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    This may sound a little ridiculous, but do we truly like our customers? I know we like the money they give us, but how many of you actually give a crap about the well being of the decent people you come across? The people who need "friendship" are the ones I like the most. It isnt about "Just give me ur money and fuck off.'' At times the guys I meet who just need someone to talk to or some kind of "girlfriend experience" are the ones I truly enjoy. I suppose to a degree personally I do give a crap about the ones who have good hearts and decent intentions.

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    It depends. I actually established business relations with some of them, and cared about how they would do in their jobs and all. I mean, if I wanted them to keep on coming to me, I have to give them a non sexual reason to keep on spending money on me.





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    ^ yeah after the initial attraction wears off there has to be more there than just another nice body/pretty face to keep the attention of customers but I know I really do care how some are. I just wonder how many girls r cold and really could care less about whether their customers live or die just as long as they r tipping? I know the assholes Im usually pretty damn rude to and I could care less about them though but those people are worthless IMHO. They have no business coming into a workplace-SC and harassing the workers. And to me thats what they r doing when they r disrespectful or make any ill remarks.

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    I don't really do regulars, since I keep switching countries.
    The customers I do meet, I often have a really good time with them. We establish common interests and build a connection on that. Since we're talking about things that I'm passionate about too, I don't have to fake that I'm having a good time.

    Of course there are the difficult and annoying ones, but I try not to spend very long with them.

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    The regulars I kept for years are the ones I actually liked and in a different environment may have dated. These guys would tell me about their work, their marriage (or in the case of dating their dating experiences), their kids if they had them, their parents, whatever they felt comfortable telling me. I would use psychology (oddly my first major)on them and they felt comfortable with me. Some of them actually got to know about my life as well and it made them happy.

    However, no I didn't like most of my customers. By customers I means regulars and non regulars. I didn't like the guys who wanted to date or have sex with me (especially married men). I didn't like the men who thought I was a stupid bimbo incapable of anything else. The guys who just liked buying dances and nothing else didn't bother me either way.

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    There's only been one guy I've actually liked and fully enjoyed talking to. Most guys I talk to and dance for are normal, fairly nice, polite... but I don't really care about catching up or have any interest in their lives... I have a life with enough friends and a man, and I mostly don't talk for long enough to figure out if I would like them in real life I suppose. If I wasn't working and for some reason had a drink with all these people maybe I'd think of them more fondly but in the end when they come back in and I ask how they've been I'm after some dances.

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    There are very few I have genuinely cared for. Like maybe three.
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    It's the customers that get the strip club game and don't try and see me OTC or anything that I can like, because I don't have to deal with dodging such requests and can just get to know them during the time we spend together. So, yeah, I do like quite a few of my customers and enjoy seeing them in the club within that context. Doesn't mean I'd like to see them OTC, but there is a genuine appreciation for them and not just their wallets.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    It's the customers that get the strip club game and don't try and see me OTC or anything that I can like, because I don't have to deal with dodging such requests and can just get to know them during the time we spend together. So, yeah, I do like quite a few of my customers and enjoy seeing them in the club within that context. Doesn't mean I'd like to see them OTC, but there is a genuine appreciation for them and not just their wallets.
    this. At my new club especially, there are a lot of traveling businessmen who understand the value of good conversation with a pretty lady. I appreciate them for not being total skeezeballs, and I appreciate the fact that they know what I'm worth. I wish them well in all their business ventures and in their personal lives.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    no they are all scumbags.
    Ouch.

    There are a few good guys out there. Some guys that come to SC's are very socially awkward and we are the only girls that will take the time out to talk to them. My best customers have been some of the nerdiest, shyest (sp?) guys but they have been the biggest spenders. My 2 best regulars whom I've had for over 6 years are the main customers that I give a shit about. They are both great guys and have helped me out when I've needed it most.

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    I only like one. Who has seen me a few times. He quickly sits me in VIP for as long as I want and buys me whatever I want to drink. Doesn't even touch me or asks me to take off my dress. PERFECT gentleman. Everyone else sucks.

    I've met others who have been splendid like this one too, but that one is so very special.

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    No, almost never. There are customers that I appreciate more than others - the ones who recognize that I am a human being, and are generous and respectful, but I wouldn't say that I LIKE them. I just appreciate them for not being as bad as the other 80% of men that come in. It's sad that men like this stand out because they are the minority. But behaving like a civil human being isn't enough for me to like the person - that's just treating me the way I deserve to be treated.

    As far as customers I genuinely like, as in, someone I could be friends with, I think I may have met 1 or 2, if that.
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    if you "like" your customers, you're wasting your time because they are not your friends.

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    Default Re: Do We Truly "Like" Our Customers?

    I mean, sure, there are customers I like in the sense that I actually enjoy their company and don't get filled with dread whenever they walk in. But, it's also partly a money thing - it has to be, since I wouldn't waste my time even getting to know a guy who came in but didn't spend anything. I'd find him to be a bad SC customer and therefore would not like him.

    So, to be honest, if the ones I "liked" stopped spending money (which I've experienced), I wouldn't like them anymore, because they would be trying to waste my time in the club without paying me. I don't think that means I actually like their personalities any less or that it's all totally fake, but it only makes sense to not like people who don't respect your place of business or time at work.

    Personally, I've never liked someone so much that I really cared about them that much. Once I left my old club, I was gone. I don't really wonder or care about what happened to the old customers I used to actually like talking to. It doesn't really concern me - they're just nice memories now.

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    ^ That sucks :/ I've heard SF is pretty bad... We get the good ol midwestern farmers out here. MOST of them have manners.

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    I don't really give a shit about my customers on a personal level to be honest.
    Why would I? We have a business arrangement: I perform a service; they pay me. That's the extent of the relationship. There's no need to form a like/dislike.
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    This isn't something to be taken personal. This is an entertainment business that sells a fantasy aka making believe we like you IRL in return your money. Does a car salesman like his customers??... no, they appreciate the business. This is no different.

    They are human ATMs who pay our bills and that's it. It's like with your fellow workers, you are friendly/civil with them (if you happen to be working in the same group of guys together)but that doesn't mean we are friends. I am at the club to pay my bills, not to make friends or like ppl. If I like a customer, I like him as a customer. No more than that.
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    I like their bank accounts
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    I keep things pretty streamlined and easy ( service preformed = money ) but there are a few that I genuinely do care about.

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    Ideally I would like to say that I do like some of my customers only as long as they are inthe club. However because of the dynamics of this island it is damn near impossible not to frequently run into them when they are permanent residents. So I've developed a sort of biased-ness and perceive people who live here in a totally different light than those who are passing through.

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    I like my job because I meet a lot of fun and interesting people with whom I can a have a good time. I like meeting them and spending time, be in 10 minutes or 5 hours with them. Of course there are assholes, and guys that become asshole as time goes on. But I would be lying if I said I don't like my customers. Maybe I like the time spent with them more than just them, but for that period of time, sure, I like them.

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    The nice ones..yeah I like them..
    But the douches, jackass type and maneuvering types...eeew I don't like them at all.

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    In a word, no. Not even now that I'm not dancing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    if you "like" your customers, you're wasting your time because they are not your friends.

    First I want to start by thanking you all for ur differing points of view about this topic.


    I have a couple regulars who have been my friends actually. During some of the lowest times they have been super supportive and have given me lots of financial support and kindness when I needed it. They were absolutely wonderful to me. Honestly friends, family etc do not always have the means to help out. I know most of my regular friends couldnt monetarily help out nor could my family. I have a couple longgg term regulars and I am very fortunate. They may not come n everyday or give me loads of money but they r still helping me out and I consider them in their hearts to be great people.

    Yes the customers who dont see us as real people are not our friends I agree, but some of us are fortunate to have customers who truly do care about us beyond just our outwards appearances.

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    Im glad I asked this question, I learned that Im in the minority once again. But thats fine with me. The fact that I do "care" at times makes me different from most. And Im perfectly fine with that. Dont get what Im saying twisted bc I sure as f dont care about most customers who walk through the doors of my club, but the ones who seem to need a friend or who r a friend Im not going to treat poorly. The fact I care at times only helps me out in the long run and knowing Im not like most dancers is ok with me.

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