I know I need to work on my self esteem. I made decent money now by just chilling at the bar waiting for people to come up to me, but I know I could make twice as much if I got over my fear of approaching people and put on my hustle. If other people approach me I am fine, and 99% of the time will close a sale for a dance/dances. I know if they approach me, that I am their type and they are interested in conversation/dances/etc. but on the slow nights I need to learn how to approach people. I'm deathly afraid and I don't know why. Probably because I did bachelor parties for a year before I started at this club a month and a half ago, and bachelor parties involved absolutely no hustle.
Any advice on getting up the courage to approach people/improve my self esteem?



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If he still says no, then leave graciously and with a smile. Check back with him later.
This I know, so I'm getting a lot better at going up to guys.



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