P.S. This is not ment to anyone in particular.



P.S. This is not ment to anyone in particular.





Really? Is it not safe to assume since you posted in this thread you are talking to the ones here in this thread that have complained about it being slow?
All the "you you you" that you threw around seems pretty direct to me. Perhaps "girls who do this or that" would have been more clear.
xoxo ~ Sarah
Sarah I get your point but I also get Ladyjahn's, some girls need to be told and reminded how good we have it.
Even when I was a stripper and making bank and not making bank, we would bitch about going home with less than $100 or $500... Some people dont even make that in a week or a month and we could make it in a day.
Yeah, its been real shitty and yeah, we have every right to moan about it but yeah we need to make the best of it and remember that this business, like everything else, has its ups and downs.
"Sex is currency. What's the use of being beautiful if you can't profit from it?" - Lily St Cyr (40's burlesque dancer)





Oh no I totally get what she's trying to say... and I don't think anyone should sugar coat it or anything... but it could have been a lot less confrontational in nature.
Sometimes I want to kick myself in the face when I complain about "only making $60/hr" as a "slow" night. I get it. But there's no need for the hostility.
I guess I interpreted it that way because of the "you" this and "you" that as opposed to speaking of these types of girls in general. Yah, if a girl is sitting there with a shitty cam being a bitch banning every guy left and right then of course she's not making shit. That's pretty much a given, and I'm pretty sure that type is not the ones complaining here.
xoxo ~ Sarah
Lady's, it's Football season right? (I don't have a man right now so I have no idea what's going on in sports) Could that be part of it?
But I'm also bummed. I wanted a goal of $100 a day. But currently I've lowered it to $60 / day. Enough to keep me a float each month. If I happen to make more than my goal it can go towards savings when I make shit some days. :/




for talkin about skype shows or Im or alertpay in Private..... Trust me i dont even speak in free chat......Damn them I swear he must have snitched me out!!!!!
I hate that shit.....these fools beg for skype and off site shows.....then you have to agree with them so i can stay in the show longer.....but when you dont do the shows or lie about your screen name they turn around a go snitch you out to get the final laugh!!!!!
I feel like im in the French Revolution!!!!!! "Sooooo Many heads sooooo little time!!"



"you"- as the one who do nothing other then sit in front of the grainy cam and bitch...
I wasn't talking about girls like yourself who actually work and try the best they can, I am a wife and a mother and I know how difficult it is to be on cam after a long day. I am talking about the girls who do NOTHING other then bitch... I am not going as far as naming girls, you know who you are... There is so much here about SM sucking now, and I admit, it has been better, but if you make NO money, then it is not the site- it is the girl, how many times did I asked (as a paying member, who actually do pvts and gold shows) for the girl to adjust the settings of the cam or sound and almost every time get told to check my computer... I am talking about the girls who cry all day long "whats wrong with me", but are too insecure to take constructive criticism... ... that's all i am saying...




I agree with this 100%. If one is not making money one needs to question what they are doing, not the site.
I suggest the following to cam girls in general:
1. Check your settings and make sure the audio is enabled and everything else is where it should be.
2. Check your room experience by going on another computer and viewing your room. I find this very helpful! Or if you don't have another computer at home you can check your room by just using another browser or tab within the browser you use.
3. Smile, act friendly, do some light banter.
4. play some music
5. If you are not making money and traffic is slow log out and do what you want/need to do around the house. Check back a few hours later.
Some days are like pulling teeth, while others it will seem like money is falling from the sky.
A good quote to sum this all up is "you can plan a pretty picnic but you can't predict the weather" from the song "Mrs Jackson" by outkast.
You can have all the right qualities of a good cam girl, but you really can't predict how much money you will make.
hello jalyn
I actually feel insulted by your post.
The way you chose to express your feelings on this one subject shows you are more bitter then all of us who complained today.
I mean seriously, do u think ur the only one who goes and checks out other girls? we all do it. We know how a good camera looks like, we know it all. We are not dumb.We see them and hear them too. I dont think there is 1 cam girl who never checked out other models... especially the top models...
Im doing this for 10 years.
If I say its slow, its damn slow.
I know what slow means by now.
lol Sarah, you are way too nice.............
Plz no moar fightzzz!
I just want to bitch and moan in peace. Plzkthnx.
Yes, it has been very slow. Hopefully due to football.![]()




the strange thing is if you look at alexa, there's always a traffic spike on sm on the weekends, even during football season. it's just the traffic spike lately doesn't seem to be translating into money.
i don't think i should need permission to call it slow on days when i work several hours only to clear barely over minimum wage after you take into account the taxes i pay. actually, i think i have a right to bitch with other cam girls who are going through similar things if i feel like it, period.
thank god for splitcamming and multiple income streams.
I just don't see the point in posting something like this...
You don't know what kind of cam girl i am and by you posting this it makes it seem as though you're talking about me and some of the girls who posted in this thread. I never come on here complaining about everything involving camming. I am not a bitch to the guys. I smile. I talk (even if they're not paying), my cam settings are superb, i don't ban guys left and right... actually....i don't really do any of the things you posted and i'm sure neither do the rest of these girls. We bust our asses working every day! It was just slow today.....and NOT because i was being a shitty cam girl but because guys were being really cheap today
I would just appreciate it if a fight wasn't brought up for no apparent reason. It's super negative and it makes you sound bitter and rude. Lighten up!
This is a forum. I think i'm allowed to rant every once in a while, as are the other girls. If you're sick of posts like these then don't read them. I promise i won't be offended
Anywayyyyy...I hate sports and bills! They always seem to take away good, paying traffic lol.
I'm not working tonight. I'm just going to try again tomorrow morning and if I get nothing then oh well (even though i hope i get something lol). Then the rest of the weekend i'm spending with my man and hopefully all of our custies will have tons of money to spend on us next week!!
I'm going to sleep!! See ya later ladies!![]()



SM is my bff tonight lol I started off on MFC which is my site of choice and that was an absolute bust! I think camming just sucks tonight in general lol SM has been pretty good to me thus far tho. It could be better, but I'm making way more than I was on MFC tonight and it's never been this way around! Hmm Go figure lol
~We Be Hustlin', Bitches Be Hatin'~



Okay I actually like football and I will say that sometimes being the girl who can talk about the game helps. Though my team is sucking balls this season![]()
LadyJalyn, there's a right way and wrong way of saying things. You should know that. Read your message before posting
I hate SM, but do it because I'm on DP. I bank more on MFC though. Love it there!
This week I haven't worked as many hours as I usually do, but for the hours I worked, I can say that I have never had days that were so bad, even during my first week. Lots of "wow", "you're hot", etc. etc., and "show this and show that". But very few willing to pay for private or gold shows.
I know some girls already have a large following, or have the "porn star" title and will always do at least ok no matter what, and some may just happen to do well on a day that is bad for most everyone else, however, many of the ones I saw getting many gold show pledges this week were girls that were spreading their bare pussy open for the guys. Every single one I saw doing that had full rooms and lots of pledges. JUST NOT FAIR.
This specially bothers me because, just this week, some model reported me for taking my clothes off right before a gold show was about to start, after reaching the goal. I didn't even show my pussy or anything, but she reported that I was doing bottom nudity in free chat. I know it was a model because she also reported me for one other thing that I had written on my gold show description that the gold show rules say that we are not supposed to write in a gold show description, which is any pricing. Only another model would know that because the guys don't have access to those rules.
I was not suspended because, since I really didn't show my pussy or bare ass, she didn't have a screenshot to prove the bottom nudity claim, but I did receive an email telling me about being reported, like a warning.
Now, why she went after me is a mystery to me. With all these girls REALLY doing open pussy bottom nudity, why didn't she go after them? It is so easy to get screenshots of many of those girls because they really do bottom nudity and do it for a long time. At least if she had reported them, maybe I would have had a few more guys in my room instead of seeing so many of them watching the free pussy show of those girls who should be reported, suspended, or terminated for breaking rules.
When the traffic is particular bad, just look around and you will probably find a concentration of guys watching some girl spreading their pussy for them. And the worse is that it works and the more they show for free, the more money they make, and the the more unlikely it is that SM will ever suspend or ban them.



OMG I had one person in all my years of camming come into my room and say my cam settings were off lol..this was the other day on SM too..and I just blocked them lmao. You know why your getting blocked sweetie is because any girl thats been camming for years knows its another model...come on really? lol.
ANYWAYS...lately, I been noticing alot of randoms coming into my free chat just talking shit right away. For example, "bitch, your cheap, your stupid." I just ban them and report them right away. Don't feed into it..thats what they want. Anyways, I noticed there were alot of girls who were saying they are getting this as well. Ladies, I think we all know whats going on. Sounds like we got alot of haters on the site. Not saying its any of you models in the threads but I know alot of those girls that are haters read these threads but dont post in here. So, to all those models who come in and talk shit like that in the free chat..no, your not gonna get me off the site..and u better believe that all that hatin is gonna make me work harder and bank more. I actually laugh at it cause it just makes me know i'm doing something rightha! But really...just do you and i'm gonna do me..ya heard? Like seriously, its such a waste of time..I don't get it. That could be time for you to be making your own dough. And what is really psycho is that i'm in privates back to back and i'm hardly ever in free chat and these hatin peeps still get it in lol. Its kinda funny actually.
Oh, and another thing...if any of you ladies are getting ratings of 1's after about 30 seconds of show..i think we all know whats up there too. Its not that your giving a bad show. I guess if your in the top spots and your getting privates back to back and your hot as hell..it comes with the territory. Block them and don't forget to REPORT them..its important cause these sites know who it is with the IP addresses. There not stupid. Keep hustlin hard ladies and don't let the hatin ones get to uit means your doing something right =)
MzStar a model probably told on you, eh I highly bet one did.
and SM is pretty brutal with the overly specific comments (aka models talking to other models) - Ive seen "hey your wig is crooked", "lol too much concealer bitch", "you wore that yesterday" "are you going to sit in the same position all day? lol" "wow, no one is ever going to give you gold this isnt mfc" and so on in a bunch of rooms. Those are model-on-model insults. I tend to only driveby lurk in rooms within my niches (I rarely stay more than a few mins at a time b/c I hate lurkers too) but if I see that kind of stuff within minutes over a few months it must happen frequently.
Cut it out.
It is a cutthroat industry (it really shouldnt be but I know it is getting more an more competitive - there are more graceful ways to deal with competition) but you'd be the first to be upset if that happened to you, so cut that shit out.
A model having poor cam settings = more customers for you. You cam, you know she can see herself,making motherly comments is stupid. if you want to help girls out then post here and leave it be. We're not house moms, cut it out. If you actually want to help a model go to her room and tell the room to tip her (Ive done this) and remind the guy's of the rules if theyre being overly 'get naked bb' freeloading - THAT would be "helpful", anything else is hostile.
I dont know if I said cut it out enough - but good god almighty cut it out.
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