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    Dizzy some guys perfer you to get hammered with them

    so i stopped drinking at work, but an guy who i hadnt seen for ages came in and was buying the drinks, so i thought what the hell, i was absolutly bladdered after about an hour lol.

    Anyway this guy usually gets £60 off me when he used to come in, and i never used to get drunk, always refused his drink offers or asked for a soft drink instead.

    This time he spent £200 on me in VIP and bought me a shed load to drink. He's a lovly guy, just compliments continuosly, and dosnt want you to get naked or dance, u just sit with him and he will either rub ur feet or give u a back rub, he's lovely.

    I'm thinking that maybe coz i had drinks with him, he spent more on me than normal, it only hit me the day after, coz i was thinkin "why he spend so much on me", he had never spent so much before.

    The thing is if he starts comin in reg again, i cant keep gettin drunk, coz i cant make much money when im drunk, i get too pally pally with ppl or i go utterly depressed haha.

    Just a lil info from me, do any others find this with any regs u might have?

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    Default Re: some guys perfer you to get hammered with them

    Maybe you could ask for virgin drinks. I always would order shots of "tequila" but asked the waitress to put water in it and hand it specifically to me. This way I could appear as if I am drinking but only consume water or sprite. There are plenty of drinks you could order that have no alcohol in it. Vodka and sprite minus the vodka.

    Just remember to act like you are shit faced and that the shots taste horrible!
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    Default Re: some guys perfer you to get hammered with them

    well when i av too much suger i act as stupid as i do when im drunk, just not sooo fally overish haha, ill make a deal with the barmaid next time im in, maybe she can keep the money as a tip from the alcohols price

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    Default Re: some guys perfer you to get hammered with them

    All of my best regulars were like that and I HATED it! I did it only for the money. I hate drinking, not to mention I'm not supposed to very often. A big reason I quit dancing.

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    I used to have a customer who would come in and want me to drink with him. He didn't buy dances... but he'd pay me to sit with him + tip me whenever he tipped the bartender.
    We were always sitting right AT the bar, so no chance of getting non-alcoholic drinks without him seeing. And the more you drank, the more money for the bartender AND for me.

    I'd make crazy amounts of money off him, but I'd seriously have to go in the back and puke once an hour to keep drinking.


    Some guys just want a 'hot girl drinking buddy'
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    Default Re: some guys perfer you to get hammered with them

    Like DesuvsDeath said, it sounds like the experience he wants to buy in the club isn't an experience you want to sell. If you're set on not drinking at work, you have to think of him the way you think of any otherwise decent customer with habits/attitudes/fetishes that you don't feel like handling at work. Do any of your more trustworthy co-strippers have high alcohol tolerances? Maybe you can "trade him" for one of their customers or a favor in the future.
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    Default Re: some guys perfer you to get hammered with them

    We offer lapdances, but customers rarely want dances. They mainly come in to get wasted with whichever girls they are sitting with and watch the stage show. Actually, there are plenty of customers out here who would rather buy a $350 bottle of champagne or drink instead of doing a lapdance.
    You could always get something with almost no alcohol in it if you still want to drink but want to take it easy?

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    Quote Originally Posted by UwishUknewhy View Post
    Maybe you could ask for virgin drinks. I always would order shots of "tequila" but asked the waitress to put water in it and hand it specifically to me. This way I could appear as if I am drinking but only consume water or sprite. There are plenty of drinks you could order that have no alcohol in it. Vodka and sprite minus the vodka.

    Just remember to act like you are shit faced and that the shots taste horrible!
    This is what I'd also suggest-then he can still drink and enjoy your time and company and you can still "drink" & entertain your thirsty regular without feeling hungover the next day.

    If some nights you do decide to keep drinking with your custy then ordering drinks with a very low percentage of alcohol in them and taking your time to finish them will also help.

    Many girls I work with often order a glass of tap water with their drinks, or in between drinks. And some even order a bottle a sparkling water for the table. A girl I know with many reg's like this carries around a bottle of water with her all night, to minimize the effects, and this seems to at least help her (isn't the most glamorous accessory though lol). If you get desperate there's also always the option of emptying drinks at the bar/in the bathroom on your way to the DR/bathroom/before going on stage etc (if you can/do leave the show/table while he is there). Many girls at my club also do this (but if he's your reg' he may just buy you a new one as soon as the old one is empty so that might not be the best idea).
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    I once has a customer that wanted to get me drunk in order to take me to the CR. It sounded too fishy the fact that he wanted me drunk b4 getting the champagne. While he went to the bar to get us beer, another dancer approached me and told me that he likes girls drunk so he can take them to the CR to abuse them. So, knowing that, I planned something; everytime he turned around, went to the rest room or went to tip a girl on stage, I will pour beer in the floor (the club was dark, and it was in the opposite side, he never saw that). Around the "4th" beer, he though I was wasted (I pretend I was), so he took me to the CR.

    That other dancer was totally right; since I was completely sober, I intercepted his move, and left the CR. The VIP/CR host gave HIM (not me) the remaining money (we were in the CR for less than ten minutes, so I only kept like 50 bucks, and the sleazy customer got 200 dollars out of the 300).

    In another club I've worked, the girls who made all the money were the ones who were wasted all the time. I understand some guys thinking that having a female drinking buddy is sexy (like someone said above), but sometimes, the dancers who do that look really stupid and at the end of the night, the complain that they're broke...yeah, broke because of the alcohol!!!!!





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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    I used to have a customer who would come in and want me to drink with him. He didn't buy dances... but he'd pay me to sit with him + tip me whenever he tipped the bartender.
    We were always sitting right AT the bar, so no chance of getting non-alcoholic drinks without him seeing. And the more you drank, the more money for the bartender AND for me.

    I'd make crazy amounts of money off him, but I'd seriously have to go in the back and puke once an hour to keep drinking.


    Some guys just want a 'hot girl drinking buddy'
    OMG that's horrible. WTF? Puking? I feel that some of these guys do this on purpose.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    I once has a customer that wanted to get me drunk in order to take me to the CR. It sounded too fishy the fact that he wanted me drunk b4 getting the champagne. While he went to the bar to get us beer, another dancer approached me and told me that he likes girls drunk so he can take them to the CR to abuse them. So, knowing that, I planned something; everytime he turned around, went to the rest room or went to tip a girl on stage, I will pour beer in the floor (the club was dark, and it was in the opposite side, he never saw that). Around the "4th" beer, he though I was wasted (I pretend I was), so he took me to the CR.

    That other dancer was totally right; since I was completely sober, I intercepted his move, and left the CR. The VIP/CR host gave HIM (not me) the remaining money (we were in the CR for less than ten minutes, so I only kept like 50 bucks, and the sleazy customer got 200 dollars out of the 300).

    In another club I've worked, the girls who made all the money were the ones who were wasted all the time. I understand some guys thinking that having a female drinking buddy is sexy (like someone said above), but sometimes, the dancers who do that look really stupid and at the end of the night, the complain that they're broke...yeah, broke because of the alcohol!!!!!
    Wait so this guy was trying to get you drunk to beat you up? Or was he trying to rape some poor girl.

    Wow these guys sounds like some really sick bastards. Then again it makes me see that these guys have been doing this in the real world for a while. Getting women drunk and then trying to force themselves on them. If she's drunk then she'll look like she's the out of control one.

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    I have quite a few customers like this... I don't get totally blind that easily though so its not really a huge problem for me. One of them never ever takes girls who don't drink for shows and admits that even though he's my regular if I didn't drink he would not be interested at all. Some guys go there to have fun and unwind and don't care about the dances and who wants to party with someone who is sober? In my experience these guys spend more money but could just also be the type of customer I attract because I can drink and party but without getting too messy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    OMG that's horrible. WTF? Puking? I feel that some of these guys do this on purpose.
    Well it wasn't like "Omg I'm so drunk I'm puking and they're still serving me... more like... 'holy shit there is so much fluid in me there's no more room for more" puking.
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    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    ^ I don't think they do that on purpose either. They prob need to puke too but just don't tell u cause theyre trying to look cool haha

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    My best regular is the drinking type. We always do champagne room (but we both hate champagne) so he orders shots instead. We get drunk, watch you tube videos on our phones, talk about music and art. Cuddle and flirt. $1200-$1500. Every Monday night. Paid to drink and chill...I'm willing to sell that. Lol

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    ^^^ thats like a perfect regular x

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