Page 3 of 3 FirstFirst 123
Results 51 to 72 of 72

Thread: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

  1. #51
    Featured Member
    Joined
    Sep 2009
    Location
    mia
    Posts
    1,974
    Thanks
    1,388
    Thanked 1,700 Times in 815 Posts

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    with down time she means: how long is she not gonna be able to work, do normal activities.. basically how long til it's back to normal.

  2. #52
    Senior Member Dorien's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2011
    Location
    Los Angeles, Ca
    Posts
    178
    Thanks
    53
    Thanked 78 Times in 43 Posts
    Blog Entries
    14
    My Mood
    Inspired

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    Quote Originally Posted by cairalis View Post
    I am sorry but I dont know what down time means..! if you wonder how long it lasts the answer is for a year! If you mean how long until it sets I would say immediately, you could get a TINY bruise from the needle but nothing u couldnt cover easily.

    I think you can go upside down directly, I doubt that could do any harm! It doesnt move from where it is!
    ^ ^ ^

    "Down time" is how long I should relax or let restylane settle before resuming acrobatic stuff. But I think you figured that out. I've been trying to check w/ my dermatologist, but she's become really popular lately and hasn't returned my question

    Thanks for your answser.
    http://doriengrais.blogspot.com/-Senior Citizen Stripper
    (Check out my blogs on stripperweb:-)

  3. #53
    Member Top Shelf's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2006
    Location
    The Derrty South
    Posts
    19
    Thanks
    5
    Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    These are all excellent posts! I've noticed in my 20s, I made crazy money with my red lipstick and light eye shadow.. Now tht I am 30, I can barely make payout with red lips on!! Lol. So needless to say , I haven't worn it again! I think wearin too much make up definitely ages you. I wear more colors like blues or pinks or greens. The guys always ask my age (of course I'm 25), and they all say "you gotta b shitting me, I thought you were like 19-20!" I love it!! Plus I have a really bubbly personality and demeanor. I always "look" like I'm having a good time. I noticed when I'm ever in a "what the hell are u in here for if you aren't spending money" attitude, I ne'er make money. Guys want someone who is sexy and fun. Also, if I'm in full out hustle mode and bouncing around the club like noticeable hustling, it cuts my money. But it's like, I'm of age now, I don't have time to sit and babysit. It seems like guys like the girls who are having fun being naughty.

    Just my input.. I am the dirty 30..
    Oan, I am a sucker for a rhinestone choker, but although it gives a more mature, sex kitten look, the naughty girl next door look seems to be more appealing.

    I say, switch your hair up! I do this at least 1 a month. This gives u a new look, and more confidence! I have a alter with each of my hairstyles.. Extensions that are done right are your friend!!

  4. #54
    Curious Guest
    Joined
    Dec 2007
    Posts
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    I just wanted to add: human hair extensions can be highlighted to match your hair. If you purchased some clip in ones, you could just take them to a salon for color, and it would give beautiful volume to a high ponytail since you're used to wearing it up anyway.

    A 41 year old former stripper having a nostalgia attack!

  5. #55
    Banned
    Joined
    May 2004
    Location
    VA
    Posts
    1,725
    Thanks
    92
    Thanked 395 Times in 244 Posts
    My Mood
    Angry

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    I am very glad my thread has made quite a few "non-20s dancers" happy again. Also I dont care about the thread jacking. I see it as good when girls jump on my thread and converse. If I wanted to take my thread back over I could.. I am the OP so its already my thread lol..Its fine...I was thinking about what all of u have posted here and I think what is ultimately harder for the girls who r 30+ who do not have the small tiny 105/110 frames. I realize some of u who r in ur 30s may be mistaken for younger bc of how tiny u r but for me I have to seriously watch how much I eat. At 132/133 many mean nasty girls think Im already too big. ANd Im not going to become an overly obsessed workout maniac either. I work out n moderation but Im not going to an extreme to maintain. I feel its more than easy to overly obsess about how we look over 30. But that creates SO MUCH unnecessary stress at times. Truthfully we rnt going to look like we r 20 when we r 30 and we HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT FACT. Thats whats hard. Ive come to somewhat accept that now. Still working on it but def realizing that Im not 20 anymore. Like everyone has said, u got to work with what u have and make the best of it. One earlier poster said that I should get under 130 so I didnt have a belly pouch or something. And although that person was right I do have a little tiny bit of belly fat I havent had kids and my stomach isnt that bad. I actually have more of a muscular medium build and as we all know muscle weighs more than fat. My hips r around 38" and somehow I do fit into AE's size 4 jeans. They actually fit me the best at my weight. If u actually look at my build i have thick ankles..Im meant to be more muscular and thicker than the slender looking size 4s and 2s. So I guess Im the "thick size 4" lol.

    I feel its just harder in ur 30s. I have my regs who love me but as an overall rule its harder to find a niche of clientele in ur 30s. It is much easier when u r n ur 20s bc people naturally r attracted to youth and that gets attention without even trying. Ive noticed Ive hardened quite a bit from the business and I dont have that over the top friendly bubbliness that makes money. Im sooo much more of an introvert who doesnt trust people. I also dont meet a whole lot of people who I really like. This really isnt the best place to live and the quality of people isnt great. So Ive learned to keep my distance. That hurts me even though its protective at the same time. Thanks guys for taking the time to listen to my rambling..lol...

    Overall I am doing very well right now in this area considering its bikini bars mostly here. I went around and thanked almost every customer who tipped me gave many hugs and attention, I suppose I always feel I could be doing better. ANd striving towards improvement is always a good thing.

  6. #56
    Banned
    Joined
    Feb 2006
    Location
    Colorado!
    Posts
    6,053
    Thanks
    3,775
    Thanked 3,701 Times in 1,713 Posts

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    Lots of great advice in here, but I will add one secret:

    EAT AVOCADOS. Preferably 3 a week. I'll be 30 next year, but am never guessed over 25. I attribute this to the good fats in avocados. I eat them with a sprinkle of salt for a snack. I've been swearing by them for years.

  7. #57
    God/dess tempest666's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2008
    Location
    Hamburg, Pennsylvania
    Posts
    10,607
    Thanks
    2,705
    Thanked 13,685 Times in 4,414 Posts
    Blog Entries
    5
    My Mood
    In Love

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    Stay the hell out of the sun and tanning beds. Everyone is like "You don't look 27!!!!" Cause I don't see daylight unless I really need to. when I do, SPF 55 sunblock even in winter, dark sunglasses, and a hat.
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
    Tempest

  8. The Following User Says Thank You to tempest666 For This Useful Post:


  9. #58
    Banned
    Joined
    May 2004
    Location
    VA
    Posts
    1,725
    Thanks
    92
    Thanked 395 Times in 244 Posts
    My Mood
    Angry

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Stay the hell out of the sun and tanning beds. Everyone is like "You don't look 27!!!!" Cause I don't see daylight unless I really need to. when I do, SPF 55 sunblock even in winter, dark sunglasses, and a hat.
    Agreed. I stopped going to the tanning beds when i was around 22/23 and thats when I started using eye cream/sunblock and anti aging crap. I self tan but I look younger than I actually am .

  10. #59
    God/dess tempest666's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2008
    Location
    Hamburg, Pennsylvania
    Posts
    10,607
    Thanks
    2,705
    Thanked 13,685 Times in 4,414 Posts
    Blog Entries
    5
    My Mood
    In Love

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    I'm taking this one to heart then. I swear you look younger than me and I won't be able to legally drink for over a year...

    Also, I second the dancing to young music. My 34 year old friend danced to Britney Spears, Katy Perry, and Kesha and she looked awesome onstage. As much as I love classic rock, it definitely ages you.
    Except Black Sabbath, Guns N Roses and Metallica. Some music is timeless. I fucking hate all this emo crap rock nowadays
    "Fake tits are like Kevlar. They don't guarantee your chances of survival but they sure as hell improve it."
    Tempest

  11. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to tempest666 For This Useful Post:


  12. #60
    God/dess Vyanka's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Cash-Stack-istan Island
    Posts
    14,704
    Thanks
    6,564
    Thanked 11,625 Times in 3,697 Posts
    My Mood
    Angelic

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    This thread makes big boobs sound like a crime. :-P I don't think a woman's chest ages her, unless they are very very droopy and deflated. I have big boobs and guys think i'm younger than 30.

  13. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Vyanka For This Useful Post:


  14. #61
    God/dess Vyanka's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Cash-Stack-istan Island
    Posts
    14,704
    Thanks
    6,564
    Thanked 11,625 Times in 3,697 Posts
    My Mood
    Angelic

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    Also, 30+ is NOT old. Your mind makes you old. Think old, look old. It's all mental. Be healthy, take care of yourself and all will be well.

    I agree with Tempest on that music. Men love it(& I do too). I'd rather dance to that than garbage Gaga, Beiber, & K. Perry.

  15. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Vyanka For This Useful Post:


  16. #62
    Senior Member Dorien's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2011
    Location
    Los Angeles, Ca
    Posts
    178
    Thanks
    53
    Thanked 78 Times in 43 Posts
    Blog Entries
    14
    My Mood
    Inspired

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    I'm going out to buy avocados! I love them anyway! I agree with Tempest about music: some is timeless! I dance to the Scorpions sometimes and I get love from all ages. But I'll admit to dancing to some Katy Perry if the mood strikes.
    http://doriengrais.blogspot.com/-Senior Citizen Stripper
    (Check out my blogs on stripperweb:-)

  17. #63
    Featured Member Addison's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2010
    Posts
    807
    Thanks
    98
    Thanked 1,351 Times in 407 Posts

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    This thread makes big boobs sound like a crime. :-P I don't think a woman's chest ages her, unless they are very very droopy and deflated. I have big boobs and guys think i'm younger than 30.
    Small boobs are associated with youth, just like long hair. If you cut your hair into a bob, guys won't necessarily start thinking you're over 30, but if it flows down to your waist, it'll make you seem younger.

    Don't get me wrong, I love big boobs. I'm upgrading my implants this year, and they're gonna be huge!

    Co-sign on timeless music, but I was referencing dancing to classic rock when you're obviously an older dancer. If you're still in your 20s, by all means, go ahead. The difference is a guy looking up at the stage and thinking, "I bet this song is older than she is!" vs. looking up and thinking, "This song takes me back! They played it at my prom! They probably played it at her prom, too!"

  18. The Following User Says Thank You to Addison For This Useful Post:


  19. #64
    God/dess Vyanka's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Cash-Stack-istan Island
    Posts
    14,704
    Thanks
    6,564
    Thanked 11,625 Times in 3,697 Posts
    My Mood
    Angelic

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    I've heard of that, but I just don't see it make a girl look older. Certain body types(like pear shapes esp) look better with bigger/fuller boobs imo.

  20. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Vyanka For This Useful Post:


  21. #65
    Member Top Shelf's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2006
    Location
    The Derrty South
    Posts
    19
    Thanks
    5
    Thanked 2 Times in 1 Post

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    I'm taking this one to heart then. I swear you look younger than me and I won't be able to legally drink for over a year...

    Also, I second the dancing to young music. My 34 year old friend danced to Britney Spears, Katy Perry, and Kesha and she looked awesome onstage. As much as I love classic rock, it definitely ages you.

    That is sooo true! Sometimes the selection of music can make or break your personna. I am 31 and I tend to pick music of the 90s. But sometimes, it can be a debbie downer! lol! I think groups like Creed are all a bore now! hahaha! But hey, I thought to stick to the music that made me money in the beginning (early 2000), but that is not always fact. Stick to what is current.

  22. #66
    Featured Member LaurenAus's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2011
    Posts
    1,361
    Thanks
    4,896
    Thanked 1,926 Times in 738 Posts
    My Mood
    Cool

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    adequate sleep makes me look younger than any beauty product i can slab on my face!

  23. #67
    Banned
    Joined
    May 2004
    Location
    VA
    Posts
    1,725
    Thanks
    92
    Thanked 395 Times in 244 Posts
    My Mood
    Angry

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    Quote Originally Posted by LaurenAus View Post
    adequate sleep makes me look younger than any beauty product i can slab on my face!
    I totally agree. I try to get a minimum of 7 hours a night.

  24. #68
    Member
    Joined
    Oct 2011
    Posts
    19
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    there are things that will make you look older just generally: large breasts, small eyes, bad skin/teeth, thin face, dull hair.
    opposite of that, biological indicators of youthfulness are small breasts, large eyes, red full lips, clear skin, clean teeth, full cheeks, small chin, healthy hair.

    so choosing makeup that mimics signs of youthfulness (eyes lined to make appear larger, dark full lashes, concealed undereye shadows, pink cheeks, reddened lips), getting hair extensions to add volume if you are losing it (my god, thinning, chemically abused hair that is attempting to be teased to look fuller looks more tragic than i can explain), everyone has unique weight distribution. without seeing you, i can't know whether or not your weight is making you look heavier/older.

    i'm not really sure what brought this worry about, but honestly, botox will get you right with jesus. sometimes, all the new 18 year olds acting a fool can make us forget that all is well. customers appreciate maturity. someone has tried to sell this 18 is best thing, and it's really not. i'm pretty sure you look fine. get some botox just for the hell of it because it's amazing and you'll love it.
    Google cosmetic fat grafts,my live in and I traveled to Costa Rica to have the procedure done on her face and the results are astonishing,easy ten years taken off her face. Fat grafts are used just about on any area of the body (breasts are a no no on women) arms,hands,legs, buttocks you name it to bring back a youthful looking person.

  25. The Following User Says Thank You to floridamail For This Useful Post:


  26. #69
    Moderator unbeleavable's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2006
    Location
    Atl
    Posts
    3,429
    Thanks
    4,881
    Thanked 2,349 Times in 1,220 Posts

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    Is this the same guy who wanted to do wingman?

  27. #70
    Member
    Joined
    Oct 2011
    Posts
    19
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    Quote Originally Posted by unbeleavable View Post
    Is this the same guy who wanted to do wingman?
    Setup an appointment with your family physician as to why your obsessed with a person on a forum.

  28. #71
    Curious Guest
    Joined
    Nov 2011
    Posts
    4
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    Just my 2 cents since I'm 25 (I'm getting there!) but 30's is not old. My mom stripped till I graduated High school I think she was 42.. And easily a top earner in her club. She's just sexy and yes thats my mom I'm talking about but a true fem-dainty and cute acting (Im the tom boy type). Totally a hustler but her age but grace and intelligence got her the clients with the real money. I remember she had a regular who bought her rolex's and mink coats! Anyways I'm sure she could have gone on but she was exhausted after working so long since she was like 25.. She is blessed with good genetics BUT she had ridiculously large breast, and strawberry blond or blond hair and she did the whole tan thing which she's totally against now.. Anyways she was hip mama though with super cute jewelry, cute hair accessories and she introduced me to the coolest music lol and she was a huge fan of baby soft colors from Mac mostly.. I was mostly a teenager at the time and I totally looked up to her because I saw how men just always fell all over her. I hope I'm lucky enough to retain some of those genetics but I hope to start stripping after I deliver my first son (soon!) Anyways don't beat yourself up follow current trends, eat fat (I think carbs are the enemy and have read that glucose/sugar accelerates aging!) I think virgin coconut oil is the bomb. And I'm not a cardio (excess cortisol is also bad) fan but very into lifting weights, kettle bells and martial arts. And I second the sleep thing!! Also I don't talk with my mother anymore (long story) but she was very obsessed with skin products (I'd ask her which ones are best IF we were talking) although I'm more a simple/holistic type- my grandmother who aged amazingly was a hardcore albolene fan and I want to experiment with using just that and jojoba oils because they are the closest thing to the oils found naturally in your skin! Good luck to you!!

  29. #72
    Veteran Member melb_oz_n00b's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2010
    Location
    Melbourne, Australia
    Posts
    228
    Thanks
    266
    Thanked 75 Times in 47 Posts
    My Mood
    Buzzed

    Default Re: Suggestions to De-Age a Dancer in Her Early 30s

    You say you keep your hair up because it's damaged and thin. I say stop doing this. Think like a guy - young or old, professional or working class, most of them find us sexier with our hair down. We women will see a nice updo as more elegant and flattering, but to them it will look too sensible and serious, and in turn make you look older.

    I have thin hair too, but I find clip in extensions make a difference as they give volume, and they conceal most of your natural, damaged ends. Make sure to go for a good quality pack with at least 6 different clips, not just a single weft. If you're a low-maintenance type and can't see yourself attaching them every night, perhaps try permanent extensions. I work with a 44-year-old who had already nice, thick healthy black hair around shoulder length, but she got good quality extensions and looks much younger.

    I think big boobs almost always > small, especially in this industry, but something I see as really ageing is wrinkled/freckled leathery decolletage. I havent' seen a picture of you, but if you have a bit of damage, perhaps try Sally Hansen to even out your complexion in this area. As with the face, avoid shimmer. Keep it matte.

    Knowing what to cover up/expose changes with age too. Even if you're in good shape, the fact that you can't pass for 18 means perhaps going for different fabrics, avoiding certain colours and patterns etc. I'm only 24 myself, and I know I just look frumpy and trying-too-hard in some outfits that will look really hot on some of the younger girls. I need good fabric that holds me in and smoothes lumps and bumps. And a supportive bra is a must!

Page 3 of 3 FirstFirst 123

Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 28
    Last Post: 01-14-2011, 05:06 PM
  2. Marriage at an early age
    By Kellydancer in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 49
    Last Post: 10-29-2010, 11:55 AM
  3. FORECAST FOR OCT 16TH: THIS IS LIKE THE EARLY 30s
    By Adelina in forum Dollar Den
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: 10-08-2007, 09:04 PM
  4. Suggestions for an early SC night in NYC?
    By sunnie in forum Club Chat
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 12-20-2006, 04:27 PM
  5. Dancer's Age
    By Sophia81 in forum Dancer's Discussion
    Replies: 34
    Last Post: 11-07-2005, 07:51 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •