What does a dancer want in a boyfriend? Besides the obvious of course. Obviously any girl will be looking for a guy who she has chemistry with, who makes her laugh, who really listens to what she has to say, who is not obsessed with jealousy, who treats her like a queen and makes her feel adored. Me, as a guy, those are not things I have any problem with and I think it starts with meeting the right person and being very honest with each other from the get-go. And perhaps a guy should be pretty good looking if he wants to go out with a dancer.
I'm a romantic guy actually, and I come here with a specific question. Unlike probably most of the men who come to this page, I don't really go out to the clubs too often (less than ten times ever); but I have always had a fascination with the women in this profession, not because of their looks or the skin but something about it intrigues me. When I see a dancer I don't think "boy I want to see this or that", I think, "man it would be great to have a drink with her and find out what her perspective is and what she thinks about the world." More than anything else I think about what it must take to impress such a girl who has probably heard everything.
Specifically I am an attractive 35 year old male in what is called the cuckold lifestyle, and this means I want to have a monogamous relationship with a girl who is not monogamous to me.
I want to be that guy who takes care of a girl, gives her a relaxing place to come home to, does pretty much everything for her, helps her get ready, helps her prepare to go out on dates (I am hoping to find a Lady who has a really high sex drive and prefers alpha males for sex), while I stay at home fixing her dinner, cleaning the house, doing the housework, ready to make her feel peaceful and relaxed when she is all done - I have lived this lifestyle through my past four relationships over ten years and its not wishful thinking, but finding a Lady who can really take advantage of it is difficult. There is a bit of S/m to this kind of relationship where the female is as dominant as she chooses. I am the guy who is giving, nurturing, funny, sunshine to your day, the cure for your hangover.
Sadly I think most of the women who would really enjoy this lifestyle are generally unaware of it while at the same time the women who are into it sometimes not suited for it. I have thought therefore a number of times, how would a guy go about meeting the caliber of Lady who could really use what such a guy has to give but are probably sometimes left with just who they meet in their job to choose from - you have to go there to meet them but if you guy there you are just another customer, not that I mind being a customer but its always been the Woman, not the Body, that I am interested, and you don't get to meet the Person when you go to 'The Club'.
So the question is, how do you meet 'The Person' instead of just 'The Persona', and does this sound outlandish?
Thanks - Blue Eyes.



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We are regular gals whom you wouldn't be able to pick out in a line-up of average chicks OTC. In all honesty, the hottest we are is probably when we are IN the club. Otherwise we or most of us, don't wear makeup and we probably don't dress to the nines outside the club. We are also usually not very horny when we get home and we probably hate being touched most of the time. Still interested?!

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