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    Questions pretty straight forward, the barely legal or glamorous mature dancer turns a lot of guys on but also turns many off. What's the in the middle. Do you lie about your age or tell the truth and let the chips fall? Does anybody ignore personal style and work the niche or do you work a look even though its not some stereotype? Just a five am thought

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    Not sure if its a local thing but men LOVE to guess my age. They usually guess 22 or 23. I'm 20 and look closer to 17. I usually go along with whatever they guess, plus or minus a year. Makes them feel smart and I see it as going along with whatever age they want 'fantasy me' to be - some guys, especially the older ones, don't like to think I'm just 20. Of course there are always exceptions...

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    When I was 20 I always lied and said I was 23, because I had too many men tell me they had daughters my age.
    Now I'm 22 and I no longer lie. The reaction I get is 'well you have all the time in the world!'

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    ^^^^Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

    I try to guess the age range they want to hear because I've been burned the same way. Guess too low and they feel guilty, guess too high and they feel turned off. There isn't an age that you can get them all to agree on.
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    I think mid twenties are the perfect age, because you're not too old to party with the younger guys, yet you're old enough to relate to the older ones as well without making them feel like a creepy old guy.

    So my answer is 25.

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    I usually tell people how old I actually am....which is 20. I've recently started working the "school-girl" look because I look really young and even though it might not be every guy's thing - it seems to be making me a lot of money.

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    I've beeen saying 24 since I was 18. Any younger than that and many men feel freaked out that they're taking advantage of someone their daughters age. If I can pass for older (I've had people tell me I look anywhere from 16 to 29) and they LIKE the idea of an 'older' dancer, then I'll go with that age.

    I often tell them to "take a guess" and they almost always say 23-25, so clearly thats the age they're comfortable with, and the one I stick with.

    It's kinda annoying though.

    The 'best' (most professional, highest earning) dancers I've known have been in their early to mid thirties.



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    I used to say 21. I'm 23 though and now just say my age. I think it works better than 21. I think I could pull of 25 or 26 though. I should try it on the older men to see if they take me more seriously.

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    Default Re: is there an ideal stripper age?

    I work in an 18+ club, and many of the guys are 18-21, so I normally say somewhere in the early twenties, cause I can't get away with much younger. If the customer is older ill say mid twenties somewhere.

    I'm really 26.
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    I would agree and say the best age is 25! When I was 19-22 I found my age worked against me, since most men really did have kids my age. Now that I'm 24 I find I make more then I did before because both young and old will take me.

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    I forgot to answer my own question!

    I lie about my age even to the dancers generally anywhere between 21-26. I lie about age to customers because 1. They find out I'm 19 half way threw the sale and I can't get a dance.
    2. Say "oh you have so many years to become a better person and not be a dirty stripper" extra.dancers

    I lie to other dancers because;
    1. They are catty 87% of the time and tell guys to under cut me.
    2. They start acting superior even if I have been dancing longer than herself. Then come the oh "honey" this and "sweetie" that. Or giving me unwanted advice about life when I have most of my life figured out. Its just ridiculous what a freaking number changes.

    Over all I feel like if your under 22 there seems to be a need to lie. I guess in Texas I look younger because more people ask me, so I'm going to stick too 24 in these parts.

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    Default Re: is there an ideal stripper age?

    I started at 22 so always said my real age. Even into my 30's I often said my real age (though sometimes lied because I can pass for 10 years younger).

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    I'm between 22 and 30 depending on whom I'm talking to.

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    In my opinon, it seems like customers like to look at the younger dancers but spend money on the girls in their 30s and 40s. Of course, maybe this only happens at my club though.

    I look much older than my age (always have). So when I was 23 I started telling everyone I was 92. That way nobody feels bad when they guess that I'm 35. lol

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    Default Re: is there an ideal stripper age?

    Sometimes I tell customers I'm 21 or 22.

    Usually I tell them I'm 19 or 20.

    I work in a club that is 18+ and I spend most of my time hustling the young guys for quick couch dances. Most of them don't have a chance to ask my age before we get back there anyway.

    Also, most guys say I look 19 or 20 but that I speak as if I am in my mid to late twenties. I think this helps me gain respect with the older guys, and the younger ones just think it's a librarian thing (I wear black glasses and have short, brown hair).
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    aside: 18 is way too young to be in the adult industry.

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    ^ I wish I had realized that at 18.



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    Default Re: is there an ideal stripper age?

    I find that guys usually guess the age that THEY want me to be, older guys usually tell me 22-23. Younger ones (under 30) say 20. Some say 18-19 and really like that age too (some 35 year old guys like that too) - I'll just agree and play along with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    aside: 18 is way too young to be in the adult industry.
    That is very dependent on the person.

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    For the customers, they like the girls to be between 19-24 ( in their minds) but actually spend money on the dancers aged 28-34 most often.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    I am 26. I get hit on by young guys and old guys....when I tell them to guess my age they usually say 23. I am 26. I think 25/26/27 is a good age to be. If I was 21 I would lie and say I am 24 at least. I notice girls who are older make more then the young ones

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    Whenever a guy asks me i always tell them the same thing "its rude to ask a lady her age" always shuts them up! I'm 24.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aslinn View Post
    That is very dependent on the person.
    I agree. I've seen some seriously bad-ass 18 year old's at my club who know exactly what their goals are, are super hustlers, and don't take shit from anybody. It is young, and I wouldn't have been ready to start at that age...I needed an extra year or two. But I don't agree that no one can do it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aslinn View Post
    Questions pretty straight forward, the barely legal or glamorous mature dancer turns a lot of guys on but also turns many off. What's the in the middle. Do you lie about your age or tell the truth and let the chips fall? Does anybody ignore personal style and work the niche or do you work a look even though its not some stereotype? Just a five am thought
    Different men want different things. When I danced, I was always told I look about 18 (was a few years older) when I was in slut mode, but when a guy (very few of them... mostly the "yellows") seemed to want a more intellectual girl, I could be myself so they totally guessed like 27. I get that in real life, too. However, I find it MUCH easier to use the "dumb slut" hustle, so I mostly got 18. As a rule of thumb, I told older customers I was 25, and young guys (under 30) that I was 21.

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