This is going to be a somewhat long story, so bare with me.
I've been friends with this girl for awhile now and I went into my fav club about 2 months ago and saw her working there, naturally she was embarrassed but we had a talk and told her i didn't think any less of her or anything and we've been friends still since then.
Turns out she'd been leading a bouncer on so she could get rides home and perks at the club like not getting checked for alcohol and leaving early. She finally ended leading him on and they got into an argument so she called me for her ride home from the club that night, so I did.
Since then, that bouncers always given me dirty looks and stays by where I'm sitting with my friends. I'm assuming this is to try to catch me doing something to get a reason to kick me out. I frequent this club a lot and spend a lot of money there, when I'm there I talk to the girls, make small talk, tip on stage and get private dances and I'm respectful at all times and not an asshole, which is why some of the girls will end up talking to me for free for about 10 minutes at a time but then naturally they have to go try to make money off customers.
Here's the main part of the question. My friend had me pick her up for her break, she just wanted to get out for awhile before she had to go back. I'm 20 but she wanted to go to a 21+ club real quick to get a few drinks before she went back. She knew one of the bouncers there so he let me in and I didnt drink at all since i was driving. She didn't get wasted or anything, just a drink or two. I dropped her off and I was on my merry way back to hangout at my friends place.
Come to last night. My friends are all out of town for another friends wedding and I couldn't go because of work. So I ended up going to the club alone looking to get a few privates and talk to some of the girls then get out of there. I paid my cover, got my "minor" wristband and went in. I started scoping out who was working and I noticed 2 of my favorite dancers, but not my friend was there. So I'm about to go talk to one and that bouncer that doesnt like me brought up that I went to that 21+ club and I say I did, I'm not gonna lie about it. He says "well I know you're a minor and I know the owner of that club and that doesn't sit well with me" and I say back "uh okay.." and then he asks me to leave the club. I'm not going to argue with him, so I leave peacefully, thinking in my head that i shouldn't be getting kicked out for something that happened at a totally unrelated club.
I was literally in there only 30 seconds before I got "kicked out" so naturally I try to get my cover back, I'm a regular so the girl at the cash register likes me and knows who I am, so i tell her the story and ask for my cover back and she's about to give it to me then the bouncer comes out and makes her not give me my cover back and throws me out again. I was so angry, but I ended up going to the clubs main competitor across town and spent my money there.
So the question here is, dancers and management, how would you feel if a bouncer you hired kicks out a regular customer who spends a lot of money at the establishment because of personal and unrelated reasons? The saddest part is that the girls lost out on money and it was dead when I was in there, only about 4 customers there at the time. If you heard this happened at your club would you take action against the bouncer? or would you simply not care?
My friend says she's going to talk to them about it tonight when she goes in to work but I told her not to argue and possibly lose her job over me, I'd feel horrible.
Sorry this story was so long but I wanted to give all of the details so you could understand why it probably happened.



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