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    Default Fellow tall girls: help me be sexy

    Thanks to my parents, I'm ridiculously tall (6', plus 3'' heels) and when lately I'm with guys, especially short guys, I've really started to notice it. I feel kinda awkward and I get really worried about how I'm holding my body and things like that, to the point where I just don't feel natural. And the club I work at is really small, so I feel like it just emphasises my height and makes me feel even bigger.

    I know how to look gorgeous, I know how to be admired and when a guy's my height everything's fine but not many of them are. So, other tall girls, how do do you cope with it and make it work for you?

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    Default Re: Fellow tall girls: help me be sexy

    i've never actually seen it as a problem. i think the taller, the better. did you grow early in middle/high school? maybe that self-consciousness about being taller than boys is still with you.

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    Default Re: Fellow tall girls: help me be sexy

    Men Love tall women! I always say you can buy boobs but you can't fake long legs! Alot of men love long legs and stockings. If you are worried wear stockings they not only make your legs look better then cut down on the height. I personally only wear my 7 inch heels for my fetish guys normally I don't go higher than a 6 inch heel. Alot of shorter men have a fetish for tall girls! Embrace your height alot of girls you work with are probly envious of it.

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    I'm 5'11" and my height was a really big concern for me before I started stripping...to the point that I brought two pairs of heels with me the day I went to my club to audition: a 2" pair of heels and a 6" pair of heels. I was getting changed and I asked the girl who was kind of showing me around and telling me house rules which pair to wear (thinking for sure she'd say the 2" pair so I wouldn't look like a freakin giraffe ) and she said "the 6" pair, definitely". And she was so right. I've never looked back.

    I tower over most of the guys in the club but it's not really noticeable until I've made the sale for a VIP dance anyways, then it comes up when we are walking to the private booths. If a guy mentions it I always do what was suggested to me by some helpful SWers. I say "I think I'm the perfect height for you" while jiggling my boobs (which are usually at their eye level lol). Or I kind of coyly say "I'm cheating a little" and extend my leg in a sexy way to show them my six inch heels (which gets them focused on my long legs). They seem to love it! And I make good money so I'm pretty sure height doesn't have to get in the way of your earnings.

    I think the key is to just own it! Some of the guys who have spent the most money on me have been REALLY short. It's weird to me since the attraction doesn't really go the other way (I'm not really attracted to guys unless they're taller than me) but Ive definitely noticed that A LOT of guys don't mind or are even especially attracted to taller girls. Good luck! And I hope that helps

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    I'm 5'10" - in school I used to HATE being tall! But I totally embrace it now & love rocking high heels Guys in the club always compliment my lovely long legs, and short guys like when I tower over them. Something I once saw as a curse, I wouldn't want any other way.

    Like everyone else has stated, OWN it & strut your stuff!

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    I'm 5'7" and I know that doesn't seem tall compared to the supermodels who posted b4 me but most of the time (in the club & my everyday life) I'm one of the tallest girls around. I used to hate being "the tall girl" but now I embrace it. It takes confidence to tower above people with your head held high but confidence always outshines everything else in the room. People are drawn to confident, secure women; they want to know why you carry yourself with so much pride. Learn to flaunt what you've got girl! Like mentioned above you can buy fake boobs, but you can't buy long sexy legs!

    I always wear 5 to 7 inch heels so I'm usually 6' to 6'2" at work & even when I'm just out with friends I wear typically 5 or 4 inch heels so not much difference. I still consider myself tall. (I've been told I was my whole life)
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    I'm only 5'9", but I had plenty of problem getting hired in several clubs because with my heels (I'm a big fan of the 8" heels) I look really tall. Why? I'm usually just as tall or taller than the poles, or if I'm doing floor moves, my lower body is longer than the stage (I've seen many stages that are long, but very narrow), etc. Even wearing shorter heels (I tried to switch to the 6" heels), is the same problem.

    This example I'm giving here is from a club that only has stage shows, no dances to sell.





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    Default Re: Fellow tall girls: help me be sexy

    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    I'm only 5'9", but I had plenty of problem getting hired in several clubs because with my heels (I'm a big fan of the 8" heels) I look really tall. Why? I'm usually just as tall or taller than the poles, or if I'm doing floor moves, my lower body is longer than the stage (I've seen many stages that are long, but very narrow), etc. Even wearing shorter heels (I tried to switch to the 6" heels), is the same problem.

    This example I'm giving here is from a club that only has stage shows, no dances to sell.
    I'm not sure this really relates to this thread...it's kind of discouraging rather than information for the OP to "help her be sexy" as she requested.

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    ^Well, not all clubs are suite for taller girls; I learned that the hard way.

    If getting a job in a club because of height is such a hassle, try another one.





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    Default Re: Fellow tall girls: help me be sexy

    I'm 5'10 and my height has never been a problem for me. Guys love it! I wear 7" heels too.

    Guys will love the height, there may be some that don't though. Stand tall, head up! make sure you have good posture. Walk with cofidence and your head held high! That's sexy!

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    Default Re: Fellow tall girls: help me be sexy

    Thanks for the advice, girls! I'm planning on moving to a bigger club so I don't feel like I take up so much space, and I might add a couple more inches heel height

    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    ^Well, not all clubs are suite for taller girls; I learned that the hard way.

    If getting a job in a club because of height is such a hassle, try another one.
    It's not getting a job that's the problem (but thanks anyway), it's not feeling too tall and awkward around the customers when I'm working!

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    Default Re: Fellow tall girls: help me be sexy

    @ the OP

    I'm 5'10 and been wearing 5" heels since I started dancing about 2 mths ago. Now I'm seriously thinking of buying 6 inchers! Never had a problem - guys love my height. When I get "you're so tall" type comments (usually they say it w. some admiration and an appreciative gaze down my body) I smile sexily and say "that just means there's more of me to love!" Never fails. Stop worrying about your height and focus on being the sexy woman you are.

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    Well as long as you move in a gracious way height doesn't matter. In fact I knew a dancer 5'11'' with small breasts and she made amazing money in the UK. She was extremely confident and loved herself though. I also work with many tall Eastern Europeans. Being tall makes you stand out in a sea of girls and when I wear my 8'' super high stripper shoes guys love it, they love being overpowered by an Amazonian woman!

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    Default Re: Fellow tall girls: help me be sexy

    I'm 5'8" and I wear 8 1/2" heels. I love being the tallest girl there. My height and short hair help me stand out and I love how lean I look in the really tall platforms. Plus they're a great conversation starter - the men can't believe I walk around so easily in them, haha. OTC, however, I generally wear flats. Not because of a height issue, but more for comfort. I've yet to find a pair of heels as comfortable as my 8 1/2" platforms.

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    I'm a shortie, only 5'4", so from my perspective I notice a lot of guys, especially the short ones, saying they want a tall girl. Guys love tall women, be proud of it because I'm a little jealous.

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    Girl embrace ur gift! Do u know how many short girls who would luv to be tall? Guys LOVe tall women! Ummm models are what? tall n beautiful! I am 6ft and always wear 6 inch heels and i consider myself a top earner. My teammate is 6'3 and wears 6 inch heels too! They always refer to us as the twin towers. As they say guys love the long legs and often envision them wrapped around them or in positions we know not but they love u...don't get it twisted . Work it and get that dough!

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