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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I just have to say that having unprotected sex is just playing Russian roulette. I wouldn't even have sex without a condom with a boyfriend, let alone a guy paying me. I had to Google some of these terms because many were unknown to me.
    This. Not all girlfriends behave the same way sexually. Shit some girlfriends don't give BJs at all which is why I said f*ck what they expect lol.

    OP, You've been given good advice though for sure. Never heard of Cali GFE. That's probably your best bet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Slutdust View Post
    i am marketing myself as a "naughty gfe". am i expected to give BBBJs? that's not something i'm too keen on, but maybe i'd let it slip once i build up trustworthy regulars. will people hold it against me?

    the envelope. the money. i would NEVER pull it out and count it right in front of the client, but...as an (ex)stripper i've been fucked over before by not counting the money right away. what do you girls do? perhaps quickly check while they are in the bathroom freshening up? maybe i'll go freshen up, myself, and count it?

    working on your period: what do you do? i tend to prefer those sea pearls (these) over tampons, anyway. i'm pretty sure i can still have sex with one in? i'm just scared it will never come out, haha. (but i know it will.)

    hmmm, i think that's all for now. i want to post my first ads in the next few days, so i'm just making sure i'm fully prepared!! thanks!
    If you want to only provide CBJ to the majority of your clients advertise yourself as a "Safe GFE". The hobbiests then can't turn around and complain on the review boards you were false advertising. Which could tarnish your reputation or put you in a dangerous situation if the client becomes aggressive or insists on BBBJ because you were advertised "Naughty GFE".

    Don't be shy to count it. Just turn away.
    You can either ask them if they'd like to freshen up in the bathroom or you can if you feel comfortable going to the bathroom quickly.

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    Default Re: escort ?'s: BBBJs, money, my period

    Quote Originally Posted by Slutdust View Post
    thanks for all the replies!

    so, i posted my first ad. i'm getting a few emails, but i've had two guys ask me if i provide the "ultimate gfe". i'm going to assume that means sex with no condom. am i right?

    if i am right, how do i respond to that? should i flat out say "no" or just ignore the email?
    No it doesn't.

    "Ultimate GFE" is DFK, BBBJ, MSOG(hour or longer encounters only)
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    Hm I don't have any terms on my site or advertise using abbreviations and haven't had any problems with it.

    its so confusing anyway x_X

    also- maybe you can find a local board where you are located. They is probably more than one, so look around.

    Avoid the ones where "menus" are expected to be listed (they are usually the ones with cell phone pics etc.) search "___ (location) forum escort" or something.

    Best part is that they usually have regular posters- they pride themselves on trying out the new girls and will more than happily write a review (its their "job lol)

    Another good thing is that on a board is they usually have references! i hope you can find one in your area!

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    thanks @kisakim99, i'll check that out.

    my ads have been up for almost a week now, and so far it seems damn impossible to land a client since i have no reviews. i've been getting some emails, but i swear these people are illiterate because when i send them my screening form, they write back with literally two of the 10 fields filled out. wow.

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    From a customer's perspective you should understand that a girl offering GFE service is expected to offer BBBJ, covered sex DATY and MSOG. Ultimate GFE means anal to most guys. To some it means bare-back sex.

    I'm not suggesting for one minute that you should do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. On the other hand, throwing terms like Naughty GFE or even just GFE out there in your ads will set expectations with a lot of guys. A gentleman will accept your limitations but may write a bad review if he feels like he was deceived by your ad. Someone who is not a gentleman may try to force you to do what he was expecting from your ad.

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    ^^Agreed. Though the term GFE can mean a variety of things depending on who you ask, commonly BBBJ, LFK, DFK, DATY are part of it (along with one other acro...dang I should know this! But I forget right now! lol). BBFS is not ever assumed whether GFE or PSE. PSE just means wilder sex as in CIM, BBBJNSNQ and CIF.

    Definitely, saying Naughty GFE is going to open up the door to guys getting curious and asking incriminating questions. Besides, if you know you do not want to provide BBBJ, then its best not to advertise yourself as GFE at all. As you are totally fine with the wilder stuff, the advertising yourself as PSE would be much more true to advertising.

    No matter what, its true, you set the rules of what you will and will not do...but why make things harder on yourself by advertising yourself as something you're not.

    Another thing to consider as well are your rates. If they are mid-range and higher, guys will assume that its all inclusive, whether you do the acros they are hoping for or not. If you are below mid-range/low-range, they will figure you will either upsell for the more "naughty" acronyms, or that you will do whatever acros they want for the right price. Higher all inclusive rates are much better in my opinion, because there is nothing to haggle.
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    Where do girls advertise these days with craigslist no longer taking erotic ads?

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    Hun, there is no rule book. If you don't want to offer BBBJ then don't. I offer it but I make that clear in my ads. Don't worry about asking what clients will expect, instead discreetly make it clear what you are willing to provide.

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    If your a gfe who is cover BJ then you should make that clear, or make it clear on what you do period.

    It depends on with counting the money alot safer I would say to check it in the bathroom on an outcall, that way you also get to check if the client is the only one in the room.

    St james infirmary has a really good book on sex work and covers the risk of STDs and STIs

    I don't know who started that ultimate GFE is code for unprotected sex, but right now GFE is about the kissing, cuddling, blow jobs, and dinning at the Y.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LisaMintoni View Post
    When I place ads I will use GFE and more such as DATY, CG, LFK, DFK, BBBJ, MISH
    that's super risky... if you allow reviews, i'd just let them speak for you in terms of what you do or don't do. listing a menu makes an LE case much easier.

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    Maybe it's just me, but if I ever were to submit to screening for a provider, I would not chose one who required my employer's info, my SSN, or my bank account info, etc. Most other info I could provide, since I have no significant other at this time. Giving out those info is just too risky for a person you do not know well and who is living on the outskirts of legality too.

    Just FYI, OP.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer View Post
    Maybe it's just me, but if I ever were to submit to screening for a provider, I would not chose one who required my employer's info, my SSN, or my bank account info, etc. Most other info I could provide, since I have no significant other at this time. Giving out those info is just too risky for a person you do not know well and who is living on the outskirts of legality too.

    Just FYI, OP.
    Thanks for your input, but I definitely do not ask for a social security number or bank account info?? LOL.

    I ask for a minimum of two references, basic info like their DOB, primary email, primary phone number, etc., and I ask for basic employer info.

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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer View Post
    Maybe it's just me, but if I ever were to submit to screening for a provider, I would not chose one who required my employer's info, my SSN, or my bank account info, etc. Most other info I could provide, since I have no significant other at this time. Giving out those info is just too risky for a person you do not know well and who is living on the outskirts of legality too.

    Just FYI, OP.
    Stop trying to be sensational. No one made any mention of client SSN or bank account info.

    Verifying via employment is extremely common in the industry. Many ladies ask for the info and many men give it.

    No offense meant, but to be realistic, I doubt any ladies on this site care what you, as a specific individual, are comfortable with. No one cares if you are comfortable sharing your work info or not. For every client who isn't comfortable sharing info, there is another who is.

    Men who don't want to share info will see ladies who don't ask for it.

    Men who ARE willing to share info will see reputable ladies who ask for it.

    It's really simple to match your comfort zone with what a lady chooses to ask for.

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    You see, problem is, initially, a client does not really know who is reputable and who can keep such info out of third party's eyes. Trust, within limits, but verify is a workable system.

    Further I didn't think my comments were to be restricted to points brought up by other posters in this thread. You don't know what posts or experiences I have based my comments on.

    Finally I am not so much as criticizing the techniques discussed here (nor individuals) as stating (not as an individual but as one of the clients some one might be able to engage) some of the limits on privacy a new client might insist on. So it would seem right not to criticize me as an individual (I am by far my own worst critic anyway).
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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    If you haven't actually had clients yet (it sounds that way but I'm not sure) you might find that as you go you'll discover where your boundaries actually are. maybe you can make your 'menu' small for now and as you go, add things (instead of taking things away which could piss off clients). Sometimes you imagine being comfortable in a situation and when it happens, you don't like it. COuld be the opposite, too of course..
    As a side note: I say I do GFE but I don't think it includes BBBJ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slutdust View Post
    ^^ note taken on the "cali gfe".

    well, i've had quite a few emails come in so far, but a few guys are freakin' out over the screening process. wtf? in all the escort research i've done, i've seen "SCREEN SCREEN SCREEN!!!!!!" the most, so i'm not willing to budge.

    since i can't get an account on TER, datecheck, p411, etc until i start getting reviews, i'm asking for two past provider references, and their company name/phone/website. i don't think that's too intrusive...
    Because there is a ton of predators who love to take advantage of new girls.
    These are the ones to stay away from the most. They dont want to go through the screening process & you find out from the web how they have hurt or ripped off other gals.

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    Laughing at the ultimate gfe thing.
    I would say sure, just as long as you sign this contract about child support & spousal support for the next 18 years. That is usually enough to scare them off that topic.

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    Some months ago, I heard an interview on public radio. The person noted that gonorrhea of the throat is getting more common.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Laughing at the ultimate gfe thing.
    I would say sure, just as long as you sign this contract about child support & spousal support for the next 18 years. That is usually enough to scare them off that topic.

    Sam
    Not to mention getting a full panel done immediately preceding the appointment and agreeing to paying any and all resulting medical bills including the escort's full panel immediately afterward.

    ETA: and a lot of money.
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    Default Re: escort ?'s: BBBJs, money, my period

    I'm trying to keep up with the abbreviations myself. I'm having a hard time finding out what "Greek" is. I know what BBBJ is but doesn't that sound rather dangerous? A woman that has sex with many partners unprotected and men are actually paying for that? Is it a thrill to give a disease or get a disease? Maybe it's like a high to dance on the door of death or something.

    I understand that without the condom it feels better right? But at what cost? pregnancy and AIDS? Throat Gonorrhea? And Herpes too? How do you cure that?

    Kissing seems kinda gross too, I would suggest scope before and after ladies and make the guy do it too. Oh wait wouldn't scope weaken the lining of the mouth? Kinda killing the good and bad bacteria that would end up killing off an invader?

    Oh thanks for the link on the sea sponge. I just never knew where to buy those and that would help greatly with my normally 1 week off of camming.

    Interesting post.

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    Default Re: escort ?'s: BBBJs, money, my period

    how come more escorts dont demand std tests? that would take care of those worries (except herpes usually require more invasive blood tests)

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    ^ I think because guys are paying specifically to not be asked. Also HPV something that men can give but not be tested for is another one. Anal sex is one way to pass it due to the hpv bumps that can grow within the anal cavity. During anal sex these bumps are being worn down and then bleeding which accounts for many new cases being discovered.

    What guy will really say he's paying for sex because he has herpes and Aids and doesn't want to give it to someone he's dating. Plus most men don't even test themselves. Women are tested more frequently due to the annual pap smear. Obviously an escort would probably be tested on a more consistent basic especially if she was doing unprotected acts.

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    Default Re: escort ?'s: BBBJs, money, my period

    Ohh and some guys seem to really be sadistic. Did you guys check out that one thread where these guys were actually having unprotected sex with drug addicted street walkers for all of maybe $40? Some board that goes into finding out what street corner some of these girls are strolling around on.

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