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    Default Re: Would you try to help... or no?

    I wouldnt get too involved. Id throw the option out there but I would not overextend myself to anyone. Shes in a mess and no offense but it may end up taking too much energy away from urself if u try too hard to help her. U can only show her the way its up to her as to whether she wants it or not. Some girls just rnt meant for the business.

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    Default Re: Would you try to help... or no?

    I'd give her this website, or the other site's web address, and leave it at that.

    I know it's hard not to get involved, but really, it could hurt you in the long run.

    Maybe answer her questions, and be brutally honest that way she doesn't have any illusions about how stripping really is. Don't sugarcoat anything.
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    Default Re: Would you try to help... or no?

    Don't get involved. If she starts dancing and hates it, she could be resentful of you. Not to be cold, but it's really none of your business. You've put the option out there, that's all you need to do.

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    Default Re: Would you try to help... or no?

    I enjoy helping other people....its kept clean off some hard shit for over 10 years. I do however never let myself get to involved....such as giving people money...letting them use me for a taxi..etc.

    If you like this girl I dont think there is anything wrong with being supportive. Ways you could be supportive is just listening to her, and sharing your experiences. Thats all you can do really. Try not to be judgemental...just try to relate to her as much you can...and share your experience.

    I also think her fears and questions are valid...and maybe by talking to someone who is in the industry can help erase her views and answer some questions.

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    Default Re: Would you try to help... or no?

    I agree with all of the other girls. She needs to decide for herself if this is what she wants to do, you can't make that decision for her.

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    Default Re: Would you try to help... or no?

    I have to agree with others and say mention it but don't pressure her. If she isn't meant to dance she might hate you for suggesting it. Years ago I recommended stripping to a down on her luck friend. She tried it, got into the nasty aspects of it (namely drugs)and then blamed me for getitng her involved.

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    Default Re: Would you try to help... or no?

    If she does decide to try it tell her not to quit her serving job until she's sure stripping is for her. Worst thing that could happen is she quits to be a stripper, hates it after a week then winds up jobless or forced to keep dancing.

    Sounds like you've done your part in helping inform her. I'm like amorescudero and enjoy helping people so I would keep answering any questions she has and offer to help her find a club and outfits etc if she does decide to do it but to be honest it doesn't sound like it's for her so definitely don't push it.

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    Default Re: Would you try to help... or no?

    I agree with whats being said, u have done your part already leave it to her now.
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