Well I had just posted in the Coming Out forum yesterday about how happy I am to be making a move to Arizona with my boyfriend soon. He has worked part-time as a bouncer where I work for about 10 years and his regular job is relocating him to the Scottsdale area.
I love him very much and we have a great relationship besides a couple petty run-of-the-mill misunderstandings, but I've been developing doubts since he quit the bouncing job a few weeks back...all of a sudden staff and dancers decide to start telling me his is womanizer and I'm fool and I'm gonna get hurt, etc etc. I don't wanna believe them cuz most of them often change their story on him, while long time staff members always stick up for him.
I understand that a person who has been in that field for as long as has had his extracurricular fun in the past, and a fling is a fling, but we are in a relationship and he's told everyone there (we never work the same shift).
So my hope is that now he has chose me to settle down with in a new place across the country, away from his old stomping grounds and bouncing job.
I was so unbelievably happy to have met someone like him that I thought loved me as well, but now I'm scared from what I'm hearing that I'm "just another one" and he never took me seriously cuz he met me at the club...I don't live with him yet out here in Chicago, so it's not like I always know what's really going on....
Has anyone had experience with dating a strip club bouncer?
Any $0.02 is appreciated, thanks!


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