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    Last edited by silk55; 10-03-2011 at 09:51 AM.
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    Default Re: Plenty of Fish = Adult Friend Finder lol

    This makes me so paranoid... Urgh. Still laughed though!

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    Default Re: Plenty of Fish = Adult Friend Finder lol

    Wow why is that site filled with the worst of douchebags. lol

    Actually I recall being hit on by a guy last year at the gas station. Was in a rush but he was like do you have a bf. I said no of course and then he said "Do you like fish". I was like yes! ***pointing at a very nice high end lounge where they serve a nice seared ahi tuni*** . This guy was like ooh I'm a chef and cook great meals (standing there with semi-dirty hands). Hmm ok. So I said well I have to go he was like wait give me your number (begging) so I said it really fast as I rushed off.

    Later I think : now why did I give this guy my number? I'm not attracted to him nor do I even want him calling. ( usually this is why guys ask : you're in a rush and will do anything to get them out of your face).

    So I was hoping that this guy would have lost my number or wrote it down wrong. But no luck he did call . I was thinking I'm going to have to let this guy down gently or keep him in the forever friend box where I never ever meet him ever.

    So he left a vm while I was sleeping.
    Texts me the next evening.
    This is how things go

    Me: Hi, sorry I missed your call the other night.
    Him: I just woke up
    Me: ooh cool
    Him: Where do you live and who do you live with?

    Now at this point I was like nevermind with putting him in the friend box. He's a loser just tell him you're not interested and he can move on to his next conquest of free ass. Plus this questioning says: where are you? Can I bend you over today, I hope you don't have roommates. Plus any guy saying "I'm a good cook" generally means I'm too cheap to take you out. So a $3.00 meal and sex please? Haa Or Maybe I can crash and eat your food too. He's a loser without the polish of not coming off like one. Since he was bold enough to be a douche I figured there was no need to be nice about not being interested. So this is how the conversation finishes.....

    Me: I'm not interested
    Him: wait wait don't you want to get to know each other?
    Me: I'm just not interested
    Him: well wait how about we meet out at a club ***notice the term "meet"
    Me: I'm just not interested
    Him: F*** YOU STUPID B***H, WHY THE F*** DID YOU GIVE ME YOUR NUMBER C**T!!
    Me: Thanks for that, I was waiting for you to show your true self See now you already know why I'm not interested Have a nice day!
    Him: YOU F****** CU** B***H , I HOPE YOU DIE YOU DUMB C**T.

    I realize that there is a whole new level of young douchebag out there and POF is just one of those sites that seems to promote that behavior.

    His anger was just shocking. I couldn't believe the language on this guy. I mean who gets that nasty with rejection? It was like he felt I took something from him that he prepaid for.

    But yes there is a whole new level of loser out there now and the funny thing is women are actually bending over for them.

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    Default Re: Plenty of Fish = Adult Friend Finder lol

    fyi most bodybuilders are douchebags
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    I've posted my experience on POF before but I'll mention it again. Basically, I posted an ad looking for a never married, childless guy 35-45 looking to eventually get married. Pretty simple and straightforward, right? Except those types of guys (which still exist)rarely contacted me. Instead I got much older, including men in their 70's, men just looking for sex (many asked for nude photos), and many men who were divorced or never married with kids. One of my "favorites" was an unemployed guy (unemployed with no skills, not just unemployed)with 4 kids from 3 different women he refused to marry looking for a woman to support him (and no doubt the kids).

    The guys with kids though were a bigger problem than the guys wanting sex. I would have guys with kids call me names and how dare I not want to date them. I ended up getting banned on POF because of this. Apparently if so many people block you then you are banned. I never asked these guys to contact me.

    The forums there are worse full of losers. I posted asking why all these losers were contacting me and several posters told me that the men I want don't want me because I am "too old" for them. That because I am 40 (actually 39 at that time)I should be looking at guys 55+. Why would I want a man that age? What would we have in common?

    Right now I have a few profile on a Catholic site and once my finances get better I'll join that one. There are many of the type of guy I want and I'm sure one of them would be interested. However, I am still getting messages mostly from divorced dads (who shouldn't even be on a Catholic site)so who knows.

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    My POF experience so far has been no bueno. Liars, dickpics, and liars. I think when I move from my current city there may be an upgrade in guys. I've met better guys from myspace, migente, and blackplanet.

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    ^^^^it's the same with chix. my conclusion is online dating is for damaged goods
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    My experience with POF has been mixed.

    I met a guy that had a lot of good qualities, turned out to be a prick.

    Lots of weirdos messaging me--fatties, old men, gangstas, punks, losers, etc.

    Two of the guys I went out with were "good guys"--but one of them was very loud and discussed how his friend was shot and killed in his arms very loudly in front of a table full of strangers at a hibachi restaurant...on the first date. He also got very drunk. The other one was a pretty nice guy, but he was too boring. He had almost no interesting stories, he has never drank alcohol, he seemed a bit too inexperienced for me.

    One of them was in the Air Force. One of them was in the Marine Corps. One of them was in the National Guard.
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    Default Re: Plenty of Fish = Adult Friend Finder lol

    I've met ok guys and considered dating one. He was hot, had a corporate job but wasn't stuffy. But he was tooooo eager to get physical. Ah well. Great kisser though.

    Another one had promise and after chatting for an hour I gave him my number. I told him I was making and eating lunch. That was cool until 20 minutes later he kept calling and calling. He was waaay too eager.
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    Quote Originally Posted by silk55 View Post
    ^^^^it's the same with chix. my conclusion is online dating is for damaged goods
    I'm beginning to think so too. Basically, the people too ugly/stupid/fat/whatever to find someone on their own. Ever notice though these are often the pickiest people? I could state I want only hot thin guys on my profile but that is silly. However, doesn't stop the ugliest from doing it. I thought it was just a woman issue but a guy friend showed me a profile of a woman with "curves" who wanted a man in shape and a good job. Did I mention in her profile it states she's on public assistance, has 4 kids and her curves are flab (she must weigh 300 pounds).

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    I've seen many posts from women on sites that have grocery lists of the thing they want in guys they're looking for. "You must be this, that, this, this, this, this, this, that, and this." What are the odds that you're ever going to find someone that matches all of those qualifications, let alone on a dating site? What happened to actually talking to people?

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    I understand having a list of requirements because some things don't work for everyone (dads and obese are issues I couldn't bend). However when people are picky in terms of looks then it gets weird, like must be a certain height, hair color, etc. Most of us have preferences in all of that but those things I'm sure we could bend.

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    The first 2 links didn't work for me. The third did and besides the stupidity of those guys I couldn't believe that the thread ran close to 300 pages

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    The sad thing is most of these men are so judgmental, childish & mean -yet most of them can't spell, bad grammar, hideous avi pics, etc....

    Its like people in glass houses throwing stones..lol!

    I just look at online dating as a whole new frontier for rejection -I'd just much rather avoid it, right.... Besides, I already have enough trolls in real life that won't leave me alone....why go find more on the interwebz....? hahah
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    haha excellent link. i love that they were actually calling each other 'brah' and not in an ironic way. and so many shirtless pics taken in the mirror with a phone. lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by silk55 View Post
    ^^^^it's the same with chix. my conclusion is online dating is for damaged goods
    Soooooo true. the women are just as bad as the men. I got my own list of horror stories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bennu View Post
    Soooooo true. the women are just as bad as the men. I got my own list of horror stories.

    Now, I'm curious & wanna see what the girls do, too. I've never forayed into the online dating pool, so you guys have my curiosity peeked
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    You ladies need to look at that link again. I went in about 5-6 pages and these losers were actually taking naked pictures of the women they slept with. Can you believe that? Theses girls were actually coming over to bend over for these losers and these guys took pictures with their camera phones and posted it there. I mean they actually talked about how dumb women are and how they promise forever and marriage and get laid.

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    Yeah, alot of the pic were removed. It was very disheartening, but unfortunately these women were dumb enough to pose for pics, sleep w/, or send those type pics & messages right out of the gate. So both parties are in the wrong. Don't get me wrong, some of my exes have some nudie or dirty pics of me, but they sure as hell weren't first time meet & greets w/ some random dude I met on the interwebz.
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    I have two friends who met on POF and they are now engaged
    I don't do online dating though lol
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    My buddy went on a POF date. I was over with another friend at his house. Some red flags came up when we chatted:

    1. The chick said she would meet him at his house (ummm HELLO what if he was a creeper?) LoL

    2. She made the dinner reservations

    3. Send nudie pix after 5 txt's

    4. would not show face in nudie pix

    and a few others.

    Turns out when she showed up at the door she was at least 250lbs and around 5'2. The POF pix she had were from 7 years ago and before having 3 kids 2 of them with different baby daddies. none of this was ever mentioned in the POF profile. Also turned out the nudie pix came from googled lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by silk55 View Post
    My buddy went on a POF date. I was over with another friend at his house. Some red flags came up when you chatted:

    1. The chick said she would meet him at his house (ummm HELLO what if he was a creeper?) LoL

    2. She made the dinner reservations

    3. Send nudie pix after 5 txt's

    4. would not show face in nudie pix

    and a few others.

    Turns out when she showed up at the door she was at least 250lbs and around 5'2. The POF pix she had were from 7 years ago and before having 3 kids 2 of them with different baby daddies. none of this was ever mentioned in the POF profile. Also turned out the nudie pix came from googled lol

    so....did you still bang her?

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    Quote Originally Posted by lemiwinks31 View Post
    so....did you still bang her?
    tried too but she wanted to eat me
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    . However, I am still getting messages mostly from divorced dads (who shouldn't even be on a Catholic site)so who knows.
    I'm a Catholic and I am curious why you think a divorced Catholic shouldn't be on a dating website for Catholics?

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    Quote Originally Posted by LAChloe View Post
    I'm a Catholic and I am curious why you think a divorced Catholic shouldn't be on a dating website for Catholics?
    Because a Catholic who is divorced without an annulment is not allowed to marry in the church. Since the church doesn't allow divorced Catholics to remarry in the church, the site itself says that those who are divorced should only be on there as looking for friends, not a partner.

    I have put in my profile that I will never accept a man who has children and a living exspouse so please don't contact me. Luckily most seem to pass me by and had a few contact me who were either never married with no kids (my preference)or men with annulled marriages and no kids. These situations are case by case.

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