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    Okay I know that the guys watching me on cam are usually not super hot or whatever and I can accept that. the guy went private with me and did cam2cam and I don't know how exactly but he started making me nervous and he even asked if it was my first time on cam (because I was so nervous ... I've been camming for almost a year so obviously not my first time). and then he asked where I was from and I obviously don't give my exact location but he was from the place that I said I was from ... it is a big city and I live like a city away but still WEIRD and then he thought we could actually meet. and it was just a general bad vibe about him. maybe it doesn't seem so terrible but it freaked me out. I couldn't go longer than ten mins with him ... the internet accidentally disconnected ... oops ... ugh I hated it and it just made me feel like icky ... or something

    this is kind of a venting post I guess

    just feel so weird ... uncomfortable ... not sure who I can tell, where I can share this :s
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    happens a lot for me. guys are delusional about meeting. kinda weird he lives close to you but if you didn't give him any real info, i don't think you have anything to worry about. the internet is full of creepers. just take a hot shower & scrub off the creepy *hugs*

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    Yeah - some guys give me a super creepy vibe too. Hot shower is the best advice I can give!! Hugs
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    innes- i have had things like that happen to me a few times. a few guys have just given me the "heeby-jeebies". unfortunately i think it is just one of the hazards of the job. take a few hours off. (hugs)

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    God I have had that on a couple of occasions. I had one guy sending me details about flights to London. He wanted to take a vacation here and hire me as his personal "tour guide". I felt sick to my stomach about the whole thing because I wasnt even encouraging him to do so and he had never even take me private. He said he "respected me too much and wanted to know my soul" which we all know is code for cheap!

    The other guy actually lived like 20 mins away from me and that did make me anxious. He also used words like "lover" and "make love" and "I'll be gentle with you". He also had really specific and detailed fantasies which to me suggested he was alone a lot and had waaaaay too much time on his hands to be thinking up all that shit. It was very "The Lovely Bones." I always think the ones who talk like that have mental problems and are the ones who would end up stuffing you in the trunk of their cars. At least you know the men who talk about bending you over and spanking you etc are letting off steam and taking it for what it is, but the ones who talk about "making love"... Eugh!

    He was so desperate to meet up I just ended up banning him after he kept harassing me. I still look over my shoulder though in case he's randomly in my part of town :/

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    i've gotten to the point where i just ban them now if they start up with that shit. even if it's halfway through a private. a long bath and hot shower can work wonders <3

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    Don't forget a good engaging movie after that hot bath. works for me all the time.
    And remember the heeby jeebies are not a problem, they're a gift! They keep you safe, you listened to them, that's awesome.

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    All of this seems like really good reason for blocking your state or surrounding states from viewing your profile...

    I live in Florida and have all of Florida blocked and Georgia too because it is just a 30 minute drive away.

    The reality is, if you are using a cam name, have a fake city on your profile, block your state and are careful not to post pictures of yourself with personal details in the background (like license plates, receipts or other things they could blow up with photo editors to get personal info) you will be fine.

    If they are taking you private and creeping you out, pull the shy card. "I am sorry bb. But I am just so scared to meet people in person off here. I know it will take me awhile to warm up to the idea if I ever do at all... So how about we start talking shows. What can I do for you?" Then drag their cam down till all you can really see is the corner if they finish or get up and leave you can say something appropriate.

    Money is money, even from the people who look like they probably are wearing ankle bracelets from prison.

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    "sorry love, I'd like to meet you, but I don't really feel comfortable talking more about this in free where anyone could see... why don't we go private so we know we're alone first?"

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    It was in private where he was talking about it. And unfortunately states/countries can't be blocked on this site ... but it's my biggest income ... if he comes into my room again I'm going to ban him. Heebie jeebies. I just logged off cam and haven't been on since :s

    I figured you girls had encountered this before ... so glad you are around! My bf just laughed, he totally didn't get it

    Heebie jeebies though ... that's exactly what it was ... ughhh :s
    InnesX

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