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    Default Ladies - how old is too old

    Age came up in another thread in this forum (http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=159312). I've been to clubs and seen some old, even elderly men. I am not one to judge, but that did get me thinking that personally at some age I will stop going for no other reason than my own comfort level.

    But I was curious to hear from some of the dancers and former dancers on this forum; in your opinion, how old is too old?

    How do you react when you see someone too old come to the club, especially if they take an interest in you - by interest, I mean wanting dances within the confines of the club; not speaking romantic or OTC interest.

    BTW: I am not asking because I'm old... But I'm also not getting any younger... I really just am curious.
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    I may not be a club dancer but know quite a few and you're never too old to be a customer. You're money is welcomed as long as you're respectful. I believe this goes for a man at any age.

    Now I looked at the forum post you linked which was "Hating men". Not sure why you would feel connected to that post in some way unless you've done something specifically disrespectful to a dancer. If that's not you then have fun spending with the lovely ladies of the club.

    At first the forum post I thought you were referring to was this one : http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=159387

    Now the part about "taking an interest" I'm not sure If you mean romantically or if you're talking about for an LD or a VIP or just tipping the dancer.

    If it's to partake in the fun activities being offered at the SC like stage dances, Ld's and VIP's then again the ladies are there for that and will welcome you.

    If you're there trying to find a romantic connection, lover, girlfriend or the like then the post I've attached would give you more insight into how younger women feel about older men hitting on them .Whether they be a dancer or not, the views expressed seem to be on the same page.

    Hope this helps and again please don't feel your age has any impact on how you're treated in the SC. If you're there for the entertainment then continue to enjoy.

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    If you could have given birth to them, that has always been my cut off. Up or down, same number of years. For example, I married my first husband, he was 13 years older. At that age, anything 13 years younger, would have been a toddler. Now 13 years younger is kind of okay. Now 13 years older, well are they still alive?

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    My observations tell me the general consensus was 'the older the better' as long as the money was there. My friends found older guys less likely to be trouble in virtually any regard and less likely to be encountered outside work.
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    As long as you're respectful, it really doesn't matter. I personally liked older guys at the club better than younger guys, because younger guys like to sit there and freeload while telling you that they don't pay strippers for what they can "get for free." Older guys understand they're at the club for a reason, and are more likely to be less handsy. I've mostly had good experiences with older men at the club - there is only one creepy, old man perv that sticks out in my mind. As long as you don't act like him, your age as a customer doesn't matter.

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    No age limit, period.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    Now I looked at the forum post you linked which was "Hating men". Not sure why you would feel connected to that post in some way unless you've done something specifically disrespectful to a dancer. If that's not you then have fun spending with the lovely ladies of the club.
    In that thread, a 20 year old cam girl (not a dancer) said that she looked 16 and she thought it was perverted and sick that men in their 30's and 40's were attracted to her.

    No matter how young she looks, i believe girl's ages are vetted and verified vigorously - so men usually safely assume that the girls are at least over 18, or even over 21, depending on local laws.

    Also, it seems to me that if you find that sickening, then you are probably in the wrong line of work. I would say that the majority of men make the bulk of their money in their 30's & 40's.

    It just made me curious - nothing beyond that.

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    I too thought you were referring to the thread I posted because I am repulsed by much older men hitting on me. I am 40, and for some reason doing online dating I get a lot of 60+ men wanting to date me, while the guys my age often chase after women in their 20's-early 30's. I don't get this because I look good for my age, don't have a lot of baggage for my age and am self supporting. Men my age often use the excuse they don't date women my age because of the biological clock, not realizing that most 40 year old women are still fertile, not all 25 year olds are, and there's also adoption. I've even seen this with guys who don't want kids, so they are using it as an excuse. As far as I'm concerned these guys deserve to be screwed over. Ironically, in real life I get hit on often by younger men who think I am the same age as them.

    However, club wise I always preferred older customers. They usually have more money to spend and are more likely to want someone to talk to then look for sex. Many of them had unhappy marriages or even going through divorces and just wanted to have fun without sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    ...unless you've done something specifically disrespectful to a dancer.
    I would never do that... I'm one of the good guys, we actually do exist.

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    I prefer the older guys too - they're not as cocky and immature as the younger guys (20's and early 30's), and they definitely have more money to spend. They also appreciate dancers more - especially the married guys. Anything from 37 to late fifties, and in some cases, even early 60's is just fine.

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    I guess I'm odd because I prefer dancing for younger men. At my club, the young locals tend to be the most respectful and the easiest to get dances out of. Maybe it's just me, but all the 40+ crowd at my club are always trying to pull out their dicks or groping where they shouldn't be, and want me to sit and talk with them for ages without tipping. No thanks.

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    Most of the dancers I talk to are grossed out by old guys, but tolerate it because that is where the moolah usually comes from.

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    Quote Originally Posted by that.guy.in.la View Post
    In that thread, a 20 year old cam girl (not a dancer) said that she looked 16 and she thought it was perverted and sick that men in their 30's and 40's were attracted to her.

    No matter how young she looks, i believe girl's ages are vetted and verified vigorously - so men usually safely assume that the girls are at least over 18, or even over 21, depending on local laws.

    Also, it seems to me that if you find that sickening, then you are probably in the wrong line of work. I would say that the majority of men make the bulk of their money in their 30's & 40's.

    It just made me curious - nothing beyond that.
    Well you wanted to know how old is too old but you said if the person has "interest". I asked what did you mean by interest? I never heard anything after that.

    A man is never too old to spend money at an SC. Remember it's fantasy so who cares how old you are. If you're respectful the fine.

    Now when it comes to REAL LIFE. Or what you said by being "interested". That's when I thought ooh he wants to know if she would date him. So generally NO. Typically if women in the real world are not running down the street after the average 50+ year old then same applies to women everywhere. What I said was repulsive is men that age hitting on women much younger and the thread I attached showed that most dancers are repulsed by that.

    About me being in the wrong line of work? Umm yeah you're right. I don't dance so this isn't my specific field of work. Remember as long as you're paying I don't care if you have one foot in the grave and nor do any other dancers as long as you're respectful. Remember cash doesn't discriminate.

    So to answer your question. You're never to old to pay for an LD.

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    Im not going to say no to a customer if he's polite and is paying, but it does kinda gross me out when guys are say over 70... especially when it seems they are always the ones to say the most disgusting crap. "mmm how old are you 18? Id lick your pussy all night and you'd love that wouldn't you".... ewwww! You are 100... then the thought of their poor elderly wife pops into my head and I feel bad cause how can they compete? Guys older than me up to 60ish don't bother me at all. I usually prefer older guys just not like grandpa old.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    Well you wanted to know how old is too old but you said if the person has "interest". I asked what did you mean by interest? I never heard anything after that.

    A man is never too old to spend money at an SC. Remember it's fantasy so who cares how old you are. If you're respectful the fine.

    Now when it comes to REAL LIFE. Or what you said by being "interested". That's when I thought ooh he wants to know if she would date him. So generally NO. Typically if women in the real world are not running down the street after the average 50+ year old then same applies to women everywhere. What I said was repulsive is men that age hitting on women much younger and the thread I attached showed that most dancers are repulsed by that.

    About me being in the wrong line of work? Umm yeah you're right. I don't dance so this isn't my specific field of work. Remember as long as you're paying I don't care if you have one foot in the grave and nor do any other dancers as long as you're respectful. Remember cash doesn't discriminate.

    So to answer your question. You're never to old to pay for an LD.
    I had a feeling he was indirectly asking if dancers were turned on by much older men and would want to date them. Why do men in general think much younger women want to date them? I'll never understand this at all because no way would I date a much older man, and when I lurk at the dating sites with the guys wanting much younger (though they are repulsive)I just laugh.

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    ^ I don't know what the hell guys are thinking most of the time. A lot of girls have no confidence and so many guys have way too much. I went out on friday with my hubby and all these disgusting young and old guys were hitting on me and he was laughing his ass off. "What the hell do they think? Your way out of their league".. its like they don't have any shame.

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    ^ I agree. I noticed he seemed to kinda attack me about being in the wrong line of work as if cam girl/dancer/PSO/escort/IM tease lol etc find men to be attractive differently. Like do my eyes not work because I'm camming or something? MONEY IS GOOD . MONEY GETS TAKEN FROM ALL PEOPLE REGARDLESS OR AGE, RACE, SEX OR SOCIAL STATUS. SO OLD IS GOOD , YOUNG IS GOOD, MIDDLE AGED IS GOOD, GUY WITH NO TEETH IS GOOD. PAYING IS ALL THAT MATTERS.

    INTEREST?? She has no interest in you other then you spending. Not sure why this question keeps being asked in weird ways as if the outcome of the answer is supposed to change. Also why did he bite my head off for stating the truth? I mean does he care who hands him his paycheck? If he gets his check from an old woman will he refuse it? Say nope I will not accept that check unless it's from the cute girl that wears the short skirts in accounting? Come on now
    1. GREEN IS GOOD. NO ONE CARES ABOUT YOUR AGE AS LONG AS YOU'RE RESPECTFUL. SINCE YOU ARE THEN YOU SHOULD HAVE A BLAST WELL INTO YOUR 80'S!

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    ok maybe not 80 then lol

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    This guy reminds me of a former friend. This guy was as repulsive as one could get: obese, smelly, ugly, nasty personality, dirty clothes, unemployed at 40 (and this was when the economy was great)and stupid. Just a disgusting 40 year old guy. He decided to place a dating ad and he was looking for a 18-25 blonde woman with big boobs and skinny body and a great job. When I told him he was unrealistic he said that's what he wanted. Need I mention he got no responses? While surfing online I found out he's 50 now and STILL single. This guy has nothing to offer a woman yet he thinks he's all that.

    I don't mind when decent looking guys my age or younger hit on me but am repulsed by older men, especially when they are gross. I have big boobs, which makes these morons even more likely to say sexual things. I expect it while dancing but at a regular store or somewhere normal I am upset.

    I always used to tell men I danced with I was attracted only to green men, as in if you pay me in the club I'll pretend to be interested. Outside of the club no way.

    Btw, what's with all these guys who think any of us would even consider them for spending money? Why do losers think this? Money matters only in cases of being paid, but dating it shouldn't. My faves are the guys who don't even spend money but expect dates. You wouldn't believe the guys in non stripping situations who think they have a chance.

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    Default Re: Ladies - how old is too old

    How do you react when you see someone too old come to the club
    If they are too old to come to the club, how did they manage to get in in the first place?

    The owner of the last club I worked at was 93.

    Hugh Hefner was born in 1926.

    How old is too old to live?

    I hope no one judges you when you're old.




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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    Well you wanted to know how old is too old but you said if the person has "interest". I asked what did you mean by interest? I never heard anything after that....So to answer your question. You're never to old to pay for an LD.
    Sorry, I amended my post clarify, didn't realize you wouldn't see it. Totally talking about visiting, not dating.

    Thanks for the response.

    Quote Originally Posted by cherryblossomsinspring View Post
    ^ I agree. I noticed he seemed to kinda attack me
    That was not directed at you in any way - sorry if you thought that. I was talking about the girl in her 20's who said that it disgusts her that guys in their 30's or 40's are attracted to her.

    The one downside of forums like these is the written word can sometimes take a context the writer never intended and that was the case here.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I had a feeling he was indirectly asking if dancers were turned on by much older men and would want to date them.
    I am solely talking about coming in as a customer - also I'm not that old yet... I'm younger than Brad Pitt and older than Ryan Reynolds... ;-D and while no one would mistake me for Brad or Ryan, I am by no means repulsive.

    I saw an elderly gent at a club a while ago and it just got me thinking. So I thought I'd ask.


    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    Why do men in general think much younger women want to date them?
    In my experience, quite a few of them do - within reason. The biggest age gap I've dated was 12 years. We were together for over a year and were very good together.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    This guy reminds me of a former friend. This guy was as repulsive as one could get: obese, smelly, ugly, nasty personality, dirty clothes, unemployed at 40 (and this was when the economy was great)and stupid.
    Are you saying that I remind you of this person? In what way?

    I am not sure why this thread became a "pile on the OP" party all of a sudden. I was simply curious if age mattered to the dancers out of curiosity.

    I apologize to anyone who thought I was attacking them. Somehow this thread went seriously awry, I was asking because I know in my mind I have my personal "expiration date" - the age at which a club is not a viable option for me. I was just curious how it was from a dancer's perspective when older gentlemen came to the club
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    Quote Originally Posted by that.guy.in.la View Post
    I saw an elderly gent at a club a while ago and it just got me thinking. So I thought I'd ask.

    Quote Originally Posted by that.guy.in.la View Post
    I apologize to anyone who thought I was attacking them. Somehow this thread went seriously awry, I was asking because I know in my mind I have my "expiration date" - the age at which a club is not a viable option for me. I was just curious how it was from a dancer's perspective when older gentlemen came to the club
    I am confident that no matter how far past ones "expiration date" they may be, there will be some young dancer in enough need of money that she will "take one for the team" and be willing to give a dance to an elderly customer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by snowcake View Post
    ...the 40+ crowd at my club are always trying to pull out their dicks or groping where they shouldn't be...
    OMG! That's just gross at any age...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stripper Hacks View Post
    If they are too old to come to the club, how did they manage to get in in the first place?

    The owner of the last club I worked at was 93.

    Hugh Hefner was born in 1926.

    How old is too old to live?

    I hope no one judges you when you're old.
    Great perspective. You're right, who am I to judge what is "too old" - although, in my defense, I meant when someone the dancer thinks is too old.

    In either case, it's still a great point!

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    if they cannot pull money out of their own wallet they are too old.
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