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    I am being stalked for a while now. That's why my location is obscure.

    Is it worth anything to get a restraining order?

    He's a former cop. Who has lost his marbles.

    He says he's heartbroken; I told him that's a lie. It's a dominance bond - he just likes to be in control whether by threatening, intimidation, lying, impersonations, acting, etc.

    I always figure TROs make stalkers feel mad, like they succeeded getting attention, or makes them laugh as they stalk on.

    What has your experience been?
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    Default Re: Restraining Order for Stalker? 4 fake FB profiles & disguise cell

    You can always contact the police and ask them what your options are. If you DO get a restraining order and the guy ignores it, then you can have his ass arrested, whether or not he was a former cop.

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    Default Re: Restraining Order for Stalker? 4 fake FB profiles & disguise cell

    If you are seriously concerned perhaps you should take your picture off your profile and your location.

    Also, download a tool to check your computer for keylogger viruses. It's possible to track anything you write and all the sites you visit if you don't clean that out.
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    Default Re: Restraining Order for Stalker? 4 fake FB profiles & disguise cell

    Quote Originally Posted by Candy Girl View Post
    I am being stalked for a while now. That's why my location is obscure.

    Is it worth anything to get a restraining order?

    He's a former cop. Who has lost his marbles.

    He says he's heartbroken; I told him that's a lie. It's a dominance bond - he just likes to be in control whether by threatening, intimidation, lying, impersonations, acting, etc.

    I always figure TROs make stalkers feel mad, like they succeeded getting attention, or makes them laugh as they stalk on.

    What has your experience been?
    Yes, I agree w/Op.^ What's TRO? I don't get your thread title either, fake prof.cell, etc. Every experience is different, with different laws according to your area, what's happened in your situation, etc.
    Keeping a written log of contact, & read "Obsessive Love" I don't know the author, but it's a helpful book for stalkees.


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    Default Re: Restraining Order for Stalker? 4 fake FB profiles & disguise cell

    TRO’s are effective on people who obey the law, but why would you need a TRO against someone who obeys the law? On the other hand you may be able to get one free, and it may give police authority to arrest him if need be, so why not?

    Is he crazy enough for a mental health warrant?

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    If you are serious about getting this guy off your back the first thing I would advise is STOP contacting him! Even if you are just trying to talk some sense into him, which is what it sounds like, you are encouraging his behavior by being in contact with him.

    Get the restraining order so that if he continues to bother you his ass will be grass for violating the order.

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    Thank you for your replies. My title means Stalker created four fake profiles on Facebook in the identities of Black men. Stalker friended me with each of these profiles.

    Each of these profiles then messaged me to ask where I was and could they visit. That never happens so I figured out it was him. He is an older White man.

    Then yesterday, I got text messages from a cell phone with an area code near where I claim I am living. He claimed his name was "Coco" which made it unclear whether it was a man or a woman. i asked who it was and then he started saying whack-o things about wearing lingerie, eating cheese, and how his penis was an engorged purple dinosaur. And how he's heartbroken which is bullshit. I told him he's a control freak and a "dominance bond" is what he's after. By intimidating me.

    So I'm having some men relatives get in touch. Then actual Black men. Then vatos. Then gangsters I am friends with.

    Crazy or not. He needs to understand he doesn't really want it.

    I'll look into the restraining order.
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    Default Re: Restraining Order for Stalker? 4 fake FB profiles & disguise cell

    honestly, a tro will be helpful in the event that he does get violent. depending on what kind of stalker he is, it could make him angry or confused or frightened when he gets served. when i was going through a mess, i called the sheriff daily so that i knew what day he was being served so that i could be not at my home that day.

    no matter what kind of stalker you have, it is good to get a tro so there is a legitimate paper trail because stalkers escalate. being served with papers may make him angry more quickly, but it was going to get there anyway. i'm sorry to put it so bluntly but, in my case, i took the risk because if he did end up hurting me, i would want the police to immediately have a suspect and evidence if i was not around to explain.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Candy Girl View Post
    So I'm having some men relatives get in touch. Then actual Black men. Then vatos. Then gangsters I am friends with.

    I'll look into the restraining order.


    Orale homes! lol

    Just curious, is this in order... like, first the relatives, then 'actual' Black men, then vatos, then the gangsters, and lastly the restraining order. This stalker must have the force of the National Guard if you need all that to take him out........... lol

    lol..............aaaaaaaaaaaaand lol

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    well, this is what i did and as a result, i like you by default. also, any men you know with a military background.

    Quote Originally Posted by Candy Girl View Post

    So I'm having some men relatives get in touch. Then actual Black men. Then vatos. Then gangsters I am friends with.

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    If he's a former cop, and possibly still has friends on the force, won't this get your relatives and male friends into a world of shit?
    I propose a toast - to my self control.... I see you crawling, helpless, on the floor.......
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    The point isn't for them to make threats -- just to make contact. Just to let him know they're there. So they can ask is there something they can help him with. So he can ask them to stop contacting him. Just like I've repeatedly asked him to stop contacting me.

    Like training a dog, some men only learn by example.
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