strippers run the risk of guys snapping a picture or recording without them knowing.
    If you are willing to do for one year what other's won't, you can spend a lifetime doing what other's cant.


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    Default Re: Going nude.

    This is the same way I started. My first year was spent completely dressed. My 2nd year was pretty much only fetish modeling/posing and burlesque. There is a HUGE softcore audience. (This is part of the reason I get so upset with the girls who put on tease shows in free chat, they are killing an entire niche). It wasn't until the internet started to fill up with coeds who were willing to do 10 times the things I was doing, did I collapse to the pressure and decided it was time to push my limits.

    The difference between what I am doing now and what I was doing then was my mind set and my psychological self. There will be guys that pressure you but remember YOU are in control. This is YOUR chat room, YOUR body and YOUR mind. NO ONE is entitled to your chat room, your body or your mind. Stay firm and let everyone know what YOU expect from THEM, and don't allow them to turn that table on you.

    Also remember, especially when it comes to the rude, troll types, the words written on your chat page are just that.. words written on a page. They have no meaning unless you assign them meaning.

    If you plan to continue doing what you are doing, write an outline for yourself as if your are writing a business model. Don't stray from that business model because once you do your consumers will become confused. Treat it as it is. You are a store front and you offer certain products.

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    Default Re: Going nude.

    NOPE. FUCK THESE XXX MEN. I FIND THEM DISRESPECTFUL.

    If you dont want to get naked , do not, end of story.

    We run this shit, not some old ass fat slob jacking off in his mothers basement.

    How about going into sensual domination since you already have the art of tease down pact?

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    I know how you feel about this. I just removed my geographic restrictions to see if it helps my income any. I'm in a tight spot. I was willing to do the sex shows from the beginning, but I just didn't want to be all over the internet. I was soooooo very upset yesterday when I had to remove those restricts. I mean, I know having them there didn't guarantee anything, but it made me feel better to know that my private shows weren't being recorded and then the videos redistributed as looooong popups for other sites.

    I made a sacrifice to make more money. You have to decide what's best for you. If a parent of one of your students/ the principal found videos of you doing some of what you've ALREADY done and knew it was done on a porn site, you'd be in just about the same position as if that parent/ principal found sex videos of you. So I say go for it and make sure you're disguised.

    But... if you made a promise to yourself that you never would, and you think that giving in would really mess with your mind and your self-esteem, then don't do it.

    I, myself, have pride/ego issues and would be piiiiisssed the first few days I went back online, thinking, "you cheap motherf-ing jerks did this to me. You better pay me big bucks." Then I would need a while to calm down and realize that I am the only one who can decide what I do on cam. If I'm being pressured to do something and I REALLY don't want to do it, I can go get another job. Time and again, I choose to give into demands & put up with more b.s. instead of getting another job.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CammingSince97 View Post
    This is YOUR chat room, YOUR body and YOUR mind. NO ONE is entitled to your chat room, your body or your mind. Stay firm and let everyone know what YOU expect from THEM, and don't allow them to turn that table on you....
    ...If you plan to continue doing what you are doing, write an outline for yourself as if your are writing a business model. Don't stray from that business model because once you do your consumers will become confused. Treat it as it is. You are a store front and you offer certain products.
    I like this and think it's very good advice. Listen to this lady, hon. If you DO decide to go nude, then I think that making a plan for yourself is an awesome idea. That way you're not blowing apart your boundaries or constantly changing them, you're just setting new boundaries/ pushing them forward a little.

    I think that it could get confusing for your customers. But more importantly, I think it could be confusing for you. I've gone through it myself.

    Please PM me if you want to talk. I am pretty much in the same boat career-wise & having to make decisions about exposure.

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    If you're comfortable going nude, then I think you would appeal to a wider customer base. I think there is a certain type of guy who pays for a non nude girl and the rest are there to jerk off to something.

    But, if you're not comfy and don't want to do it, don't let them pressure you into it! If you make the decision because of the pressure, you will likely regret it later.

    I personally don't think nudity is a big deal but I am not going to be a teacher or politician or anything like that, so I don't care if my content is out there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CamWhore View Post
    NOPE. FUCK THESE XXX MEN. I FIND THEM DISRESPECTFUL.

    If you dont want to get naked , do not, end of story.

    We run this shit, not some old ass fat slob jacking off in his mothers basement.

    How about going into sensual domination since you already have the art of tease down pact?
    I agree.

    I think this is a fabulous idea for you!


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    Do what you feel good about doing. I'm a nudest, i like being nude not sexy nude just everyday the-way-god-made-me nude. DO what you need to to be happy with yourself. There will always be jerk-offs in your room demanding shit.

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    I say stick to your guns Miss Ego. You'e a non-nude cam girl, that's your entire persona. If you change now you will lose many of the customers who love you for who you are. Sure you'll gain a few more, but will you be happy catering to those type of guys in the long run? Personally I couldn't entertain being non-nude, but that's because I think it's a lot easier, for me at least. A lot of girls think this way, so you are in the minority. That gives you a lot of power in many ways. Just tell the guys that you are non-nude and that's the way it's gonna be, like it or lump it. You MAY, at your discretion, do masturbation shows, and you may even get naked once in a while, but for the most part you are what it says on the tin, and they should not expect anything more. Stay strong girl, stick with what/ who you are and don't be discouraged x

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    Dont change who you are for horny men and their dumb sticks. If teaching is something you're passionate about, then doing something that could sabatoge that would be a huge mistake. Go with your gut...if you're uncomfortable being nude then dont do it. And especially dont do things because random guys on an adult site are pressuring you or trying to lay some lame guilt trip. Theres another thread on here about how well some non nude models are doing. Maybe just come up with new things to do in your room..non nude things that is

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    Only go nude if you feel comfortable with it. Make the countdown to nudity an event and bank off it.

    If you are feeling down and pressured into going nude i.e going past a personal boundary, then you are just going to hate the work when you make the transition.

    You want to feel empowered when you work. Once you go nude, you can't really mix non-nude in with the nude. It will be all nude all the time.

    I went from nude to non-nude and I wish I knew about the possibility of non-nude when I started. It is much easier to keep a boundary than to explain a new boundary (for example nude, but no penetration).

    I don't think there is anything wrong with nudity. But there are consequences for future career paths if you are still considering a particular career track. I just explain that I never go nude anymore because it prevents confusion with in person clients.

    Stick with tease and denial and CFNM masturbation instruction private cam shows (cam2cam). You already have the skills, just build on those niches. You can earn the same and sometimes more $ wise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BellaBellini View Post
    It is much easier to keep a boundary than to explain a new boundary (for example nude, but no penetration).
    This. The problem is that no matter how many boundaries you cross, these men will still push you to do more. Sure there are guys now who want to pressure you into nudity, but what about once they've got you nude? They will always want more and more from you, for less and less.

    I think you should go nude if you want to and if you would truly enjoy it. It does not sound like that is the case. And don't forget to note that there are so many women, especially on MFC, who are nude and sit around topless and nude and don't necessarily earn any money. How awful would it be to become a nude model and still sometimes earn far less than you have on fully clothed days? Would you feel like you were selling yourself short? What if you don't increase your income significantly by going nude? What if you wind up earning less in the long run because of it? The truth is you can't really predict what outcomes will be for that, but you can predict what may happen to your future career if naked pictures of you pop-up.

    You seem to be so successful non-nude and to have a lot going for you and your head on straight. Please don't let them pressure you into doing something you never intended to do.

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    they are always gonna want something...once you go nude, they will want something else. they will probably be happy for a week and then complain that you don't stuff bananas in your ass.
    "Achieving success is a challenge but so is struggling so you may as well choose success."

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    OMG great thread- I didn't even know non nude was an option.

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    Thanks ladies. I really, REALLY needed this pep talk. Seriously, I'm in tears just reading this lol (what the heeeelll is wrong with me, amiright?)

    I think I just need to explore some more non-nude fetishes. I've honestly been completely vanilla for so long, it's totally nervewracking to do new stuff I guess it's off to watch porn clips tonight. For research, of course.

    But you guys are right, if I want to go nude it should be something I've thought out and planned on for a long time... and then I should auction off my first nude show


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    ^There you go


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    Also think about what will happen if you go nude and ... it's not better money. Are you gonna go back to non-nude? I started out being nude a lot more often than I am now, and I was struggling. I decided to put my clothes back on, and I make WAY more money now than when I was sitting around naked. WAY MORE. Just keep in mind that what guys say they want and what actually turns them on and drives them to spend money on you, are two completely different things. The whole summer sucked for a lot of us, so don't jump to the conclusion that it's your clothes that are the problem. And (hugggs) - I feel ya!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissEgo View Post
    Thanks ladies. I really, REALLY needed this pep talk. Seriously, I'm in tears just reading this lol (what the heeeelll is wrong with me, amiright?)
    If this is the case, then ignore my first response. If you are having those kinds of feelings about it, then please don't do it. Be true to yourself and what you want. I have guys in my room all day long begging and begging. It gets annoying but I don't give in. They KNOW I don't do anal, I tell them repeatedly and they still beg for it, offer to tip for it, etc. They get pissed off and swear at me. I will NEVER do anal no matter what someone on there says. I wouldn't do it even if I couldn't make money anymore b/c of it. Because that's my boundary and I feel strongly about it.

    Apparently you feel strongly about your boundary too. Now it makes me sad to think of you giving in to the guys who, once you go nude, will probably just sit in your free room and ask for stuff for free, and (as someone else said), it might not help your income at all.

    It's one thing to make a mistake. It's another thing to know it's a mistake and do it anyway. It's apparent to me that you know it's a mistake. Good luck, hon.

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    Thanks girls.

    I think I just needed to be reminded that it's been slow for everyone, guys can be assholes, and boundaries are so freaking important to set and maintain, not only for myself but for my regulars as well. I've given my head a good shake!

    On another note - I watched SO.MUCH.PORN. and fetish clips. And my cam notebook has a ton of new ideas in it. Thank you sosososo much.


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    I have seen some non-nude girls on mfc go nude and do toy shows (although I have seen a post on sw from one of them keeping it fake) because of the summer drought (desperate times call for desperate measures) but I'm glad you decided to stick to Ur guns. Never compromise!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissEgo View Post
    Thanks girls.

    I think I just needed to be reminded that it's been slow for everyone, guys can be assholes, and boundaries are so freaking important to set and maintain, not only for myself but for my regulars as well. I've given my head a good shake!

    On another note - I watched SO.MUCH.PORN. and fetish clips. And my cam notebook has a ton of new ideas in it. Thank you sosososo much.
    I'm glad that you are going to try to find ways to make money doing things you enjoy. I've been doing the same and realizing that we really do make our own career here and I had gotten caught in a rut thinking I had to do more mainstream stuff when I realized I don't really enjoy that. I'm basically using my mainstream camming site to give me a little breathing room while I work on my fetish stuff and build my business up doing what I enjoy most.

    If you do get into a spot where you feel you wanted to try nude but don't want to conflict with your main persona, you could always sign up on another high traffic site and totally disguise yourself - wig, totally different makeup, maybe totally different clothing you never wear on cam otherwise. I've got a couple different "personalities" online and it's really really fun, sort of like playing dressup - plus a little bonus money and it keeps me from being completely bored because I can switch around.


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    Stay away from the slippery slop, lol. There will ALWAYS be someone wanting something you don't do. or example, I do nude cause that's just how I roll, I'm a nudist offcam anyway. In private, I'll all sorts of penetration - I only have one very important rule - I ONLY use toys, because I think its important to preserve my health above all (never had an infection, not going to get one for a couple bucks, right?). Well guess what guys ask me all the time? That's right, weird, unclean object stuffing. And if I bent on that, I just bet after a week, someone would be coming up with something else entirely "I should be doing, why don't I do it?".

    I've started to understand in many cases, the "requests" are more about a power fetish "hey lets see how far my money goes" than an actual fetish regarding whatever it is they want you to do. A simple "not comfortable doing x" should be more than enough, but even with a great justification o not do something, some guys are just into pushing. Well, its not their game. WE are the entertainers, its our bodies we're talking about. And lucky them, whatever we don't do, some girl a couple rows up or down will be doing it, so if they're pushing you, its for the sake of pushing only. Don't hurt your ego for these sorts of douches. Gentlemen may be few, but they sure know how to pay well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by h0ttie View Post
    they are always gonna want something...once you go nude, they will want something else. they will probably be happy for a week and then complain that you don't stuff bananas in your ass.


    YES to this! LMFAO!


    You could have THE sexiest nude body on the planet, but still have weirdos coming in the room saying "Feet plz?"..."Fart for me bb?," etc. *sigh* I've seen this so many times on MFC. A beautiful model in the middle of a show, and some douchebag asking lame-ass questions and expecting her to STOP to cater to his weird self.

    Also, you can't please everybody...it doesn't matter how hot you are. Do what YOU are happy and comfortable with. If you're uncomfortable with something, it's likely to show, and you wouldn't want to come across as a cam girl who doesn't like her job. I know that you love being a cam girl, and we don't want you dreading your next camming shift. So do YOU and good luck!
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    ^exactly this, as far as I understand str8 male thinking they get off on pushing your boundaries not your body per se. (how backwards *eyeroll*)

    once you start doing anal they will start asking you to poop on your bed and so forth... *the very act is not important it's the validation/accomplishment they feel for having pushed you to do it.*

    why couldn't they just be normal? If I want to get off I just open a picture of a hot guy to look at lol and he doesn't even have to be fully naked a str8 man is not satisfied w/ a picture of a hot woman (b/c they're retarded obviously) but this is also what keeps camming as an industry going and you have to make sure you don't blink first in this blinking game or give in sssslowly (if you've decided to do it)

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