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Thread: How to handle girls talking shit to cutomers about other dancer!

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    Angry How to handle girls talking shit to cutomers about other dancer!

    I am a dancer at this club in guam and it seems the slower it gets the vicious and vindictive the girls get. The ones that are making the most money are not even remotely attractive nor have the best bodies.there the ones that are telling customers bad things about the other girls that are more attractive. I didnt signed up for the drama nor jealousy. What can you do? Any advice?

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    Default Re: How to handle girls talking shit to cutomers about other dancer!

    Most of the time, shit-talking isn't worth getting worked up over. A lot of time, I feel like customers are more turned off to the girls who talk shit about other dancers than they are to the girls that are being talked about, because they don't like the cattiness. Other times, you can talk to customers and say "Yeah, that's not true," and they'll believe you. But if it's really getting to a nasty point, I would bring it to the manager. There's no point in starting even more drama by trying to yell at her yourself. And, while it may seem childish to go tattling to the manager, I say it's their job to deal with things like this. This isn't just a high school where the only thing that happens when people make up rumors is that you're socially shunned. It's fucking with your income, and they're doing it on purpose. I can't imagine any decent manager being happy that a girl isn't making money to give to the club because some other girl just wants to be a bitch. If you were at any other job, and a coworker was fucking up productivity on purpose, you would definitely tell a boss. This should be no different.

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    Default Re: How to handle girls talking shit to cutomers about other dancer!

    o.O where do you work out here? As you said, it has been slow(jealousy and cattyness kindof come with the territory). Also, if you are working with a bunch of girls who are house dancers (residents of Guam) they have had the chance to establish a customer base, kwim?

    However, I do have to point out that since Guam doesn't really revolve around lapdances being attractive doesn't automatically generate money. Here it is really about what you have to say--girls with great conversational skills make more money out here imho.

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    Default Re: How to handle girls talking shit to cutomers about other dancer!

    Oh but to answer your primary question: Why don't you try to talk to the girl/girls who are causing drama yourself? Just be upfront with them. I mean you could tell the manager but (and this is only my opinion from working out here for over 5 years) that might not (depending on where you work) get the select girls to stop altogether.

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    Default Re: How to handle girls talking shit to cutomers about other dancer!

    I am working at a club in Tumon I dont wanna say but you are right you dont have to be remotely attractive to make money but I do feel and have heard girls talking about me to customers. Its messing with my money and I plan to talk to my boss about this. I havent done anything to anyone besides work at the club. I know since its slow you see the real bitchiness comes out but I refuse to tolerate it. We even have girls that are wearing drape shirts that intentionally stand up in the booths infront of customers with their backs turn to insure that the customers dont see who is on stage.

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    Default Re: How to handle girls talking shit to cutomers about other dancer!

    Lol, every club is located in Tumon^^

    Good luck with everything. Hope it gets better for you=)

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    Default Re: How to handle girls talking shit to cutomers about other dancer!

    Quote Originally Posted by MyButter View Post
    Oh but to answer your primary question: Why don't you try to talk to the girl/girls who are causing drama yourself? Just be upfront with them. I mean you could tell the manager but (and this is only my opinion from working out here for over 5 years) that might not (depending on where you work) get the select girls to stop altogether.
    Every time I try to calmly approach dancer before management it blows up in my face- If they are unprofessional/unreasonable in the first place then why would they be any different to your face than behind your back. Look, it REALLY goes against the grain for me to "dob someone in" but maybe if management hears enough about these girls then they will get rid of them.
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    More fear-mongering? Really? Yes, this is not the 1990's anymore. Yes, things are changing. Either dance or don't. Freaking out and sowing fear isn't going to help anyone.




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    Default Re: How to handle girls talking shit to cutomers about other dancer!

    I would do a combination. I would inform the boss -because many times my GM wants a heads up when trouble is brewing & then I would just not worry about it after that. Because when she talks shit to customers about you -it doesn't make you look bad, it makes her look insecure & childish. If anything the customer won't care or you might even become more intriguing to him.
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