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lmao!!!!
its thanksgiving in canada..the 2nd monday of october
dont feel bad tho..i learned this in my first year of camming. i had this guy kept talking to me about thanksgiving and what are you gonna eat and are u seeing family, etc. i was thinking like wtf do u have a thanksgiving fetish or something?? well then i learned he was from canada and thanksgiving was the next day...oops![]()
"Achieving success is a challenge but so is struggling so you may as well choose success."



Ya you know what this Friday was great for me, but last night (Saturday) was horrible, And also the site seemed to be having issues 4 me. I use the encoder, I read the posts about changing my encoder to 3.1 instead of 3.2 and the bit rate and frame rate, I'm going to give it a try tonight, see if it makes a difference.
yes, Monday is the day, up in the Great White North, where we celebrate small-pox blankets and the Indian Act
I just wanted to throw my unsolicited opinion in here, in response to Lights' post:
On one level, I get whatcha mean...we're smart chicas, so if someone is NOT making really good $$$ consistently they need to find some way to change that, either as cammers or in another field (which I thiiink was what Ladyjalyn was trying to get at). However, the fact that this forum is filled with tips on cams, motivation, lighting schemes, strategic planning for privates, schedules, etc, shows me that the women who are participating in this thread do take this job seriously, and deserve to be able to vent when they feel it's warranted.
That said, I've found this job way less stressful and I make way more $$$ since I learned to not perceive the job, or my $$$ for the day, as a reflection of myself as a human being. How much I make has no bearing on how good I feel about myself...I am simply selling a product that may or may not be to the personal tastes of any given customer. If a customer wants a blond with huge tits who does anal, I won't make a sale, and that's fine with me.
We SHOULD be making way more $$$ than stocking shelves at the mall, and most of us do, most of the time, but either way, we're selling a product just the same, and that product isn't 'us'. I used to really personalize the job, and it fucked with my head a lil. We're in sales, ultimately, and every sales job involves rejection, at some point.
I guess this post was inspired by something I read on Tits n Sass (merci Roast) which dealt with the differentiation between selling our labor and selling ourselves. I can and do have shared personal experiences with my customers during my shows, but the particulars of any given interaction are NOT personal to me. I want to have fun and make $$$, not find personal validation for my worth, sexually or otherwise. It makes life hella easier, I find.
Just my
Peace chicas, have a wicked day![]()
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Its also thanksgiving in Germany (actually theirs was a few days ago and culminates with the beginning oktoberfest I believe) and South Korea and some other countries right now too.
I believe it was president Roosevelt that actually wanted the American Thanksgiving pushed to the end of October/beginning of November. In my opinion this would have been more correct date....but that's just my opinion.
I just love that having a Canadian boyfriend means I get 2 thanksgiving every year
lol wut?
wow $50 an hr, that sounds like alot i make like around $20 an hr, but i dont do sex toys, phone chat, or anal
MFC sucks for me right now, grrrr. I know there are up and down days money wise, but I hate when they just stare at you, don't tip, don't talk, nothing.
At least talk back to me damn it! It makes the slow hours go by faster, lol.




Hmmm....ups and downs
I feel like im in the French Revolution!!!!!! "Sooooo Many heads sooooo little time!!"
Sm is not fir everyone
does anyone else hate alertpay! i wish they still used paypal. i can't withdraw fundsanyone know how get funds out from there?
and what do you guys mean that SM is not for everyone?





You do know that using PayPal for adult industry stuff is never a good idea, right?
And if you don't know why, then I suggest you search the PayPal/payment methods threads on here, and read the stickied threads.
As for your other question...some girls prefer to work on sites where public video chat isn't mandatory, where models get a higher percentage than 35%, their private shows don't get sold, and guys don't get FREE 30 seconds of private chat.
Some girls like SM and dislike MFC, and vice-versa. What works for one cam girl may not work for the other.
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