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    i am marketing myself as a "naughty gfe". am i expected to give BBBJs? that's not something i'm too keen on, but maybe i'd let it slip once i build up trustworthy regulars. will people hold it against me?

    the envelope. the money. i would NEVER pull it out and count it right in front of the client, but...as an (ex)stripper i've been fucked over before by not counting the money right away. what do you girls do? perhaps quickly check while they are in the bathroom freshening up? maybe i'll go freshen up, myself, and count it?

    working on your period: what do you do? i tend to prefer those sea pearls (these) over tampons, anyway. i'm pretty sure i can still have sex with one in? i'm just scared it will never come out, haha. (but i know it will.)

    hmmm, i think that's all for now. i want to post my first ads in the next few days, so i'm just making sure i'm fully prepared!! thanks!

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    Is the sea pearls like a sea sponge? I've read on here that girls use a sea sponge. I'll have to get one and see. I ran my first ad yesterday and have gotten responses. I've weeded out a few and sent screening info to some. I've gotten one back and I've checked him out but now my question is how do I know that's him? Should I actually call his work and speak to him?

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    Default Re: escort ?'s: BBBJs, money, my period

    Within minutes of arrival, after the pleasantries, excuse yourself to the bathroom to "go get sexy" and count your money. Clients know the deal.

    What you mean by naughty GFE if you don't mind explaining. I'm pretty sure with the addition of naughty, that guys will expect bbbj. Certain hobbyist expect it with plain ole GFE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TeeBaby View Post
    Within minutes of arrival, after the pleasantries, excuse yourself to the bathroom to "go get sexy" and count your money. Clients know the deal.

    What you mean by naughty GFE if you don't mind explaining. I'm pretty sure with the addition of naughty, that guys will expect bbbj. Certain hobbyist expect it with plain ole GFE.
    i would say a "naughty gfe" is a gfe/pse hybrid, i guess. i'm capable and willing to do the conversing/cuddling/kissing like a gfe, but i'm also "slutty" and outgoing in bed. i'm comfortable with them ripping the condom off and cumming on my chest, stomach, ass, etc. i'm just not comfortable putting my mouth on someone's bare dick, i don't think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluetopaz View Post
    Is the sea pearls like a sea sponge? I've read on here that girls use a sea sponge. I'll have to get one and see. I ran my first ad yesterday and have gotten responses. I've weeded out a few and sent screening info to some. I've gotten one back and I've checked him out but now my question is how do I know that's him? Should I actually call his work and speak to him?
    yes, sea pearls and sea sponges are the same thing. i love them. i use them over tampons anyway because TSS freaks me out. also, i know the women in porn stuff a makeup sponge up there. eeeee. at least the sea sponges were made for the vag.

    i don't know what to say to your second question, but i would check references from other providers he's seen in the past.

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    Something I'd be wary of is that guys will likely want to know the difference between GFE and "naughty" GFE, as in, what makes you naughtier than the others that should make them book you? But you also don't want to be discussing acts with the clients by phone/email, so you might run into trouble with clients asking you what the "naughty" means and you being stuck as to how to answer.


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    Default Re: escort ?'s: BBBJs, money, my period

    When I place ads I will use GFE and more such as DATY, CG, LFK, DFK, BBBJ, MISH, and sometimes refer to rate by roses. If they pay by cash I usually take it with me to the bathroom and then get in whatever sexy outfit they want me in. If they use my EPP which is credit card payment then I know they have to get approved. This is for my hourly clients since they are more risky in regards to payment. I don't have to worry when it comes to my day clients and I have some very good repeat clients and many day + clients.

    Yes Sea Sponges are a must. I have had my tubes tied when I had a c sec but can't avoid the period.

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    Who gives a damn what he expects? Lmfao. If they interpret it the wrong way oh well! This is your business. Operate it the way you want to. Don't ever go beyond your limits. That's how so many women lose themselves.
    Bitch? Actually I'm an evil cunt. Slut? Try dirty little whore. Either way, you have to pay for it.

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    Of course no one is telling you to do what you don't want to do, but you do have to make sure you're advertising to the right guy. I don't think you have to say naughty GFE. Just GFE is fine and then take really hot pictures - not girl next door types. If you want to let him do the other stuff then you can. You want to try not to get into "service talk" before meeting because that can get you busted with the wrong guy.

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    The way I've heard it is that aside from PSE being more "wild" it comes down to if you're offering greek or not.

    I say go for whatever label you want and do what YOU'RE
    comfortable. these guys get so stinking spoiled and bratty that there needs
    to be more restraint in terms of what women are selling but I doubt that's going
    to happen.

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    thanks for all the replies!

    so, i posted my first ad. i'm getting a few emails, but i've had two guys ask me if i provide the "ultimate gfe". i'm going to assume that means sex with no condom. am i right?

    if i am right, how do i respond to that? should i flat out say "no" or just ignore the email?

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    If you're on P411, report them to Gina.
    If you have a providerbuzz account, I would also post their info and put that warning out there.

    And then ignore them. That doesn't even need the dignity of a response (so hard for me to ignore stupid
    emails that just stupefy with their ignorance, but it's slowly getting easier.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by FiendishGyrator View Post
    If you're on P411, report them to Gina.
    If you have a providerbuzz account, I would also post their info and put that warning out there.

    And then ignore them. That doesn't even need the dignity of a response (so hard for me to ignore stupid
    emails that just stupefy with their ignorance, but it's slowly getting easier.)
    i can't sign up on quite a few sites until i get some reviews. =(

    right now, i only have an account on TER, but it's just a regular account, not a provider account.

    i guess when i start screening, i'm gonna have to work my google magic or verify their employment or check references.

    they will definitely go ignored!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slutdust View Post
    thanks for all the replies!

    so, i posted my first ad. i'm getting a few emails, but i've had two guys ask me if i provide the "ultimate gfe". i'm going to assume that means sex with no condom. am i right?

    if i am right, how do i respond to that? should i flat out say "no" or just ignore the email?
    Ultimate probably means kissing and uncovered BJ.

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    Quote Originally Posted by strippername View Post
    Ultimate probably means kissing and uncovered BJ.
    i see. i guess it's best not to agree to anything when assuming.

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    Other than a BBBJ, a GFE is with a condom. And so is PSE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slutdust View Post
    i can't sign up on quite a few sites until i get some reviews. =(

    right now, i only have an account on TER, but it's just a regular account, not a provider account.

    i guess when i start screening, i'm gonna have to work my google magic or verify their employment or check references.

    they will definitely go ignored!
    Reviews can be such a PITA.

    When I needed reviews REALLY bad, I emailed my previous guys and begged them to write me one. I never offered a discount, though if you do, offer it on the NEXT appointment.

    Two guys actually told me they hated writing reviews but that if I wrote them, they'd read them, and then post them. I stayed factual and those reviews helped a lot.

    I had some guys help me out on TER (and I swear, I read those and wondered if we were in the same appointment, but that's just the style on TER.) You just have to keep asking nicely even after you appointment is days gone.

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    Got to be careful using descriptions...... You should maybe start off a little slower with rates and services, just to see how it goes at first.




    Ultimate GFE (Girl Friend Experience)--when a prostitute behaves like her client's girlfriend in bed. A "regular" GFE experience will necessarily include kissing (both Light French and Deep French kissing), cuddling, and a generally unrushed experience. Ultimate GFE adds to this full and complete bareback sex (both oral and vaginal), much as one would do with one's girlfriend. An Ultimate GFE, in bed, is therefore completely indistinguishable from being with one's girlfriend.
    "Dude, that chick I picked up on TER gave me an ultimate GFE experience...even got to cream inside of her."


    http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...Ultimate%20GFE

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    GFE, PSE and any combination of is a term that is loosely defined. I would call your GFE style a cali GFE with a PSE twist. "Cali" because everything is covered there, it seems. Over here on the east coast it is very common to not cover for bj's. Kissing is just gross, but whatever.

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    ^^ note taken on the "cali gfe".

    well, i've had quite a few emails come in so far, but a few guys are freakin' out over the screening process. wtf? in all the escort research i've done, i've seen "SCREEN SCREEN SCREEN!!!!!!" the most, so i'm not willing to budge.

    since i can't get an account on TER, datecheck, p411, etc until i start getting reviews, i'm asking for two past provider references, and their company name/phone/website. i don't think that's too intrusive...

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    I know everyone does what they are comfortable with and what one provider does is no indication on what another provider will, but how common is BBBJ among high-end providers? When I first started considering getting into escorting it seemed like everyone was pushing CBJ in order to always protect yourself, but the more research I do, I'm finding that it seems clients see BBBJ as standard with GFE?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    I know everyone does what they are comfortable with and what one provider does is no indication on what another provider will, but how common is BBBJ among high-end providers? When I first started considering getting into escorting it seemed like everyone was pushing CBJ in order to always protect yourself, but the more research I do, I'm finding that it seems clients see BBBJ as standard with GFE?

    Well most girlfriends do not use a condom during oral sex.

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    Default Re: escort ?'s: BBBJs, money, my period

    Plenty girlfriends are on the pill and don't use condoms, period. But they can also be a lot more confident about not being at risk from STD's, something that providers are definitely at risk for both during oral and sex. So I was wondering if it was "normal" for providers to generally use condoms for oral to protect against STD's, or only for sex.


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    I'm pretty sure most girls above 250 do not do CBJ....... Also most men think of GFE as a girlfriend experience...... It includes kissing, BBBJ, DATY (oral sex on the lady) and in many instances MSOG (mutilple shots on goal)

    If a lady advertises herself as GFE most men will expect these services.

    Ultimate GFE is a code for unprotected intercourse.

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    I just have to say that having unprotected sex is just playing Russian roulette. I wouldn't even have sex without a condom with a boyfriend, let alone a guy paying me. I had to Google some of these terms because many were unknown to me.

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