I have a question that has been asked in a variety of ways before. (I am sure) I feel my situation is slightly different. I have been out of the game due to a bad relationship. that I have now extricated myself from. I decided to go to a strip club last week and try and regain some of my lost confidence.
I had a dance with one very drunk stripper that was ok, and tried to solicite me for extras in the VIP room. I was not there for that and was somewhat turned off by the lack of tact. After that I was largely ignored by the rest of the dancers. Until this one striking Argentenian beauty ask me if I wanted a dance. I accepted and she began her dance. We connected in a very wonderful but disconcerting way (No not sex, get your minds out of the gutter) but the dance wound up lasting 45 minutes before either of us realised. I was floored by both the connection and the price but I chalked it up to a VERY good time. (she did too)
She claimed to have never gotten so lost with a customer like that before and asks me to come see her again. I tell her I am travelling on business the next week (mostly true but also trying to recover some finances.) She seemed genuinely disappointed! I thought nothing of it but as I was getting ready to leave she stops me and gives me her number and asks me to text her later. I agree although I again am caught off guard and leery of her motives. (Momma didn't raise no fool)
When I return to my apartment I smell strongly of the club but even more so of her. So I text and tell her. She responds back much later (the girls have to work an after party once the club closes) responding in kind. we text back and forth for a bit and say good night.
Now I am a normal man and after the nights activities I couldn't stop thinking about her and in the early afternoon (a courtesy as she would probably be sleeping till then) I texted her that fact she asks me to please come see her. I ask where and after a long while she responds at the club as she has to work. My BS meter starts blaring at maximum volume, but I decide to take the red pill. As I am on a short schedule, I figure the financial impact will be minimal. I go and she immediatly wants to give me a dance. I accept (of course, last night was awesome!) This time the dance is even more intense and she breaks some of the rules (physical contact was more extreme and guided by her. I am not a creepo that touches uninvited.) I stop the dance at 4 songs and say I gotta go. I pay and then she plants one on me. Solid kiss, viceral, exciting and in public. Not hidden at all. She asks me to please call her when I get back.
We text off an on over the weekend. She claims to have never felt a connection like that to a customer before. (I noted the use of the term "customer") I decide to test her sincerity by asking her out to dinner. I expect she will either be unavailable or have some other excuse. She doesn't. She says she'd love to. Let her know when I get back and we will make arrangements.
Should I just take the red pill and see how deep the rabbit hole is, or head for the hills and count my losses?
I don't want to loose out if she is really into me as I never expected to meet anything of substance from this one outing. I also, however, do not want to just be a paycheck.
Like I said earlier I am early in recovery from a bad relationship and don't know if I am just so wounded that "SUCKER" is stamped on my forehead and I am just an easy mark for the savvy stripper or if there is the possibility of having an instant connection with someone like that.
I feel struck by lightning
Please help,
And be kind.



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