So I worked last night. I got up and went into my daughter's room when I woke up (she is 18 months btw) as I usually do so that she doesn't cry. I fed her and changed her and got her her sippy cup and we went back into her room. She was playing and I was in and out of sleep. I heard my dad's gf wake up and she was in the kitchen, a while later my daughter goes out to the kitchen (which I didn't see a problem with) and was probably mooching off whatever she was having for bfast (my daughter is a piglet). I was awake but sleepy and was laying on the rug in my daughters room. I heard my dad's gf say 'go with mami' and as I looked up it appeared she'd just finished pushing my baby onto the floor and rushing away out of sight and out the front door.
In addition, I heard and recognized her brother's voice. He comes every few weeks to shop for clothes here in Miami and sells it in Ecuador. My dad and his gf are leaving to Mexico for about a week this week, and I thought it was going to be just me and my baby at home. No one bothered to tell me that my dad's girlfriend's brother was going to be coming to stay or that I'd be home alone with him for over a week. I'm very much annoyed by this, but I'm wondering if I'm over reacting.
I called my sister already and she told me the right thing to have done was to spoke up right away as soon as I saw what I did... but that at this point it wouldn't do much good especially considering she is leaving to Mexico for a week.
I just don't know if I can keep my mouth shut.
Lastly, I'm clearing out my locker at the club and staying home with my daughter. My dad's girlfriend didn't really watch her for me, but she was at home with her during the night when I worked (my daughter sleeps from 7:30 to 7:30). So, I don't even feel comfortable with that anymore.
I might go back to work in November, we will see. Her daycare provides overnight care as well so I will look into that.



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. & it doesn't matter what race she is..



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