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    Default Who got the power?

    In one perspective, the one that is getting naked is in the weak position, and the dressed one that can “buy” someone to do it is in a strong position.

    In another perspective its weak having to pay and the one in the center of all the attention is in a strong position.

    I guess it all happens in the head, but often when I se a show, the dancer seems to have perspective 1 on what she is doing.

    For me however the other perspective is much more interesting, but I notice that not every girl can pull it of, to bad, I love a stripper with power that seems like the natural center of attention.

    Who got the power?

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    Default Re: Who got the power?

    Dancing is a job. The dancer already knows she is going to get naked before she goes to work in the morning because that's her job. As a customer you can choose to pay to see it or not. You can choose to buy dances or not. That being said however, why go if you are not going to partake? If you go to the club and don't spend money you are furniture. Furniture has no power. It's just there for people to sit on or trip over...
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    There's not a whole lot of power there in the first place. The girls are there because they can't make that kind of money elsewhere and the guys are there because they can't get that level of attention elsewhere. They are meeting each others needs.
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    Default Re: Who got the power?

    Who cares?

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    National Grid.
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    I have ALL the power.
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    what she said ^

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    Default Re: Who got the power?

    Going to a SC is not about power, it's about having a good time. The dancer gets naked and dances because it's her job. The customer pays for the privledge of spending time with a young hottie that he would probably never get to see in the real world. Sounds like a win-win situation for both parties.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    There's not a whole lot of power there in the first place. The girls are there because they can't make that kind of money elsewhere and the guys are there because they can't get that level of attention elsewhere. They are meeting each others needs.
    Dancers and customers are there for many different reasons. You yourself said you go there not to tip or buy dances but to hang out with your imaginary stripper friends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SteveSmith View Post
    Dancers and customers are there for many different reasons. You yourself said you go there not to tip or buy dances but to hang out with your imaginary stripper friends.
    Actually, I said no such thing. For a year or two, I was a relatively big spender but dances became uncomfortable for myself and the girls I became friendly with so we stopped doing them. I had also become friendly with girls I never had any interest in dancing with. Why is that so hard to comprehend? It was not part of some master plan, it was just the way things played out, where eventually I'd just stop by when I had time to kill and they might have free time. Now they've stopped dancing, so guess what, I've stopped dropping in, having spent at most a couple of hours in the club in 2011. As far as my "imaginary friends" are concerned, I guess I imagined the half-dozen or so of them (and some of their families) I spent time with at a cookout Saturday and expect to run into a few others this weekend.

    But back to your vague statement preceding the attempted dig at me. If the girls aren't there to make money and the guys aren't there to partake in their company, why are either of them there? I only ask because anyone not falling into one of those two categories is definitely on the fringe. I was certainly on the fringe with the nature of my visits the last few years but initially was quite happy to pay them to entertain me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bem401 View Post
    I've stopped dropping in, having spent at most a couple of hours in the club in 2012. As far as my "imaginary friends" are concerned........
    2012 ?? Time warp !! Could be why you consider them imaginary friends
    hahahahahaha....just pickin on ya....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Raider View Post
    2012 ?? Time warp !! Could be why you consider them imaginary friends
    hahahahahaha....just pickin on ya....
    Sorry, typo. Too much time spent talking about politics. LOL.
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    Default Re: Who got the power?

    and the dressed one that can “buy” someone
    You would think that but what happens when a buyer has money and the seller tells them "No too bad"?

    Most strippers and escorts are on lease for an hour or two. They still go home sans the customer.

    So please tell me how strong a buyers position is if a "weak" unclothed dancer takes their money and then sends them on their way.

    My body, my rules.

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    Default Re: Who got the power?

    Of course me. Because if I decide you're a douchebag, no amount of money is going to get me on your lap. So take the idea of "buying me" and shove it. You're not buying me even when you do pay me. You're buying my time. Being naked hardly puts me at a disadvantage anyway. If anything, I'm more in control when I'm getting naked than any other time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by a_fan View Post
    Who got the power?
    It depends completely upon the individuals involved. In a perfect world there is an equilibrium in which she entertains him and he pays her a fair amount for that entertainment. However, where things get out of balance is when one party is much needier than the other, such as with a guy who "falls in love/lust" or a girl who is so desperate for cash that she does things that she would probably prefer not to do.

    Each person is different, so trying to generalize about this simply does not work.

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    Default Re: Who got the power?

    In a wider sense, women got the power (over us).
    It happens because we “want” them more then they “want” us.

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    Power? well I've turned down guys for a dance many times. Why? Coz i don't have to do what I don't want to do. I'm a Boss Bitch.
    I'm here to make money. NOT make friends, if I make a friend then it's a bonus.

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    Dude, it's not her "world" it's her job. It's not some sort of Pavlovian trance that dancers go into when they smell money, it's simply how they make a living.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post

    And this guy:

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    I was watching an interview with Jeanna Jameson (the pornstar) whe she told at her first time stripping.

    She told she was scared to death, but when she got out there and noticed all the guys staring.

    She made a face with open mouth and wide open Eyes, to show their exepression and said: "There it was - Power.

    And she smiled big.

    That made me thinking, because actually its not that diffecult talking to a hot girl, so the concept of paying for that never really made sence for me, but with a little power thing going, I cudently find it interesting anyway.

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