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    Default Baby-talkin' bitches

    It's one thing if you're hustling at the club, and an okay thing if you're pulling talent at the bar. But in the AM in my boyfriend's house, why is this bovine skank talking like a lispy child.

    Hindparts all tooted and spandexed up. Boobies pushed up and out while butt hangs lower than her hem.

    Then out of the blue repeatedly keeps asking me when I'm leaving.

    I had no ready retort. Am not wanting to get into it with this cockroach.

    I think she's screwing my man's man (12-step dude) and everyone's nice to her for that reason.

    Of course, I'm in hotpants and a tank top (cute + casual) shitting on bitches.

    How should I behave? Nice? Cool? Or start asking her rude questions (so why are you here? how did you put on all that weight? gee, brothas must really like your thickness, huh?)?
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    Default Re: Baby-talkin' bitches

    Perhaps you should tell your bf that it's time she leave.
    “What a caterpillar calls the end of the world we call a butterfly.” - ECKHART TOLLE

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    Default Re: Baby-talkin' bitches

    Quote Originally Posted by Candy Girl View Post
    It's one thing if you're hustling at the club, and an okay thing if you're pulling talent at the bar. But in the AM in my boyfriend's house, why is this bovine skank talking like a lispy child.

    Hindparts all tooted and spandexed up. Boobies pushed up and out while butt hangs lower than her hem.

    Then out of the blue repeatedly keeps asking me when I'm leaving.

    I had no ready retort. Am not wanting to get into it with this cockroach.

    I think she's screwing my man's man (12-step dude) and everyone's nice to her for that reason.

    Of course, I'm in hotpants and a tank top (cute + casual) shitting on bitches.

    How should I behave? Nice? Cool? Or start asking her rude questions (so why are you here? how did you put on all that weight? gee, brothas must really like your thickness, huh?)?
    Hahaha!! This whole scene sound like a trashy movie! Sorry but nothing about your entire writing-style suggests you should be making any judgements about another woman's demeanor. Hot pants and a tank top? "Shitting on bitches"?! Yeah, keep it classy. Try not being so threatened by another vagina in the room, mind your own business and get out of the Jerry Springer-esque scenarios once in a while.
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    I feel like I've missed something. It's like watching a sequel when you haven't seen the first movie yet.

    What is this thread about?

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    I'm confused...

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    So the generic version is: a house-guest woman is after my boyfriend. She is passive-aggressive and repeatedly asks "so when are you leaving?" my boyfriend's home. I just wanted your advice on how to deal with her. She puts her hand on my shoulder at breakfast - the first and only thing she says is "when are you leaving?"

    Should I ignore it? Optimist, it's not really my place to ask her to leave. (She works with my boyfriend and his partner on a lingerie website.)

    Should I make a smart remark? Maybe ask when she's leaving?

    How do you deal with the frienemy vibe? Like, the girl's whole vibe is "I'm acting nice but snarling at you under my breath cuz I want you out of the way." And I'm working overtime to flirt and be cutesy to trade up from the guy I'm seeing. Batting her eyelashes and asking dumb, obvious questions so my boyfriend can give her attention.

    I don't wanna do nothing. I don't wanna feed her attempt to make me act out. If I say bitchy things, she'll run to my boyfriend and play victim.
    PLease help.
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    I think it pisses her off more that your not reacting. She wants you to act out and say anything to her so she can play it up and try to build a wall.

    When she ask when are you going to leave just smile. She wants a answer and she wants to play it out. Always keep them short but not a cut off.

    When your boyfriend is there just walk up to him and ask if hes too busy for a night out, just you and him. If you have the money make it your treat and go to a movie and/or dinner. Make it a long night. Cause if shes trying to move on your man she will be up all night waiting for him to be home. Plan it all out, figure out the movies, pick the times, where to go after wards, you get the picture. After awhile she will get the picture.

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    Your BF may need stronger boundaries with her if they're "partners" and she works out of his house. Personally, I wonder why, if it's a legitimate online business, she has to be at the house to work at all? Couldn't she just go home, herself and they could tele-conference or communicate via skype/messengers?

    You need to be the mature one and not engage with her, as she should be on the clock, whil she's there. She's not there to socialize. If she is, you may want to question your BF's motives for collaborating on a business model that is based on being a solo-preformer, anyway. Sorry, but the entire setup just sounds sketchy, altogether.
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    [/QUOTE]You need to be the mature one and not engage with her, as[/I] she should be on the clock, whil she's there. She's not there to socialize. If she is, you may want to question your BF's motives for collaborating on a business model that is based on being a solo-preformer, anyway. Sorry, but the entire setup just sounds sketchy, altogether.[/QUOTE]

    I love the tactic of getting my boyfriend out of the house to do fun date night stuff.

    I agree Houseguest Lady is sketchy. But I think that's why she has a thing with my boyfriend's partner who is nearly 50 years old. She is 24 y.o. Unsure about her career, finding herself, blah blah blah. She really let herself go and can't be a showgirl of sorts anymore. She claims she quit being a showgirl because they cut her pay. Then why are your friends all still working there as showgirls? She's staying here as a business favor from my guy to that 50 y.o. guy.

    But she's working it to see if there's any opportunity. She's supposed to be fixing things around the home to "earn her board." Not that she's doing that work either. She is inserting herself in bf's face and convos a lot.

    Other chick in her crew came to our Labor Day party with her young blond fiance and then got wasted and made out with bf's bro. Then scrawled her phone number on the bathroom mirror in lipstick. That was totally out-of-pocket but she was drunk at the party, and is the butt of jokes now. Plus that one ain't in the house.

    Just picture the big, sad eyed Cat-in-Boots from Shrek with a Betty Boop voice. With thick thighs, booty shorts and hair like white cotton candy. Houseguest Lady is here to play on everyone's sympathy and get over. I have no issue with her housing or work hustle. Do what you gotta do.

    She is, however, coming at me hard. Trying to start some mess. If I were, say, married to an NBA or NFL player, I wonder how else I'd figure out not to act paranoid, angry or clingy but let the cockroach know I am not the one. Without me making catty remarks, fistfights, hairpulling or tears.

    I do suspect BF loves the attention. I think women on SW get atttention automatically -- too much attention even. But men hafta display $$ and possessions to get that kind of attention. Which BF does. But that's also his hustle. Then women like Lady Houseguest hafta run game like the BabyGirl act to find an opening and exploit it.

    I wanna keep a smile on my face and rise above her dirt tactics.

    Maybe I need to have a girlfriend come step to her for me...
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    The problem is not her, it's trust and communication with your boyfriend. If you don't trust him, then the things she says will get to you. But it seems like you don't trust him, because her attempts to get him are really getting under your skin, like you're worried.

    Talk to your boyfriend, because he can tell her cut it the fuck out. And if he won't obviously you two don't need to be together, because he's not respecting your boundaries or your relationship by letting her behave that way and/or live there.

    Summary: Talk to him, don't worry about her.

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    I don't understand what the problem is -if she is this gross, pathetic & unattractive then why are you so worried about her? Let it just roll off.

    If she annoys you the tell your boyfriend in private to keep her away from you. If she keeps asking when are you leaving -then ask her why.

    Being curt w/ someone is not rude or smartass. Try this approach, perhaps, it can still be polite but get the point across.

    The whole situation just sound like petty drama.
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    dude i dont blame the OP. I wouldnt want some bimbo like that around my guy either. the way she keeps asking the OP to leave is mad sketchy, she is obviously trying to imply tht there is something going on between them more then there actualy is, its disrespectful to the OP and the bf. as for the OP wearing a tank top and hot pants, well she's at her bf's house, likely stayed there overnight so its understandable shed wake up and change into something skimpy but whats the excuse for this chick?

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    ^^

    But seriously, look at the entire situation. This girl is using the BF's place like a crash-pad, having been sent there by someone else to stay, as a "business favor" from her 50-yr-old boyfriend? She "works" alongside BF, as a lingerie model on a website they're starting together. This all sounds like shady, cheap-bordello behavior where BF gets to act like Pimp-of-the-House while everyone runs game on everyone else. Personally, I wouldn't want any part of anyone involved.
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    ^ Yeeeeah, this all just sounds really shady. You need to set some new boundaries with the bf or let the weird skanky girl have him so it's not your problem anymore, cuz this all sounds like Sketch City.

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    This sounds realllllly sketchy.

    That girl would have to leave, or id leave him.

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    I wouldn't put up with any of them for a hot minute. It blows my mind people even live like this.

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    After reading all this childish, shady shit, I have the easiest solution-

    Get a new man.
    Exotic dancing is like any other job.
    If you work in an office, you wear dress shoes and a suit.
    If you work in a restaraunt, you wear skid resistant shoes and a uniform.
    If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.

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    Done!
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