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    Heyy..I'm back! lol
    In a nutshell I was arrested last week, thrown in jail until I was bailed out and now I am living the high life of being a single, unemployed mom. My family now knows what I was charged with as well as my ex. My ex threatened to take away my daughter and is forcing me to prove that I get a straight job or he will take me to court to get sole custody. I am not going to go into too much detail about what happened to me because it received a lot of media attention and is actually not even my fault! ha. I was not working indy this time so its not like it was a slip up on my part for not screening thoroughly or prowling the streets just asking to be picked up. Nonetheless I can only blame myself for getting into this situation but I am not going down without a fight. I have to call the court tomorrow to see if I need to go back there next week because I went today and the case was "vacated." I am really hoping to not have a felony on my record or go back to jail because neither of those options are very fun..obviously.
    I am freaking out because I have no idea what to do for work until the trial is over which could take MONTHS! I am definitely being watched very closely and I am not going to risk working right now because they are watching the boards and backpage ads with a vengeance now hoping to get more evidence against us. FML. Who all on here was arrested/charged/had a trial that wants to shed light on how they made money during it all? Did you keep on doing your old thing at the risk of getting in even more trouble?
    I am thinking of being a sitter/nanny to bring in cash or getting my bar-tending license but fuck how can I pay the bills and then some working a regular job!

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    Why don't you cam hun? Sorry to hear you're going through this

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    Fuck Sadie! Oh my gosh, girl! I think I know JUST what you are talking about. I am so sorry! Wow! I don't what else to say.

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    I keep forgetting about camming..even though I never really liked it psh who cares its money that I need! Thanks MissKatie.

    @LAChloe- Thanks girl..yeah its kinda hard to stay UTR right now in any sense of my life :/

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    Oh yeah, Sadie. For reals, be careful. I didn't even think of you when I read about it but I should have. Oh man. Wow. (big huge hugs) Without saying too much, I really think the charges will be dropped but you definitely need to walk on eggshells until it's over or the charges get dropped.

    You definitely need to get camming until you figure something else out.

    I'm going to PM you tonight so check your PMs soon.

    xo

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    did you plead not guilty? please say yes!

    a vacated charge will still show up if an employer (or even an apartment leasing office) runs a background check against you, so i'm not sure if childcare is an option.

    waitressing at a chain restaurant might be your best bet (red lobster, olive garden...) for making ends meet in the meantime.

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    thank you LAChloe! *big hugs back at ya* It's definitely not the type of "celebrity" status people dream of that's for sure I'm definitely not the "big fish" so hopefully they will ealve me the hell alone ><
    @ Camille27- I didnt even get a chance to plead not guilty..I went to court today and was told it was vacated and went home. Was told to call by 2pm tomorrow to see if I need to come back to court next week but I keep getting told different things from lawyers and my other friends like its a good thing it got vacated and that no no its bad and might go federal now. Not knowing anything is the worst part of it all..you feel so helpless.

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    Yeah food service industry. You could cam part time but I think getting a strait job is going to look better if there's a trial and for the custody situation with your ex. I don't know what your situation is but maybe you could move back home or stay with a relative.

    I a SO sorry this happened to you. FIGHT IT! FIGHT IT TO THE DEATH! Get a good lawyer too. Wish I could do/say more to make you feel better.

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    i'm not a lawyer

    don't know what state you're in, but if this is your first or second time being arrested for this, if this is a prostitution charge (?), it's only a misdemeanor or it may get thrown out (if you plead non guilty). if the charge does stick, and not a felony, later on you may have the ability to get expunged or seal. i believe the third time is when it becomes a felony

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    How horrible. It is always nice to let us other escorts know what their approach was in catching you. I am assuming you were working for a big company. Cam, dance (be very careful), Maybe find one or two really good sugar daddy's (<--biggest pain in the ass).

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    Aw babe that must have been/is so scary
    I am so sorry you are going through this right now.

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    Ugh so scary ... I'm so sorry. I've been having nightmares about this recently and thinking of quitting and just webcamming.

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    Sorry to bump this but never responded to other posts/was gone for a bit again
    I still have no idea what is going on with my case..I do not know what evidence they have when my next court date is even because they are so fucking restarted!
    It sucks..all I want to do is work and I have been debating traveling 2.5 hours south to the next biggest city but the smart part of my brain says "are you fucking stupid?! You can still get caught."
    I am getting my camming shit together though to at least use that as some cash on the side..who knows maybe this whole arrest thing has made me so bitter I can do financial dom easily :p
    Oh and @TeeBaby this is my first arrest EVER but so far they have 2 felons and 1 misdemeanor on my arrest sheet..it all depends on how they are proceeding with this case.

    Its such a shitty cycle though if you get a felony on your record, you cant get a "normal" GOOD job (if thats what you eventually wanted) with one so we do what we know makes the best money...

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    If you want to do the type of work that you were arrested for, is there any possibility that you can go to Nevada where it's legal?

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    I thought about Vegas but I am not allowed to leave the state until the trial is over which could be months from now
    I am just wondering if I drove to Vegas and went to a brothel every other week for 4-5 days at a time if somehow anyone would know I was being "bad" and leaving the state. But the paranoid side of me wants to play it safe a the same time

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    I'm sorry, I forgot to mention, but I think it is illegal in Las Vegas. It's only legal in certain counties, so make sure you check that it's legal where you go. Here is an article on where it's legal:

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution_in_Nevada

    Do you have a lawyer? You should ask a lawyer about traveling out of state. If you can't afford one, the state will appoint one for you.

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    Ha! I actually read that wiki before you posted it today :p But yes I heard the same thing that certain counties outside Vegas have it legal but I dont think it is for indy girls just brothels if I understand correctly.
    I am supposed to be getting a lawyer assigned to me sometime "soon" but they are seriously dragging their feet.

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    I'm so sorry to hear this, hon. I think you should nix the idea of going to Nevada, it's way too risky. If I remember correctly you have to get some sort of background check to work in a Nevada brothel, so this option may be out of the question anyway.

    I really like your idea of bartending. The only alternatives I can come up with off the top of my head are:

    -Virtual assistant
    -At-home customer service phone rep (check sites like Ratracerebellion.com for leads)
    -waitress
    -appointment booker for agency - Of course there's the risk if the agency goes down (I've done this for years and never got in trouble) but may be an alternative if you're having trouble finding a job in this economy, plus you can get started right away.
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    ^Yes I read that on the brothel sites >< grr oh well it was a fun thought anyway!
    Sadly I have been applying at places like Starbucks and senior care homes lol but your ideas are good. I think I just got a pm from you so we shall talk more there

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    That's so saaaaaaaad.........

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    i have a question my friend is a booker to a massage girl and last week she got busted. It's the first time she ever got caught and the massage girl wants to fight the case. She asked my friend (booker) to email her numbers of the clients she saw that day (name +number) and the ads she posted for the trial. The massage girl wants to get a lawyer. My friend doesnt want to do that b/c she feels its going to connect her in the situation but then she doesnt want to leave the massage girl hanging ....what can she tell the massage girl to avoid having her name in this???

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    @Sally101:

    Your friend needs to hire a lawyer immediately!

    Nothing anyone here can say is a substitution for real legal advice.

    Your friend should have an attorney who will answer all of these questions. Your friend's freedom and future (and lifetime record) could be on the line here. She needs to take this shit seriously and hire an attorney NOW before she makes any mistakes!

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexxySadie View Post
    Sorry to bump this but never responded to other posts/was gone for a bit again
    I still have no idea what is going on with my case..I do not know what evidence they have when my next court date is even because they are so fucking restarted!
    It sucks..all I want to do is work and I have been debating traveling 2.5 hours south to the next biggest city but the smart part of my brain says "are you fucking stupid?! You can still get caught."
    I am getting my camming shit together though to at least use that as some cash on the side..who knows maybe this whole arrest thing has made me so bitter I can do financial dom easily :p
    Oh and @TeeBaby this is my first arrest EVER but so far they have 2 felons and 1 misdemeanor on my arrest sheet..it all depends on how they are proceeding with this case.

    Its such a shitty cycle though if you get a felony on your record, you cant get a "normal" GOOD job (if thats what you eventually wanted) with one so we do what we know makes the best money...
    You can't go to the next biggest city. They are aware and watching you. All of your emails & phone calls could possible be monitored at this point, especially if it is a federal case.

    Redlobster or any other chain pays CRAP. You will maybe make $25 in tips if your lucky and be taxed on them out of the hourly cheap wages.

    There are temp companies that can get you office work. You need that for court & custody. Cam but block the area where baby's daddy resides.

    You are going to have to work 2 jobs, a legit job & camming part time to pay bills. Also suggest Clips4sale and other sites like it to bring in money.

    You don't know what customers to trust or who has been compromised and the Gov is using against you.

    Even though it will cost money, GET A LAWYER. Your ex can use this case against you until the child is 18 years old as leverage.

    Sorry, to hear about your problems. Wishing you good luck.

    Smooches,
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    Quote Originally Posted by SexxySadie View Post
    I thought about Vegas but I am not allowed to leave the state until the trial is over which could be months from now
    I am just wondering if I drove to Vegas and went to a brothel every other week for 4-5 days at a time if somehow anyone would know I was being "bad" and leaving the state. But the paranoid side of me wants to play it safe a the same time
    Brothels are NOT in Vegas.
    They advertize all over the web.
    Although it maybe legal, you are in a position where you need a legit job working outside the sex industry. Especially if you want to keep custody of the kid.

    In order to work at a brothel, you must pay for & register with the state of Nevada and forever have it on your record as being a prostitute with the U.S Government. I don't think that is a good idea if you have to fight for custody of a kid.

    You also have to pay for medical testing to work there.


    Nor are they going to just let you work weekend. You are required to do 2 week stunts there.

    Brush up on your computer skills, learn what you need to get a good job at an office which can pay $8 to $15 per hour.

    Even bartending at a club can look bad in court & to the judge. You have to look at it from their perspective.

    Good Luck,
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    Have you thought of talking to a social worker about getting aid? Goodie two shoes always love to feel like they are "saving" a sinner. Going to church for help might be a little too painful, but good old Uncle Sam is a good sugar daddy in a pinch. I had to go on food stamps to carry me from having two incomes to just my camming until things even out. The social workers are just waiting for people to cram money at. I bet they would have resources to find a job and stuff too.

    Also, camming and stripping are straight jobs. They are legal. Unless you have your kid right there while you are doing lap dances or performing on cam, you're not doing anything wrong. Cam while the kids are at work?
    Yes, I'm real.

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