Gahh I'm so frustrated right now. I just texted my what used to be BFF since she's my ex-boyfriends live in girlfriend and I wanted to pick up my son. She responds "Don't talk to me, talk to ----, he's not my kid.
It started a year ago. After putting up with years of abuse, both physical, verbal, and sexual I finally get the balls to dump my babies father and to call the police the next two times he assaulted me. Shortly after I start dating my now fiance, a month later my best friend has it listed on her facebook that she's in a relationship with my ex.
Our son goes between the two of us, with alot of difficulty considering theres a PPO in effect and neither me nor my ex can have contact (although he stills calls, and talks to me if he sees me in court and even watched my cam and paid for shows without me knowing a few times.) CREEPER.
If my ex is angry with me over the whole domestic violence court dates he dosn't let me see my son for weeks (police don't do shit in Michigan if there's no custody agreement in place) and I would do anything just to have my own place and have my son living permanently with me, but it's sort of hard to do when I'm living out of a hotel. Now this bitch takes his side, refuses to believe he ever laid a hand on me even though she's seen bruises and he just plead "no contest" (which is equivalent to pleading guilty) to a domestic violence case involving me. On top of that she calls me and my fiance pathetic and accuses us of doing drugs (which we dont, would love to take a drug test to prove it) and calls me an slut and an "internet prostitute" for camming and the most pathetic mother she's ever known because i can't afford to take care of my own kid which sucks but she's just as pathetic when she brought her 1 year old infant into a relationship with my ex knowing he had pending domestic violence charges and is basically living off him. Ugh I feel like crying My life is crumbling. :/
I just want to have more money, get my kid back 24/7, and not have to deal with shitty people anymore.



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. enroll in one college class. take a parenting class though social services. start going to church so you can get a letter of your good character from the deacon to give to the family court judge ( an atheist friend of mine did this and the judge bought it hook line and sinker). Also consider finding a square job even if only part time (walmart or sonic for example) just so you will be able to show the family court judge that you are not web camming anymore this just in case ur ex tries to use the webcamming against you in court to get full custody. Consider calling child protective sevices on your ex and his girlfriend. report any and all things they do to endanger their kids. shut down your facebook and change your webcamming name if you can so he cannot get proof of you webcamming to use against you in family court. Good luck!!


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