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    Default New camgirl, also a mom, HELP! *lots of questions*

    I started camming almost exactly a month ago.
    I'm on naked.com.
    I'm a single mom to my 15 month old son but his dad gets him every other day (3 days a week).
    On days when my son is with me I can only get in 3 hours of cam, if that.
    Since I have limited time that I can cam how can I make the most of it and make sure I'm getting enough privates?

    The only toy I have right now is a vibrator :/ i started with no toys lol...what are the "essential"/basic toys I need to have?

    I have a little tummy (I had a c-section with my son) what are the best angles to hide my "c section flap"? I've been wearing a low cut cami in free but that is getting old.

    How do you girls lure guys into privates? What seems to always work? (On Naked you get tipped in free but most of the money is in private chat)

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    Default Re: New camgirl, also a mom, HELP! *lots of questions*

    -sign up for at least a couple more sites (do a search here to find some more options that appeal to you and your style)

    -try using manycam (a free downloadable program) to split-cam (stream to two sites at once), especially on days when you have your son and your time on cam is constrained

    -really do a thorough search of sw. Scroll through camming connection and read every thread that piques your interest...lots of tips on how to deal with beggars, how to maximize privates, etc. Take notes, real talk

    -a simple dildo is a good place to start, in regards to equipment, and lube

    -to conceal your tummy, maybe try a simple garter belt, or tie a scarf around your lower waist as part of your outfit...but honestly, I wouldn't stress about that too much there are guys out there for women of all shapes and sizes...you being confident in your appearance is WAY more important in regards to making $$$, so choose your outfits with that in mind (ie; does this make ME feel sexy)

    -make sure you don't accidentally sign up with a studio (other than Daily Pay), lots of resources here to avoid that pitfall, and when in doubt, ask!

    -think about passive earning options such as selling pic sets, videos/clips (you'll find alot of info about that kinda thang here too)

    peace, good luck and $$$$

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    Default Re: New camgirl, also a mom, HELP! *lots of questions*

    Quote Originally Posted by loveshooks View Post
    -sign up for at least a couple more sites (do a search here to find some more options that appeal to you and your style)

    -try using manycam (a free downloadable program) to split-cam (stream to two sites at once), especially on days when you have your son and your time on cam is constrained

    -really do a thorough search of sw. Scroll through camming connection and read every thread that piques your interest...lots of tips on how to deal with beggars, how to maximize privates, etc. Take notes, real talk

    -a simple dildo is a good place to start, in regards to equipment, and lube

    -to conceal your tummy, maybe try a simple garter belt, or tie a scarf around your lower waist as part of your outfit...but honestly, I wouldn't stress about that too much there are guys out there for women of all shapes and sizes...you being confident in your appearance is WAY more important in regards to making $$$, so choose your outfits with that in mind (ie; does this make ME feel sexy)

    -make sure you don't accidentally sign up with a studio (other than Daily Pay), lots of resources here to avoid that pitfall, and when in doubt, ask!

    -think about passive earning options such as selling pic sets, videos/clips (you'll find alot of info about that kinda thang here too)

    peace, good luck and $$$$


    hmmm Im liking that split cam idea. So I log into both sites Im on then launch splitcam or launch splitcam and do it all from there? (m probably getting ahead of myself but still lol) I just messaged naked asking if im allowed to work with other sites at the same time but they havent responded...I was told that since i cant dedicate a lot of time to camming that streammate would be a good option for me...

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    Default Re: New camgirl, also a mom, HELP! *lots of questions*

    I'm not sure what the exact procedure is for streaming to two sites through manycam, but I'm sure someone here can give you the specifics...if I find a specific thread that shows the process I'll post it here

    *edit once you've downloaded manycam, you just select it as your cam option when adjusting your settings (on each site, as you're preparing to start streaming on each site)


    about asking permission, though...I wouldn't bother...as long as you're following the rules of each site, whether or not you split cam is nobody's business but yours...you're still 'live' on each site you're working, so I can't even see any personal ethical quandries being involved either

    sm is definitely one option, but look around at other sites too, as everybody's 'best' site is unique to their preferences and strengths It nevr hurts to have more than a couple of options, particularly when you're just starting out
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    Default Re: New camgirl, also a mom, HELP! *lots of questions*

    I have 4 boys.
    Usually I focus alot on making videos for clip stores because I know my time is limited on live cam and then I have alittle income coming in without me having to do much.

    I also use splitcam and work multiple sites.

    As for the tummy issue..I defeinately have one. I had 4 c-sections. I typically never get completely nude. My solution is I just always keep my skirt on.

    I've been doing cam for 9 years and I've never had anyone complain about this. Why would they tho really. They can still see everything they need to see with my skirt hiked up.So it's not like the privates are hidden. Only my tummy is.

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    I've had 3 c-sections and most guys don't really care. It's all about how you move to hide it really. I do get completely nude sometimes I start in bra and panties, other times a tanks and panties. I just angle cam to miss the lower part of my stomach in free.

    As for reading the threads that peak your interest I've found that I will at least skim everything because we tend to go on tangents in the threads here a lot and some stuff I never would have learned if I didn't read everything.

    About split camming the sites will tell you no, but when you get a private on one site you just pause/stop your show on the other unless you are in nude chat where the members have to pay to come in depending on the site you're working.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ElianaIsis View Post
    I've had 3 c-sections and most guys don't really care. It's all about how you move to hide it really. I do get completely nude sometimes I start in bra and panties, other times a tanks and panties. I just angle cam to miss the lower part of my stomach in free.

    As for reading the threads that peak your interest I've found that I will at least skim everything because we tend to go on tangents in the threads here a lot and some stuff I never would have learned if I didn't read everything.

    About split camming the sites will tell you no, but when you get a private on one site you just pause/stop your show on the other unless you are in nude chat where the members have to pay to come in depending on the site you're working.
    what are the sites that pay you as soon as you log on?
    because like i said im with naked.com right now and its getting tiring trying to get prvts and tips :/

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    Quote Originally Posted by msmochaxx View Post
    what are the sites that pay you as soon as you log on?
    because like i said im with naked.com right now and its getting tiring trying to get prvts and tips :/
    It's not that you're getting paid just to log on, it's that you're sitting in what's called "paid chat". This means when a guy is interested he goes private right away rather than you having to sit and interact in free chat. Basically you can be doing other things until someone comes into your room and know that they're already paying, but I'd think you had better have good pics to peak interest and a killer bio.

    Here's the thread:
    http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=159919&highlight=indy+listing+sit es

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    Default Re: New camgirl, also a mom, HELP! *lots of questions*

    Another c-section tip is to wear the tank top but take the straps down when in private chats so the tank top hides your tummy area. I do this a lot to hide my c-section scar.

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    Default Re: New camgirl, also a mom, HELP! *lots of questions*

    Haha I thought we were trying to hide the tummy,not just the scar...alittle tank top would never do it for me...hence why I just keep the skirt on.


    Maybe I just read it wrong.
    Feel like I need to go work out now...lol

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    For me it's not the scar that I'm self conscious about it's the area right above it from the way the the skin sits on top of the tight part. So it definitely is the tummy area and not the nearly invisible scar.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ElianaIsis View Post
    For me it's not the scar that I'm self conscious about it's the area right above it from the way the the skin sits on top of the tight part. So it definitely is the tummy area and not the nearly invisible scar.
    yea its that part that i want to hide...i call it my c section flap lol

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    Ya, it's an unfortunate side effect from them repositioning the fat and muscle layer. It's nearly impossible to get rid of too.

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