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    Default escorts: what do you tell your family/friends?

    i plan to start escorting very soon (which you already know if you've seen my other posts), but there's one thing making me kinda worried. i'm very close with my family, and i absolutely hate lying to them. i hate lying in general. i'm just bad at it. i feel like people can see right through me. i was a dancer for 4-5 years, and my parents knew immediately. they weren't stoked, but they quickly got used to it and accepted it, and it was never an issue. my parents would never understand escorting. i've brought up the idea of "high class" escorts to my mom recently, just to hear her opinion, and it wasn't good. she's a total man hater, thinks sex work is degrading, thinks i'll hate myself, etc. she just won't ever understand.

    i'm not really worried about my friends as much. i've only told a couple close friends, otherwise i just don't need people in my business. i usually tell them i do cam work (which i used to do as well). whatever.

    but i feel like this is going to be a tricky thing to hide from my parents. they know damn near everything about my life (always have), so it's going to be shady when i get so secretive all of a sudden. my parents have always felt more like friends rather than parents, but... i know i can't be honest about this right now.

    what do you girls do?

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    Default Re: escorts: what do you tell your family/friends?

    I'm in the same position....

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    Default Re: escorts: what do you tell your family/friends?

    I am wondering the same darn thing ... lying is so stressful and I can't think of anything somewhat believable to tell the people close to me.

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    Default Re: escorts: what do you tell your family/friends?

    Just say you are a dancer.
    Many of the obstacles you once imagined are not even there.



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    Default Re: escorts: what do you tell your family/friends?

    I told my family that I was seeing a married man who happened to be very wealthy, implying that I was an "accidental mistress" of sorts. Hardly the thing to get parental praise for, but it's better than the truth.

    I'm very close with my family but the nature of the fake affair (married is the keyword) made it so they weren't waiting to meet him like they would a normal bf. It just became a topic we didn't discuss but it did explain the sudden changes in my bank account.

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    Default Re: escorts: what do you tell your family/friends?

    wow. thats a good one. im totally using that!

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    Default Re: escorts: what do you tell your family/friends?

    if they already know ur dancing just stick to that. that's what i would do

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    Default Re: escorts: what do you tell your family/friends?

    Will any friends know? My husband knows what I do as do two of my friends so at least I have someone to talk to about it.
    As far as a story, you could just say you are doing private party dancing.

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