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    Ok, this happens to me almost every night I work. A guy will approch me and start talking to me, then he starts getting all touchy feelly on me. I immediantly ask them if they want a dance and they will either say No or maybe later. I always say "Then don't touch me."
    I am aganist letting guys touch me without paying for dances. I do not like to be used for free. They must pay for the goodies!

    How do you ladies and men feel about customers trying to touch you on the main floor for free?

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    Default Re: "Customers" touching you and not wanting a dance.

    Here's my favorite customer line
    " You should be more romantic" aka You should let me put my filthy hands all over you before we dance.
    He was trying to carress my whole body. ewwww gross!

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    Default Re: "Customers" touching you and not wanting a dance.

    I usually take their hands in mine if they are going for a freebie grope, look them in the eye and make a very aggressive sales pitch. If they say yes then i put on my stripper ninja hat and prepare to dance and dodge some serious hands, and if they say no i say something snarky and get the hell outta dodge.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: "Customers" touching you and not wanting a dance.

    sell faster.

    eta: i am curious how some dancers let their guard down so much when they're at work. if i am in a dark bar, whether it be a strip club or not, and some dude i don't know is inches away from me, i am going to know where his hands are. so maybe i'm not understanding. are you letting them touch you and thinking that you will sell a dance shortly after? or are customers grabbing at you and you think it is because they're trying to get your attention?
    Last edited by camille27; 09-13-2011 at 07:14 PM.

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    Default Re: "Customers" touching you and not wanting a dance.

    HELL no. Not just no...HELL no. I'll touch them, sure. But they can't touch me...and it might be just me, but it seems like the touchy feely ones are ALWAYS broke as fuck and have no interest in a dance. That's why they try to get it on the floor

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    Default Re: "Customers" touching you and not wanting a dance.

    I don't allow it.

    LOL athena-stripper ninja hat. Hahaha. :-D
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    Default Re: "Customers" touching you and not wanting a dance.

    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    sell faster.

    eta: i am curious how some dancers let their guard down so much when they're at work. if i am in a dark bar, whether it be a strip club or not, and some dude i don't know is inches away from me, i am going to know where his hands are. so maybe i'm not understanding. are you letting them touch you and thinking that you will sell a dance shortly after? or are customers grabbing at you and you think it is because they're trying to get your attention?
    If i am reading the op right, this customer is trying to caress while simultaneously complementing the dancer and telling her how she is the prettiest one there and she should stay with him and he will look after her and buy champagne etc etc, he just wants her to sit and talk for a while first. A more naive dancer will think she has found a godmine and believe if she sits with him and tolerates the groping for a while this guy will eventually make her night. Ive fallen for it before when i was new.

    Often these customers are older european italian men. And are "passionate" (i.e. No control over his penis). Because i feel like generalizing today.
    Quote Originally Posted by Farrah_Golden View Post
    HELL no. Not just no...HELL no. I'll touch them, sure. But they can't touch me...and it might be just me, but it seems like the touchy feely ones are ALWAYS broke as fuck and have no interest in a dance. That's why they try to get it on the floor
    This.


    You need to call them on their bullshit immediately. Demand action (as in moneh), not lofty promises.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: "Customers" touching you and not wanting a dance.

    okay. this used to happen to me a lot in the form of face-stroking as opposed to body molestation. this is why i prefer a fast, dirty hustle. men don't wash their hands and then they try to touch my cheek and i really can't.

    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    If i am reading the op right, this customer is trying to caress while simultaneously complementing the dancer and telling her how she is the prettiest one there and she should stay with him and he will look after her and buy champagne etc etc, he just wants her to sit and talk for a while first. A more naive dancer will think she has found a godmine and believe if she sits with him and tolerates the groping for a while this guy will eventually make her night. Ive fallen for it before when i was new.

    Often these customers are older european italian men. And are "passionate" (i.e. No control over his penis). Because i feel like generalizing today.

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    Thumbs up Re: "Customers" touching you and not wanting a dance.

    Grab their hands and say:

    "The more generous you are the more romantic I get."

    Fight greed with greed.

    I'm with Athenathefabulous. If you want to play games with me dude prepare to be hustled hard.




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    Default Re: "Customers" touching you and not wanting a dance.

    I find its hit an miss with the touchy ones, ill fight them off gently till its clear they aint gonna get a dance, by gently i mean movin their hands away from me but in a playful "youll get me in trouble" way. ask them for a dance and either leave with them for a dance, or leave without them. on the odd ocasion i have had guys follow me an take me stright for a dance/vip when ive walked away, so they get the message that if they want my attention, they gotta pay for it.

    however if a guy just aint gettin the hint ill flat out abuse him verbally, specially if he follows me around gropin my arse, which happens more than ud think, our club for some pathetic reason dont throw ppl out so easily.

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    Default Re: "Customers" touching you and not wanting a dance.

    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    sell faster.

    eta: i am curious how some dancers let their guard down so much when they're at work. if i am in a dark bar, whether it be a strip club or not, and some dude i don't know is inches away from me, i am going to know where his hands are. so maybe i'm not understanding. are you letting them touch you and thinking that you will sell a dance shortly after? or are customers grabbing at you and you think it is because they're trying to get your attention?

    I do not allow any guy to touch me unless he buy dances. I just HATE when they try.
    And I agree with you 100 percent that dances should be sold faster. No more than 3 songs each guy IF that.

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    If a customer starts touching me, I'd tell him that each body part (private parts and nipples are always off limits) cost one dollar per second. For every second spend rubbing me, I'd take X amount of money. I started doing this last night because I over heard a customer, while I wan on stage, saying that he'd like to spank my ass. Since spanking an ass takes like two seconds, I told him right after: "ok, that'll be two dollars". He actually thought that I had a nice sense of humor for requesting the money that nicely, and of course, he gave me the money.

    This whole "one dollar per second" can:

    -Discourage cheap customers from touching.
    -The ones that actually care about touching, they just do it as quick as possible so they only have to tip two or three dollars.
    -Saves me the hassle of asking for cheap dances.





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    Default Re: "Customers" touching you and not wanting a dance.

    I find that it helps to "hold their hand"-a. they have some form of contact b. it's often perceived as an intimate gesture c. it keeps wandering hands at bay long enough to ask if they'll pay!

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    Default Re: "Customers" touching you and not wanting a dance.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    If a customer starts touching me, I'd tell him that each body part (private parts and nipples are always off limits) cost one dollar per second. For every second spend rubbing me, I'd take X amount of money. I started doing this last night because I over heard a customer, while I wan on stage, saying that he'd like to spank my ass. Since spanking an ass takes like two seconds, I told him right after: "ok, that'll be two dollars". He actually thought that I had a nice sense of humor for requesting the money that nicely, and of course, he gave me the money.

    This whole "one dollar per second" can:

    -Discourage cheap customers from touching.
    -The ones that actually care about touching, they just do it as quick as possible so they only have to tip two or three dollars.
    -Saves me the hassle of asking for cheap dances.
    I do that except I say five for feel and that usually makes them put their hands to their sides.. I really don't like being touched without coming out with a worth it profit.

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