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    So I guess they are so lacking in sexual skills that they have to pretend to be gay in order to try to hang on to their man? Why don't they go to a gay bar instead so that we can do our job with out being harrassed?
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    Huh? Whacha talking about Willis?

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    I have no problem with guys bringing their ladies to the club; I actually enjoy dancing for couples!





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    Oh c'mon I probably like women more than my husband.

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    sorry if you're being harrassed alot, keep away from them, and let another dancer get so mad she throws her stiletto at the ladies head while the bouncer is dragging the lady customer out haha true story.

    However I have been having the BEST experience with chicks since I started dancing in Seattle. So much that I go up to them. <3
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    I dunno wtf you are experiencing. Are you approaching the guy for dances instead of his gf/wife?

    As a bi girl who seriously digs women, Im offended. I dont wanna go to a gay bar if Im in the mood to see some hot girl dance and rub all over my man and I. It also doesnt reflect on my sexual skills. I KNOW Im damn hot in the sack. Enjoying women doesnt mean Im somehow lacking....and btw, drunk, pretend bi girls really offend the fuck out of most actual bisexuals.

    Also, how is buying couples dances harrasment?
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    Hmm.. I understand the first rant, as I've seen a lot of girls follow their bf/husband into the club just to "keep an eye on things" and then just sit there with this jealous look on their face, preventing everyone from having a good time. I don't really understand the second statement though, about them going to gay bars... aren't they just "pretending" to be gay... so why would they go to a gay bar?

    Anyway, I've also met couples that were tons of fun and there together because they wanted to have fun together. It just depends.

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    We occasionally get posts from frustrated female customers here on SW along the lines of:
    "I went to the SC w/ my husband/bf/gf/alone, and I had money to spend and was wanting to buy dances, but none of the dancers would approach me...".
    The occasional wife or gf that gets dragged along to the club can really ruin it for all the great women customers out there. It's too bad that they're not secure enough to say "I don't feel comfortable doing that, I'd rather not go" - instead they sit there and glare at us and act like total bitches the whole time, and prevent their husbands from spending money on us. It seems like you just had an encounter with one of these dreaded uncomfortable and defensive wives, so I totally get why you would feel so put off toward couples/women custies at the moment.

    Please just try to remember that lots of women come in to the club to spend and have a good time - they're not all jealous bitches. It's easy for us to judge an entire group of people after having a couple of bad experiences - dancers do this all too often with various races/ethnicities/people from certain countries.

    Don't let whatever bitch put you in such a bad mood yesterday prevent you from making good money off of the next cool wife or girlfriend that comes in.
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    ...and btw, drunk, pretend bi girls really offend the fuck out of most actual bisexuals.
    Yup!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sillykitty View Post
    Oh c'mon I probably like women more than my husband.
    I feel the same way; I check out women more than any men I've been with.





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    From a business perspective, I don't really understand the problem with female customers, as long as management does its business by kicking out disruptive customers, whether they are male or female.

    If a female customer comes to a strip club and is happy to be there, is buying dances and enjoying the experience along with her man, then everyone wins. The strippers get more money, the couple gets what they paid for, and the SC makes money.

    If the female customer is preventing her man from spending money, the dancers should probably just avoid that particular couple, just like the dancers avoid cheapskate men who spend two hours nursing a Miller Lite while refusing to spend a dime on any of the girls.

    If a female customer starts being rude to the dancers, physically assaults them, gets up on stage and tries to dance, etc, then management should remove that female customer from the facility, just like they'd remove a male customer who does the same thing.

    As long as management is doing its job, I'm not sure why female customers would be a problem.

    I realize that there are some people who believe that female customers should be banned from the club altogether. I am not necessarily opposed to this idea, as it does bring things back to the concept of a "gentleman's club," but if we're going to go this route, we also need to ban dancers from bringing significant others to the SC. Many of the same problems created by customers bringing their SO is created by dancers bringing their SO, (dancer will hang out with SO instead of working the floor, etc).

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    ^^ Most clubs already have a rule about not bringing SOs into the club. The only difference is that it's much easier to pretend that you're not someone's bf than it is to pretend you're not a woman lol And I don't really agree that female customers should be banned. Sure, I've seen a lot of annoying ones that don't spend money, get disruptive, act jealous (I had a girl one night verbally assaulting me every time I walked past about how I apparently thought I was "better" than her for being a dancer and how she could totally be a dancer if she wanted to be... wtf?), but I agree that they should just be removed. I don't like clubs that encourage female customers to get up on stage and whatnot. But if they want to be regular customers, I see nothing wrong with it. There are plenty of gay or bi women who are perfect SC customers, alone or with a SO. But yes, the disruptive ones should be kicked out like anyone else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    ^^ Most clubs already have a rule about not bringing SOs into the club. The only difference is that it's much easier to pretend that you're not someone's bf than it is to pretend you're not a woman lol
    Sometimes it's obvious though. If I've spent an hour or two in the club, and I've noticed that one of the strippers keeps going back to the same, youngish-looking guy between dances and trips to the stage, and I've noticed that this guy never seems to buy dances or drinks for her, AND she'll leave him to go work the room for LD's every now and then, and then go back to that same guy once she's done giving an LD to someone else, well I just assume that's her boyfriend at that point. That goes doubly so if he looks around 20 years old, meaning he's probably broke. I know, I know, for all I know he's been slipping her 100s all night just to hang out with him. All I'm saying is that's where my thought process goes, and as such I'm less likely to consider her when she asks me to dance, as I'm just going to assume that she'll give me less attention than many of the other girls will.

    It's good to know that most clubs have a ban on SO's for that reason.

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    Well I personally do not mind guys bringing there girlfriend as long as they are spending money. I once had a couple spend 80 dollars on me. However I can relate to you also because one night my regular bought his girl and he told me that he cannot dance because she wouldn't like it. So in this case I wanted her out.
    Some girls love to spend $$$ on us and some just go in there just to please their men and get jealous when they get dances.
    The only female that I can appreciate are the ones that spends. Some spend more than other men who hang there in general.

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    I have been really irritated by women coming into my club recently. I feel like they think that because they are female that I'm not going to be offended when they do stupid shit. They want me to dance for them so they can impress the guy friends at the table but they don't tip. They point me in the direction of their guy friends. Its either that, or they're sitting there mean mugging everyone and ruining the fun. Oh and I love when they all line the tip rail like its fucking American Idol chatting up your tits and dance skills with their girlfriends over margaritas but don't spend a dime. I know a lot of people avoid couples/women and I never thought I'd be one of them, but I am now. Fuck it, too much work, possibility of getting in a fight, and slim chances for a big pay off. Move along.

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    ^^Posts like this make me sad for all the good female custies. Maybe try approaching women that smile, make eye contact and tip while you are onstage? Its my MO in the club and most dancers seem to get that Im there for fun and to spend $$.
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    There are obviously good and bad of BOTH female and male customers. Like everything in life, you gotta take the bad with the good. And yes it does suck that there are fucktard female customers out there that can make it hard for us "good" ones, but I never let that bother me. I make my intentions known ASAP when I'm in a new club, and the dancers soon realize that I am there to spend, not give them grief.


    Lady customers are here to stay.....so empty the wallets of the nice ones (pick me! pick me!), and give the haters the same treatment that you'd give a shitty male customer - the image of you walking away

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    I've made too much money in the past off of GF's/Wives to hate on them. IME the good ones far outweigh the bad. I love dancing for Lady-customers.



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    I despise the women who come in bf or with groups of guys and girls that come in to talk shit about all of us. They will actually sit their and criticize and get off on it. Those bitches need to be kicked out.

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    I don't hate on them I just don't waste my time on them.

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    I don't mind Female Custies, and I have seen everything from the grumpy, middle-aged wives,to the groups of 20 something snobs, to the overly enthusiastic pseudo-bisexuals, and my personal favorite, lesbians. They crack me up.


    I don't mind dancing for them either, or couples for that matter, but with females I cringe and think to myself *Oh god are we going to get back there and she try to rape me* Female custies think they can get away with everything!! *Sorry, I am not gay. I do not pretend to be gay even for the sake of sucking money out of you because that always ends with the awkward moment eventually of you trying to take me home from you, surely to have a threesome with your man, and I'm not going to do that because I am not gay, nor does your man interest me. Did I mention that I am not gay?*

    I do enjoy talking to females in the club but if they want to buy dances I just want to go run and hide somewhere!

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    ^To add to my earlier post...The women who come in to talk shit are a waste of space. If women are going to come in as customers I would prefer if either they were nice and were tipping or that they not come in at all. We do not need their negativity or disrespect to ruin the night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    I've made too much money in the past off of GF's/Wives to hate on them. IME the good ones far outweigh the bad. I love dancing for Lady-customers.
    Same here!

    As a fellow dancer AND customer, I enjoy both.

    I mean, before making my mind at working in a club, I'm usually a customer before making my decision. Also, the nights I'm not working, I also double as DD for my guy friends (but I usually take them to a club I do not work). When I do that, I have about thirty something dollars to tip two or three dollars to all the dancers. If the club sells dances, I'd buy a table dance, or the cheapest one they have.





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    ^same! I enjoy being a customer and always get a couple dances (usually floor dances) and tip well.



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    Sometime events leading up to visiting an SC with a female may be totally happenstance. A couple times at conventions / sales meetings, we happened to walk by a club after a 'group dinner' and decided on-the-spot to go in. In one instance the lone female was cool with it, in another the female was quite pissed. (She likely is still pissed at us all today!) (When we learned this the next day we said WTF, we offered to drive her back to her hotel first, but she insisted on joining us...)
    From visiting this forum, I now know the proper etiquette, should this happen again, is to give her some $ to tip...

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