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    Default "Golddigging" ITC - How to do it?

    I often see girls getting nice gifts (computer, jewellery or just some lingerie) from custies, or telling me that they needed $600 or similar for rent or to get their car fixed but no worries as they got a guy to write a cheque for it.

    I also struggle to get regulars, even though I'm sociable, smile a lot, and give very sexy dances (according to my one-off custies.) So I do pretty well on weekends when it's packed, but on weeknights regulars make a huuuuge difference, especially in my club.


    It kinda baffles me how they go about getting it. I don't think some of these girls are that much prettier or better than me. It's definitely in the hustle. Do I need learn how to act more entitled and like a spoilt princess? This has definitely been a steep learning curve for me in this job - OTC I don't even like dates to buy me drinks unless it's my birthday or similar. Or ... I'm stumped!

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    Default Re: "Golddigging" ITC - How to do it?

    BIG BUMP i also want to know!!

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    Default Re: "Golddigging" ITC - How to do it?

    I hate to say it but I don't think anyone is going to give up that type of information, for free any way.




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    Just ask for it! Whatever you want from your customers......
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    You can say that again.. not just on here but men in general. Guys are so damn lame, the only way they can halfway make up for it is by opening their wallets.

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    Quote Originally Posted by melb_oz_n00b View Post
    I often see girls getting nice gifts (computer, jewellery or just some lingerie) from custies, or telling me that they needed $600 or similar for rent or to get their car fixed but no worries as they got a guy to write a cheque for it.

    I also struggle to get regulars, even though I'm sociable, smile a lot, and give very sexy dances (according to my one-off custies.) So I do pretty well on weekends when it's packed, but on weeknights regulars make a huuuuge difference, especially in my club.


    It kinda baffles me how they go about getting it. I don't think some of these girls are that much prettier or better than me. It's definitely in the hustle. Do I need learn how to act more entitled and like a spoilt princess? This has definitely been a steep learning curve for me in this job - OTC I don't even like dates to buy me drinks unless it's my birthday or similar. Or ... I'm stumped!
    1.) She asks for it with 100% confidence like she deserves it and its no big deal. She also has the "party girl" fun vibe and he desperately doesn't want to kill that vibe so he gives her exactly what she asks. She has psychologically tricked him into associating her with fun, and fun is what he is after since he probably is a business man with a non-fun, stressful job.

    2.) That girl is totally the regular's ideal type of girl and she has what he fetishizes (ex.: big boobs, long dark hair and light eyes, is russian, etc. -- whatever it is), so he feel like he can't say no because he thinks he can *buy* her love eventually. Also, typically she is a perfect 10 with a low BMI -- perfect at least in his eyes.

    3.) She implies (or actually goes on) dates with him, as well as implying he has a future chance with her... saying stupid phrases like "of course, baby! but you know ive been burned before, so I need to trust you first!" or something over and over

    I've noticed those 3 things over and over again.

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    its just game girl. its getting them to think you like them and going for the kill after that. but like the above was stated you need to be their type. either that or you stumble upon some lonely guy who has it to spend.

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    As far as getting regulars, do you have a work number you give out (if you are allowed to give one out)?
    I've found that this really helps me get regulars. I use Google Voice, it's free, and I have an app that lets me receive and send text messages using my Google Voice number from my regular cell phone (but they never see my real number). It also lets you block numbers, in case someone starts harassing you.

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    Just set this up. Thanks a mil!

    Quote Originally Posted by sierra. View Post
    As far as getting regulars, do you have a work number you give out (if you are allowed to give one out)?
    I've found that this really helps me get regulars. I use Google Voice, it's free, and I have an app that lets me receive and send text messages using my Google Voice number from my regular cell phone (but they never see my real number). It also lets you block numbers, in case someone starts harassing you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    Just ask for it! Whatever you want from your customers......
    Yeah. I worked at a club that had a little store attached and the girls would all pick things out at the beginning of the night that they planned to ask customers for. Not even necessarily regular customers, but some guys feel funny about spending money on VIPs but if you say oh there's an outfit I was looking at and hoping to make enough extra money to buy it a lot of guys love the idea of getting you dressed up in something brand new that you can wear for them. Men love to watch a girl get excited about a gift he gives her. They know we expect the money, but if we say there's a necklace, purse, dress..... we've been saving up for and they come in with it then that sets them apart from all the other customers. Clearly not everyone is going to do this, but regulars usually will.

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    I don't agree that you have to imply you'll date them. I have known girls, one whose regular payed for her honeymoon, and another who bought her a house as a wedding gift. Different girls, different custies. The point is they were honest about their real relationships & didn't play with the guys emotions. They weren't expecting anything OTC, they just saw the ITC relationship as helping each other out. He had the money to give her whatever she wanted and somehow hanging out in the club with her was incredibly valuable to him. Clearly these are extreme cases but I've noticed that for myself and most of the girls I know who have had good regulars we will usually have conversations about our boyfriends and their families. For a guy to want to keep coming back to see you he has to feel like he has something real with you.

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