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    I have a couple of regular guys who take me into long privates and want me to question them. The aim of this is to apparently ask them embarrassing questions which make them feel powerless until they finally submit to me and are willing to do anything. The problem is, i don't know what to ask them. After the first 10 or so questions that i can think of like did you ever masturbate over a teacher, did your parents catch you wanking etc etc, i run out of ideas and have no idea what to ask. Sometimes it seems like i've asked a hundred (lame) questions, and they still want more. Someone later in this thread mentioned that it might be interrogation play, buti looked that up and while interesting, it's mostly about roleplays involving CIA/ secret organisations trying to uncover information etc, and that's not really quite what these guys seem to be into. Where can i find information on this particular kink - i.e. being questioned over and over and made to feel embarrassed/ ashamed etc?
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    Default Re: Guys that are into questioning, wtf

    Ok I'm thinking these are the possiblities:

    1 Subs wanting to be financially drained.
    2 Weird old guys that need you to describe your experiences to get off. The regular nudity just doesn't do it for them. They want phone sex with a woman without worrying about her being 500 lbs with 10 kids saying she's 21 and a size 2.
    3 Prepaying for pussy types. These guys feel after they've spent enough money with your clothes on that you'll eventually meet them for free to take them off
    4 Sugar Daddy looking for a sugar baby.
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    Default Re: Guys that are into questioning, wtf

    I am fairly new to the whole camming thing and I now have a reg that does this to. I have know idea why. He just likes to talk and have me ask him questions about his experiences. If I can get more regs like him, that would be great lol.

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    I understand what you mean, REALLY, but....are you tired of them? Send them to me, lol. I would love to have hour long pvts, I mean, make money out of hour long pvts, just to talk to some idiot.

    I do have a few guys that take me private for a good while just to talk and don't even want me to take my clothes off (and sometimes times the talk is not even sexual), but I never got a full hour out of them.

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    Default Re: Guys that are into questioning, wtf

    I have a few like this also and while I can't say that I hate it or that I wish I didn't have these customers, it does kind of slow down my momentum, ya know? It can be hard to get back into the groove after a one hour private of just talking. BUT, I would rather have that private than not.

    But I do feel ya! I always run out of things to say and feel kind of stupid because I'm like uh... what do I say now? I prefer not to talk overall if I can avoid it because I never know what to say!

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    I'd think this was a total blessing for an hour long private. Yes, it's hard, but you've said that you know these guys come in every week. You could treat it like a game of 20 questions. Not sure what site you're on with this, but wrong answers equals tips maybe. I'd make up a list of questions and just use it for both guys. Make notes for yourself. Then you have something to build off of for the next week, etc.

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    Default Re: Guys that are into questioning, wtf

    I wish I had these guys in my room. Haha!

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    Default Re: Guys that are into questioning, wtf

    the second sounds like he's into interrogation play... witch can be a lot of fun, do a bit of research it will go along way and he will love it=)

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    Default Re: Guys that are into questioning, wtf

    I have had guys like this before too. Actually one fairly recently that came into my room 3 days in a row, for over an hour or so, problem is that site was an hourly pay site, and the hourly rate is not very good. If it was on MFC or any other site, I would milk it lol. I LOVE those types of chats when the money is better, but for the $8 bucks I made for an hour talking to this one guy three days in a row, I wanted to pull my hair out. I asked him a bunch of questions, and he just answered, and occaionally would talk for more than two seconds. We had nothing in common, he is a outdoor type of guy, redneck type I would say, likes hunting and fishing....yeah I can't think of things to say either, but I try my best to ask a million questions. I have had other guys in the past that were more fun to talk too, and didn't want shows, one in particular was actually pretty good looking, married, and talked to me when his wife was out, I didn't have to do anything. Just sit and look pretty and he would tell me about his life, and I would listen. He was easier for me to deal with. I don't mind talking for hours as long as they aren't quiet the whole time. Trying to pull teeth to get a conversation out of someone is NOT fun. Just enjoy it though, money is money, take it how you can get it. If that's what they like, just go with it. Maybe ask him about books, movies, hobbies, relationships. Think of stuff.

    Enjoy it while it lasts. I hope I get some of those in the near future. The ones that talk back to me that is lol.




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    Default Re: Guys that are into questioning, wtf

    I need guys like these LOL.



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    Thank you ladies, all this is really helping, and yes, making me realize how lucky i am too I know it sounds like i'm complaining, but really it just makes me feel a little uncomfortable. It's like you have to share more of yourself with these types. When you're talking to them for that long they get to see your facial expressions, the way you move, your idiosyncrasies.. it's like they're "getting to know you"... ugh *shudder*. I also feel like i'm being put ont he spot. To be fair i have told both guys that i am not experienced in fetish, if they want something, they have to lead me into it & we can explore together. I have a feeling that my "freshness" and inexperience is part of what keeps them coming back.

    Interrogation play, ahhhh that's what it is! I will definitely do some research. Making notes is something i really need to do lol.

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    OK I just looked up interrogation play but that mostly relates to secret organisation/ spy/ CIA roleplays etc. My guys are specifically interested in being forced to answer questions about embarrassing/ shameful/ uncomfortable situations/ wants/ needs etc. Is there anywhere i can find more information about this particular kink? Does it even have a name?

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    Default Re: Shameful questions fetish?

    i have seen and hear of some less based on CIA and spy's and more based on getting someone to break down and admit something shameful and punishment for not liking the answer... Like one i specifically remember was a lady who was slapping a guy across the face over and over trying to make him admit that his nice guy act was just a facade and that he was really just a horn dog and using the nice guy act to get laid...
    But i have to say if these guys keep coming back you must be doing something they enjoy so keep up the good work

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    Haha I know but i don't know what it is!!!!! lol. I can't help but second guess myself after the millionth lame question, with me sitting on the bed in exactly the same position as 30 mins before, while there is total silence from his end....

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    I used to interrogate a guy who had served in Vietnam - i had him sit in a chair on a table and would ask him a variety of questions about the things he had done wrong -as i walked around him - i would tell him the punishment ( number of times i would hit him ) for each confession as we went - when he ran out of confessions i would tye him to an old console style stereo with mirrors set up so he could watch - he always had an assortment of items for me to rotate beating him with - hair brushes , skillets , coaxil cable , etc... he "confessed " to some pretty awful things that he carried alot of guilt for - many times he would cry during the interrogation - alot of the questions were the same each week so dont get to hung up on being repetitive - some of them like that - the suggestion to keep notes is good and also the punishment with tokens - or gifts to send you - he may like being blackmailed with all of the confessions he has made to you -

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