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    Theres a guy thats taken me pvt many times a month since last Nov..I've never played with him and other than the occasional flash we usually just talk. I'm always so happy when he comes around because he's like my perverted buddy and most of the time we're talking about fantasies he has about men. Last week though he started talking more about fantasies with me and I got a weird vibe. Today he came on and when he said bye he ended it with "luv ya" now I know thats harmless and I say it to my friends all the time but I'm just hoping he doesnt start getting all emotional or starts thinking he has feeling for me. Has anyone had experience with a reg thinking he's in some type of relationship with you? I would never lead him on but I dont want him making things awkward. I need him and his money damnit lol

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    Default Re: I might lose my best reg..

    Just play a long with it for now. I guess when he starts asking when he can meet you, and or buy a plane ticket to come visit...then maybe at that point you will need to chat with him about it. For now, I mean whatever. I know it's weird when guys say this, because I get it too from guys, but I usually don't respond with "luv ya too" or anything like that. I may just do a smiley face, or a "aw thanks babe".




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    Default Re: I might lose my best reg..

    i wouldn't think anything of it. i mean you guys have chatted all the time for like a year. of course he luvs ya lol. i don't think he thinks he is in some type of relationship.
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    lol I hope not...I should just try to distract him and go back to focusing on his beach gang bang fantasy that he has. Unfortunately he only lives about an hour and a half away so he better not show up here lol...maybe its shallow but if he was 30 yrs younger and hot I might not mind but being quite a bit older and the fact that I've seen him wear panties I just dont want to be the object of his affection

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    I think if *you* get uncomfortable that will cause him to stop spending faster than anything else. Don't worry about it - of course he likes you on some level but it's likely nothing serious. Most of the time when guys start to like their stripper/camgirl friend, the girl freaks out and THAT is the biggest cause of the deterioration of the relationship.

    So basically, don't sweat it. He isn't in love with you. Stay with the same attitude as always.


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    I have one of those. He would take me to private for 30min talking sessions - fully clothed. Then he tipped largely for my phone number. I figured he would text 5-10 times a week and it would be worth the tip amount. But he ended up texting me every 5 minutes 7 days a week. I figured well since I had 300 free texts and that he'd paid quite a lot for the number that I would reply. So 300 texts later and about 4 days has passed. I know his life story by now. Anyway I was on my period that week and didn't log onto MFC. But when I went back I noticed he wasnt there at his usual time. So I text to ask when he was coming to take me to private. And he was like "I prefer to chat on text instead its nicer and I can be doing my normal stuff same time".
    Anyway I thought FUCK YOU and stop replying to his texts (only had continued it cause I felt a bit bad if he paid for the number and got nothing from it - but now he was basically saying he ONLY wants to txt and never PAY ME ANYTHING AGAIN).

    I quickly "lost my phone" and now he logs on and sends me emails to my mfc with his number in so that when I get my new phone I can text him again. He's sent about 30 so far and I haven't replied to any of them. So that was my best reg lost story.

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    Default Re: I might lose my best reg..

    say thank u god for all the money u got from him so far and move on..
    it was nice while it lasted..
    ive been through many similar situations.. i have lot lots of $$$ because i did not give my phone # out... and so on... but u know what.... u can make $ without all this drama

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    Default Re: I might lose my best reg..

    Dont read too much into it...

    you two have an established relationship...

    now he said "luv ya" which is a friends thing...

    Now if he said "I love you" that's different.....

    Relax because it's no a big deal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TeenageAnnie View Post
    I have one of those. He would take me to private for 30min talking sessions - fully clothed. Then he tipped largely for my phone number. I figured he would text 5-10 times a week and it would be worth the tip amount. But he ended up texting me every 5 minutes 7 days a week. I figured well since I had 300 free texts and that he'd paid quite a lot for the number that I would reply. So 300 texts later and about 4 days has passed. I know his life story by now. Anyway I was on my period that week and didn't log onto MFC. But when I went back I noticed he wasnt there at his usual time. So I text to ask when he was coming to take me to private. And he was like "I prefer to chat on text instead its nicer and I can be doing my normal stuff same time".
    Anyway I thought FUCK YOU and stop replying to his texts (only had continued it cause I felt a bit bad if he paid for the number and got nothing from it - but now he was basically saying he ONLY wants to txt and never PAY ME ANYTHING AGAIN).

    I quickly "lost my phone" and now he logs on and sends me emails to my mfc with his number in so that when I get my new phone I can text him again. He's sent about 30 so far and I haven't replied to any of them. So that was my best reg lost story.
    Ya, pretty much every time you let them past the usual customer zone, they feel too "special" to spend anymore money on you. Lesson learned.


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    Quote Originally Posted by SupaByoch View Post
    Ya, pretty much every time you let them past the usual customer zone, they feel too "special" to spend anymore money on you. Lesson learned.
    yep, just waiting for my current ones to expire any time now - like they all do.
    Even the most obsessive ones, practically proposing marriage and all sorts of other random stuff, messaging me 24/7 etc. When they realise you're not going to meet up/move in with them/whatever, you won't see them for dust, ha ha.
    I just act sweet as pie to all of them but that's as far as it goes.
    I know it's just a massive masturbatory fantasy to them and so I don't take any of it seriously. I don't worry when they disappear either; plenty more where that came from

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    Thanks for helping me feel better he came on today also and seemed to keep his boundries. I guess I was just worried because he's been a huge contributor to my income and is a genuinely nice guy so I didnt want things to get "weird" but you're right Scarlet...these guys come and go and theres alway another one that will come around.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SupaByoch View Post
    Ya, pretty much every time you let them past the usual customer zone, they feel too "special" to spend anymore money on you. Lesson learned.
    Too right I learnt my lesson. I now have it written on my profile that I DO NOT give my phone number out EVER.

    I was new and he obviously took advantage of that..

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    OMG YES

    I would not lead him on because I have learned the hard way.

    I have had a regular for a longggggggggg time now that I have no idea what to do with anymore.
    When we first met he was a big spender, one of my best of all TIME. The L word comes up. From there, wants to meet me. I NEVER lead him on. I say the L word back because i believe it is part of the fantasy. Long story short, many a denials later, going on 7 years later, this guy still has it in his head that I am his GIRLFRIEND.

    This guy has asked to meet me soooo many times but I have never said yes, or lead him on. I flat out deny him, say it wont happen. He has mentioned me MOVING IN WITH HIM after the many denials.

    It has gotten to the point where i cannot hustle him anymore. I used t have no problem making money from him lol for "sudden bills" but now all he says is

    "If you were living with me yada yada yada"

    If I need to pay rent:

    "Oh you should move in with me"

    It is absolutely rediculous, but even after all of the denials he still pays from time to time. I just cant believe he still pays. Most of these guys will move on after so many denials but not this one. It really scares me actually, I hate to say it. How dellusional is this guy really and what would he really do to me if he met me in person. I shudder at the thought.

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    PS if me mentions a plane ticket, tell him you have bills to pay. YOU CANT possiblyy take a "vacation" with so many bills to pay, but you are soooo glad to hear he can afford to get you a plane ticket that means you can help me pay my bills now, asshole!

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    I've actually turned into good friends with one of my long time regulars. OK good cam friends that is, no real names or actual phone conversations. We chat via text and IM all the time even when I'm not working on cam. He asks about my real life, husband and my kids too. I just laughed when he told me that he is re arranging his work schedule to accommodate my new schedule so we can continue our time together. He has followed me to the different cam sites that I have been on. I love making new friend,s hell its his dime and so far he hasn't crossed the line.

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    I don't respond to customer e-mail, unsolicited phone calls or IM's and they are not allowed to linger in my chat room for chit chat unless it's convenient for me.

    Period.

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    i had a guy that i used to get pvts from all the time. and i would always chat with him in free chat too, he was a pretty chill guy. then recently he told me how he realized how much he liked me and that i made him want to stop being a "customer" and go out in the real world and find a girl like me. he told me he was done paying for cyber sex with everyone and he tipped me all he had left in tokens. then he deleted his account. then a week later he created a basic account under the same name, and just tries to get free shows from me now. hes says he deserves it b/c he "help me out soo much" =|

    idk i realized once you start treating them too nice. they forget they are customers, and start to think they are actual friends. which is not the case.

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    ^wow, what a loser!

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