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    Default First night coming sooooooon! any tips appreciated (:

    Going in for my first night on Saturday, I am just HOPING that the girls are all going to be nice to me! And just nervous in general. I've never given a lap dance EVER and only danced on stage during an audition. Is the night pretty much repetitious? Just go on and off the stage and dressing room? And also do you give yourself breaks/ how does that work? Oh and my last question was do you just get paid in tips, you don't get like a small paycheck or anything right?


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    Default Re: First night coming sooooooon! any tips appreciated (:

    No pay check its all in tips, I do take breaks but when there is a lag in people or I don't feel like hustling lol it is pretty much repetition all night. About the girls, i just got hired yesterday anf every dancer who walked by gave me the stink eye so don't expect them to be super nice at first just do your job and you should be OK. Lap danced aren't bad just set up boundaries up front. As for being nervous I can't help you tonight is my first night and I'm incredibly nervous even though I have almost a years experience.

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    Yeah, the dancing is the easy part of the job to pick up. It's kinda hard to give advice on a lap dance because the rules are different from place to place. But whatever your boundaries are, make them clear and stick to them.

    Not all the dancers will be friendly- you ARE competition. But they shouldn't be openly rude or anything. Just keep your head up and do your thing.

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    Default Re: First night coming sooooooon! any tips appreciated (:

    Quote Originally Posted by Shaeee View Post
    Going in for my first night on Saturday, I am just HOPING that the girls are all going to be nice to me! And just nervous in general. I've never given a lap dance EVER and only danced on stage during an audition. Is the night pretty much repetitious? Just go on and off the stage and dressing room? And also do you give yourself breaks/ how does that work? Oh and my last question was do you just get paid in tips, you don't get like a small paycheck or anything right?


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    Remember what I told you it isn't going to be a slumber party. Just stay out of the dressing room as much as you can, speak when spoken to (hell take an ipod and listen to some music to put you in the mood) Don't try to be everyone's best friend. Also, don't assume because someone was nice to you they want you to cling to them like a damn tick. I was nice to a newbie because I felt bad for her and she followed me around until I turned around and bit her head off.
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Remember what I told you it isn't going to be a slumber party. Just stay out of the dressing room as much as you can, speak when spoken to (hell take an ipod and listen to some music to put you in the mood) Don't try to be everyone's best friend. Also, don't assume because someone was nice to you they want you to cling to them like a damn tick. I was nice to a newbie because I felt bad for her and she followed me around until I turned around and bit her head off.
    This. A nice dancer might offer to show you how to hustle ONE customer. Don't expect even that, and definitely do not expect more. After you get your first dance, it's all pretty easy from there.

    And don't forget eye contact! You can be selling somebody across the room while you're working at a totally different table.

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    Default Re: First night coming sooooooon! any tips appreciated (:

    all dressed and ready to go, just waiting to leave at 6:45.. ahh so excited/nervous. thanks everyone for helping.. go stripper web! :p

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    Looking forward to hear how it went

    Keep us updated.

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    Default Re: First night coming sooooooon! any tips appreciated (:

    ahhh. i remember my very first night. so long ago. you're making me very nostalgic.

    you'll get the hang of it in no time. good luck! =)

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    Default Re: First night coming sooooooon! any tips appreciated (:

    I work day shift at my club and all of us are pretty nice, but the night shift girls are known for being catty. Just try to be tough and not let the other girls intimidate you (easier said than done sometimes). On night shift at my club the new girls are generally ignored at first as there is a high turn over. There might be some nice girls there, but don't rely too much on them. After all, you're all in there competing for the money.

    When dancing, take it slow. Its easy to start speeding up when you get nervous, but slow and sensual looks better. Guys also really like eye contact. Even during lap dances I make sure to look them in the eyes and smile periodically. Oh, and if you put your legs in the air on stage, remember to point your toes!

    As a dancer you're an independent contractor. You work for yourself. If you want to work twelve hours nonstop, fine. If you want to sit over in the corner and not talk to anyone the whole night, no one will stop you (at least, that's how my club works). Its nice not having anyone to tell you what to do, but it also means no paycheck...or health insurance... In fact, you have to pay the company to use the premises (aka house fee).

    Good luck!

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    So my first night went really well I made about $465 after tip out and one guy spent most of it on me. I fell a couple times in my super big heels but only once in front of people, the second time was in the dressing room. hahaha I have to get used to those. I can't describe the feeling but I guess it will be weird at first because you're not used to throwing yourself all over random old guys at first. haha it's so weird! I have to act like I like them. I feel like my life is a lie. hahaha

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    Default Re: First night coming sooooooon! any tips appreciated (:

    that's a really good first night! congratulations
    Follow your heart and do what feels right for you, because that’s living. Everything else is dying.

    “Things may come to those who wait…but only the things left by those who hustle.”

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    Default Re: First night coming sooooooon! any tips appreciated (:

    Glad it went so well!

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